In modern society, human sophistication is a challenge that many people have to face. Throughout the ages, people who are well-versed in human affairs have often been able to succeed with ease. But what kind of art is this?Like a mystery, even if you have an experience, it can be difficult to explain. Let's take stories as an example to reveal the mystery of human feelings. Gao Yu's legendary experience is a vivid case.
Gao Yu in "Water Margin" is a sinister and treacherous figure in the eyes of everyone, but he is not the only one. Gao Yu is also a master who is proficient in human affairs. Those who are familiar with this ** know how Gao Yu climbed to the top of power step by step.
Gao Yu is not just a martial arts all-rounder. Although in that era, it was not uncommon for people to be both civil and military, but with his background and ability, it was not easy to climb to a high position. However, Gao Yu eventually succeeded. Why?Because he has mastered the true meaning of the four words of human affection and sophistication. It is not enough to be promoted only by virtue of both civil and military skills, and Gao Yu must have other special features. Some people may have been able to guess the answer - that is, Gao Yu is good at kicking, or in ancient parlance, he is good at juju. His skills are very good, I personally think it is no less than Messi and Ronaldo today. If Gao Yu was not a genius, he would not have been able to soar to the sky with Keju.
Once, Gao Yu was caught in a lawsuit and could not gain a foothold in Kaifeng, so he took refuge in a big boss who ran a casino. Casinos are a very complex place, and gradually, Gao Yu blends into these social mixes. He was already of a low social status, but now he has fallen into a trough. After three years of displacement, Lady Luck finally favored Gao Yu once. To be precise, luck befell many people this time, and Gao Yu was just one of the lucky ones. Why?Because Gao Yu caught up with the world's amnesty, he was able to start his life again. Having been in the casino for many years, Gao Yu is not a fool. It is said that as Gao Yu prepared to return to Tokyo, the casino owner immediately wrote him a handwritten letter asking him to seek refuge with his relatives. Gao Yu happily went, but was transferred to another person, and the cycle continued until he was finally transferred to Master Su. Before Gao Yu started his Keju career, he had become a "ball" kicked around by others at will, which was really sad. Why does Gao Yu, who has rich social experience and experience, have such an ending?Because his social experience and experience are too rich, it is normal for normal people to dare not use him. And the reason why Xiao Wang Du Taiwei dares to use Gao Yu is because Gao Yu is a colt, and he has a special habit, that is, he likes to be with the scum of society. Although the horses in ancient times were not very powerful, most of them were parasites that relied on imperial power. Because they had no real power, these bad horses could only be idle, and it seemed that in those days, integration into society was the best way out. At this point in the story, Gao Yu seems to have found a place to live. has the royal relatives as the new backers, although he is still a concubine, but his identity has far exceeded the subordinates of the casino owner. If he lives there with peace of mind, he may not dare to say that he is prosperous, but at least he can become a big bastard in the capital. Why can Gao Yu only become a bastard?for the upright and good do not dare to use him.
When I was young, I didn't understand that "if you don't read the Water Margin, you don't read the Three Kingdoms when you're old", but with the growth of social experience, I began to understand the true meaning of this sentence. At the same time, I also understand why "Water Margin" became the first in the Ming Dynasty. Think about it and savor the meaning.
One day, Gao Yu sent a gift to King Duan on behalf of Xiao Wang. When I was in Duanwang's Mansion, I happened to see Duanwang kicking a ball, and the ball happened to roll to Gao Yu's side. Gao Yu's ball skills are very good, he reflexively showed it, Duanwang was immediately attracted by the master in front of him, so he poached Gao Yu from the hands of the little Wang Du Taiwei. With the addition of Gao Yu, the level of Duanwang's football team has improved rapidly. Since then, Gao Yu's main job has been to play football with Duanwang. As for the story of King Duan who later became emperor, I will not repeat it. Let's talk about how Gao Yu succeeded by playing football.
