In the adult world, relationships are often broken for a simple reason.
This reason may be that WeChat messages are not responding.
Imagine sending a message with enthusiasm, expecting a response, only to receive silence.
This silence, like a basin of cold water, instantly extinguishes your enthusiasm and makes you disappointed.
When the other person is quiet, the best thing we can do is to remain calm and not disturb each other.
If you don't reply, you don't matter
The contacts in your address book can be divided into three categories: those who chat frequently, those who are superficially connected, and those who don't want to be dealt with. This quote reminds me of a junior high school classmate.
We haven't seen each other for many years, but by chance we got in touch and added WeChat to each other.
At first, we chatted speculatively, but as time went on, she replied less and less to my messages. I noticed that her reply was selective.
Clearly, she was weighing the value of the message and deciding whether to reply or not.
This shows that if someone doesn't reply to your messages, it may be because you are not that important in their minds.
Not replying is rejection
Is it so difficult to reply to WeChat?"This is the complaint of my colleague Xiao Li. He sent a new plan to customer A, expecting a reply, but was silent.
Later, he found out that client A had already signed a contract with another company. Xiao Li lost another opportunity because he kept his promise to A.
This made him understand that not replying was actually an unequivocal rejection.
If a person often doesn't respond to your messages, it could mean that they don't want to communicate with you.
In this case, you don't need to keep trying.
People who don't reply to messages are not worthy of deep friendship
Cai Kangyong once said: "If he misses you, he will look for you;If he cares about you, he will show it. If none of that happens, then you don't have to bother. When someone no longer responds to your messages, it often means that your relationship is drifting apart.
For example, the story of my friend Xiaoying and her ex-boyfriend Haoran. Initially, Haoran quickly replied to every message from Shadow, but gradually, he began to ignore Shadow's messages.
Once, Xiaoying fell ill and urgently needed Haoran's help, but his reaction was cold. This behavior shows Haoran's indifference to the relationship.
Xiaoying finally realizes that the relationship has come to an end and decides to break up.
True affection requires the efforts of both parties, not the unilateral pursuit of one person. If the other person doesn't respond to you, then there's no point in continuing to insist.
There is such a hot comment on Netease Cloud**: "There is a kind of respect, please reply when you receive it." No matter how busy you are, you should reply to someone's message, even if it's just a few words.
It's better to reply in good faith than to be silent. In the adult world, we should exchange sincerity for sincerity.
Those who see the message but don't reply to it are usually not worthy of our deep friendship.
Conclusion: There is such a sentence: "The most dignified goodbye for adults is to tacitly agree with each other not to disturb each other." Sometimes, not answering is a rejection.
If you haven't gotten a response on WeChat, then maybe it's time to stop waiting and set each other free.
Don't waste your time and life by waiting.