Are you approaching marriage step by step, have you ever been in one or more silent nights, leaning against the window and meditating, the scene of entering the wedding hall with your lover flashed in your mind?Imagine and revel in the dreamlike atmosphere and the romantic sceneMarriage, a word that is close or far away from you, will it often appear in your thinking and talking?
Recently, news about a couple getting married has been constantly appearing on social **, and their names, ** and stories have been repeatedly mentioned by everyone. The pomp of their marriage, their love story, and their union have all become the talk of the public after dinner. It seems that while we are sending blessings to them, we are also reflecting on marriage itself: is marriage our own choice?Or is it the arrangement and destiny of fate?
Today, when more and more people are becoming more and more realistic, this is a question that many people are thinking about and even bothered by. Some people say that marriage is a matter for two people, as long as you truly love each other, you can cross the barrier of mountains and water;Some people think that marriage is destined and the arrangement of fate, as long as two people meet, they should boldly hold hands, open the marriage model, and create happiness that belongs to two people.
However, they often ignore the role and influence of the worldly vision and the human heart, which is becoming more and more realistic, on marriage, which in many cases will be greater and more profound than the barrier of mountains and rivers, and even determine whether two people who are ready to get married can finally come together. Therefore, you not only have to consider whether you are marrying for love or life, but at the same time, you have to consider the factors and resistance from all aspects of reality.
Only when the ideal light of love really shines into the reality of life, and the two reach a certain balance and harmony, can your marriage be understood and blessed by more people, and your marriage boat will sail more smoothly and happily move towards the ideal goal. Otherwise, the world's eyes and the resistance from reality will slowly drain all your stamina and energy, and your marriage will finally collapse in your own heart.
Therefore, whether you choose to get married is the result of love, or the fate or fate in people's impressions, you must remember that the worldly vision and more and more realistic people's hearts are all hurdles that you need to consider and cross, only in this way can you not be in a hurry when the resistance of reality suddenly comes, and even deal with it in a hurry, and finally lose.
Finally, I want to say that marriage is the choice and decision of two people, it means that the two people who are married will carry a piece of the future and face the stumbles and ups and downs of life together, but no matter what, it is a journey that requires hard work and dedication, and understanding and tolerance in this process are very important and essential, only in this way can your marriage go further, more stable and happier.