Joe Byron expressed: "For men, love is only an external existence, but for women, it forms the core of the whole life. ”
Indeed, when a woman is deeply in love with a man, she sees him as her whole world and is willing to make all the sacrifices she makes.
Women are usually unreservedly emotionally invested, eager to move from love to marriage, expecting to have a warm family.
However, men in life are often unable to love as unreservedly as women, and may be passionate at first, but over time, the heat gradually fades, and they may even abandon women.
Therefore, it is often women who are hurt in love, who give everything for each other and do not get their due return in the end.
This reminds women that when choosing a partner, they should not only focus on the man's appearance, but also have an in-depth understanding of his character and sense of responsibility.
Whether a man is worthy of marrying depends not only on his wealth, but also on his character and sense of responsibility. Until there is no commitment to marriage, women should try to avoid giving themselves rashly.
Marriage is very important for women, it symbolizes a lifetime commitment, so it is hoped that women will be sober when dealing with men and not be deceived by rhetoric.
Sooner or later, you will understand that there are three kinds of men who do not value their feelings, who are prone to having relationships with other members of the opposite sex, and who are not worth marrying even if they are rich.
1. If a man gets along well with all kinds of women and is very popular with women, this is actually an unfavorable phenomenon.
When you are in a relationship with this kind of man, it is difficult to really love because they simply cannot control themselves and like to have ambiguous relationships with other members of the opposite sex.
Even if you find out, they will make up a lot of excuses to prevaricate you, and they will think that you are too cautious and make you feel extremely aggrieved.
In fact, men who like to be ambiguous with the opposite sex often lack a bottom line and are prone to relationships. Their feelings are difficult to single-hand, and they won't take into account your feelings, so it's not worth giving.
Such men will meet women wherever they go, and you may feel unacceptable when you think about this. They are good at disguise and are also favored by the opposite sex, which will hurt you in your feelings.
Therefore, women should never be rash when they meet such men, they are not worthy of your emotional investment.
Even if this kind of man is rich, you should be self-disciplined and not believe the sweet words they say.
Starr famously said, "Love is a lifetime of history for a woman, but an episode for a man." ”
In life, many men are like this, they pursue women not really want beautiful love, but by nature, and like to be ambiguous with the opposite sex.
This kind of man has a bad character, is not dedicated in his feelings, and has no boundaries with the different **. Even, they deliberately confuse the boundaries of love and friendship to provide an excuse for their own indulgence.
Therefore, if a woman is teased by such a man, she must be cautious and not blindly follow the crowd in her relationship, so as not to regret it in the future.
Even if this kind of man has money, no matter how willing he is to spend money for you, don't be rash in his relationship, all their efforts have a price.
They may say they love you today, and they will say the same thing to other members of the opposite sex tomorrow, don't get caught up in this relationship that has no future, it's not worth it.
Second, I like to find a confidante, and I love inattentively In life, some men like to find a confidante the most, even if they already have a woman, they still feel that it is not enough, and they are eager to get a soul mate.
In the final analysis, the so-called confidante is actually a means for men to engage in ambiguity outside in the name of friendship.
If a woman is with this kind of man, it is difficult to get their sincere and dedicated love, and she may even feel very wronged. Because they don't know how to cherish the women around them, they are full of desire for outside emotions.
In fact, it is difficult to have a pure friendship between a man and a woman, and once one of the parties crosses the line, it is easy for the two to have a relationship.
Even if a man is able to restrain himself, the other person may step out of the boundary, and such a man will basically not reject the other person's feelings and have a relationship with the other person.
Therefore, when a woman is in a relationship with a man, she should see his nature clearly, and once she finds that he likes to find the so-called red face, it is best to stay away.
I've seen several male colleagues who are in a relationship with their girlfriend and find a confidante, and they not only have no boundaries about the relationship, but they also show off as if to show how attractive they are.
For example, there is a male colleague who already has a girlfriend who has been dating for three years, but is still in a close relationship with a female colleague in another department.
When asked, he claimed that the two were confidants, trying to hide it. In fact, everyone knows that he had an abnormal relationship with that female colleague.
At one point, I even saw him holding the female colleague's hand, and when I found him, they quickly let go. At work, they can stay that way, but it's hard to imagine what they'll be like after work.
I really feel worthless for his girlfriend, falling in love with such a man, there is really no happiness, there is no future at all.
Therefore, it is important for women to pay more attention when choosing a partner and not to be confused by the appearance of men. For this kind of man who likes to find a confidante, it is best to be cautious in dating.
No matter how good his conditions are and how rich he is, don't get involved in feelings lightly so as not to get hurt in the future.
3. Flirting with the opposite sex everywhere, especially some men in life, they are very attentive and always flirting with women, such men are even less worthy of a woman's marriage.
Even if they have a woman by their side, they will not be as guarded as jade, but will go around throwing flowers and grass, which seems extremely frivolous.
It is better for women to keep their distance from this kind of man and not to have too much contact with him.
Before dating, it is necessary to have an in-depth understanding of his character, and pay attention to their words and deeds in life, and once you find something abnormal, it is best to stop it in time.
This kind of man may have good economic conditions and is also popular with the opposite sex, and is prone to having ambiguous relationships with all kinds of the opposite sex.
Therefore, if a woman finds that a man likes to associate with women in social situations and is extremely frivolous, she should not be nostalgic, it is really not worth spending on herself.
A relationship is not specialized.
1. A man who likes to mess with flowers and grass cannot stand the test of his morality.
Schiller said: "True love is single-minded, and the realm of love is very narrow enough to accommodate only two people living together;If you fall in love with several people at the same time, it can't be called love, it's just an emotional game. ”
Indeed, a man with good morals is usually sincere and single-minded, and will not let you fall into contradictions and doubts. Only such a man can give you a clear and visible future and bring you the marriage you want.
And those men who flirt with the opposite sex everywhere and are particularly attentive cannot provide the future you expect, let alone give you love and cherish.
Therefore, women must be careful not to be fooled by those men who are attentive, otherwise it will be too late to regret it in the future.
Marriage is a woman's second life, and every woman should attach great importance to it, after all, once you choose the wrong person, time cannot be turned back.
Gilbert said, "Love is a platform where all kinds of people gather. ”
Women must see the true face of a man clearly in their relationship, and when choosing a partner, they should not only pay attention to his economic conditions, but also pay more attention to his character and sense of responsibility, as well as his performance in handling interpersonal relationships.
As soon as you find out that a man is unreliable, make the decision to leave early so as not to expose yourself to unnecessary harm.
The man who really loves you will not have these performances, women must have discernment, and hope that every woman can find a suitable partner and have a happy and sweet love and marriage.