In Duanwang's Mansion, of course, there are many talents who are both civil and military, but in the end, Gao Yu stands out. This proves that Gao Yu stands out because of his excellent skills, and also reveals the theme of this article. Before entering the Duanwang Mansion, Gao Yu achieved a certain fame by virtue of his sophistication. Otherwise, the casino owner would not have written a personal letter recommending him. But even so, there is still a long way to go. After arriving at Duanwang's Mansion, Gao Yu finally occupied a place with his football skills. Is this a manifestation of human sophistication?Yes, of course, because catering to the interests of others is one of the core of human sophistication. Those who have some power, they do not lack excellent talents, but they lack people who can accompany them for entertainment. Look at the most favored traitors in history, not all of them gained power by catering to the preferences of their masters. Some people are learning to Xi to cater to the preferences of others, and these people can be called good but not necessarily proficient. And people like Gao Yu, they have already developed a superb skill, which makes their success just around the corner. In the Song Dynasty, Keju was popular, and Gao Yu's ball skills were excellent, and even if there was no Duan Wang, he could be appreciated by other princes who liked Keju. It's just that Gao Yu was lucky, and King Duan became the emperor, which shows that catering to other people's interests can help you succeed, but the size of success depends on some kind of providence.
By extension, in modern society, it is not uncommon to see bastards like Gao Yu. The so-called civil and military are only suitable for eating, drinking, and having fun, but this kind of person is the best. Why?Because they are able to go along with the upper echelons. In today's society, there are not a few people like Gao Yu. Although his business ability is mediocre, he is a master in speculation. Look at the skills that Gao Yu is proficient in, which one is not learned for speculation?If he had put these skills to good use, he might not have gotten into a lawsuit and left his homeland. In ancient times, people who could run casinos were not ordinary people, and letting the casino boss write a handwritten letter to recommend you was enough to prove that Gao Yu knew everything about human affairs.
Some people define human sophistication as having high emotional intelligence, while others think that they are good at being human. But most people think that people who don't understand the world are stupid. Looking at Gao Yu in "Water Margin", I remembered Hai Rui in the Ming Dynasty. In this chaotic world, innocence has become a sin, which is really a sorrow, a great sorrow. The reason why China has a history of more than 5,000 years is why only China is the only one of the four ancient civilizations?This is all thanks to the heroic ancestors who did not understand the world.
Personally, I believe that human sophistication is the bond that builds trust, trustworthiness and credibility in each other. Once a person's credibility is established, there is nothing that cannot be done, and this is the best way to achieve success. I hope that this society can have more people like Hai Rui and fewer people like Gao Yu.
Gao Yu presents a deeply complex and multifaceted character in "Water Margin". He is not just a sinister and treacherous character, but a master of human affairs. The interpretation and analysis of Gao Yu in this article is thought-provoking.
The author takes Gao Yu's story as the starting point and understands the essence of human feelings. From ancient times to the present, human sophistication has always been a phenomenon that cannot be ignored in society. In modern society, we can see a similar phenomenon: people who understand interpersonal relationships and are good at socializing are more likely to be successful. The article takes Gao Yu's experience as an example to illustrate an important point: human sophistication is an important way to achieve success in society. This understanding is not only a historical and cultural analysis, but also an analysis of human nature and the laws of social operation.
Gao Yu is not a typical example of success simply by virtue of his all-round talents in civil and military affairs. His success is more dependent on his skill in kemari and his deep understanding of society. This mastery of specific skills and the ability to cater to the preferences of the master have considerable application value in both history and reality. He struggled in the face of adversity, and finally was able to show his skills in Keju and win new opportunities and status for himself.
However, the article also provokes a reflection on social values. In real life, it is not uncommon to see people like Gao Yu, who are good at opportunism, catering to the superiors, and even giving up their original moral bottom line. This phenomenon raises doubts about the values of honesty and integrity. At the end of the article, the author mentions that he hopes that the society will have more people like Hai Rui and fewer people like Gao Yu. This call is in fact an expectation of morality and integrity, and hopes that society will pay more attention to integrity and integrity.
In general, this article through Gao Yu's story, ** the importance of human feelings and sophistication in society, and provoked deep thinking about human nature, morality and social ethics. It is not only an interpretation of historical and literary works, but also a kind of speculation and reflection on current social phenomena.
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