With the development of society, more and more women choose to be independent and pursue their careers and lives. However, for some women, their criteria for choosing a mate have become the biggest obstacle to their marriage.
In the blind date market, many older leftover women hold the principle of "not compromising", they hope to find an all-round match, otherwise they will not compromise. However, this principle has become the biggest obstacle to their marriage.
There is a girl next to me, Miss Shen, 37 years old this year, graduated from graduate school, beautiful appearance, is a teacher, and the conditions are not bad. According to common sense, she should be easy to find a partner, but she has always been single and has become an older leftover girl in the eyes of people. The reason is that her criteria for choosing a mate are very unrealistic: the man is required to have a graduate degree or above, a height of no less than 170, a monthly salary of more than 30,000 yuan, and a full-payment house.
In the process of blind date, Miss Shen almost didn't look down on the men on the blind date, some gave up after meeting once, and some directly denied it without even giving them the opportunity to meet. This principle of "not compromising" made her miss a lot of fate, and she could only continue to wait until a truly high-quality man appeared. However, from a practical point of view, how can there be quality men left?As long as the men's conditions are good, they have long been preempted by the young girls around them.
There are still many leftover women like Miss Shen, who participate in blind dates with the principle of "no compromise", but in the end they find it difficult to find high-quality men in the blind date market. This principle will not only become the biggest obstacle to their marriage, but also the biggest factor in their delay in getting married.
Therefore, for older leftover women, they should look at the criteria for choosing a mate rationally and not be too demanding. At the same time, you must also learn to let go of the obsession in your heart, face the reality bravely, and actively look for your other half. After all, marriage is a major event in life, and missing the right moment can bring a lifetime of regrets.