A young man in Zhejiang complained about his wife on an online social platform, which aroused the attention and discussion of many netizens. According to the guy, he and his wife were both married for the second time, and the woman also had three other children when they got married. Although the woman's conditions are not superior in today's society, the guy still chose to be with her, one of the reasons is that the woman is beautiful and has a good figure, and it is very face-saving to take it out.
However, life after marriage is not as the guy wants. He found that his wife was spending lavishly, and the money she earned each month would soon be spent. What made him feel even more pressured was that his wife did not have the idea of sharing the financial pressure for him, and the family's income was all supported by him alone.
At the beginning, the guy was quite satisfied with this marriage, because his wife was very diligent and better to her parents-in-law than her ex-wife. However, after a long time, the guy began to feel tired. He felt that his wife was nothing but good-looking, and no matter how good the family was, he couldn't bear such expenses.
Netizens have a lot of discussions about this. Some people think that it is unfair for the guy to complain about his wife, because although the woman does not have a job, she takes care of all the housework in the house, and also takes care of her three children and in-laws. There are also those who believe that both spouses are responsible, and that it is wrong for one spouse to only see the other's shortcomings and ignore the other's contribution to the family.
Married life is not only sweet and romantic, but also needs to be borne and paid by both parties. If you only value each other's strengths and ignore their shortcomings, or only see each other's shortcomings and ignore each other's contributions, it is difficult for such a marriage to last. I hope that everyone can be more understanding and tolerant when facing marriage, and work together to create a happy family.