She wanted a divorce, and her husband said let's buy a small apartment of 56 square meters and move out.
Yuan Hui has been married for 2 years, but she wants to divorce, she said to her husband Xue Jun: Xue Jun, let's divorce.
Xue Jun: Huihui, don't be angry, don't we want to have a baby this year?Why do you want to divorce all of a sudden?
Yuan Hui smiled, suddenly?How could it be sudden, it's just that Xue Jun pretended to be stupid and didn't want to face it.
Looking at the messy room that was messed up by her mother's relatives, she felt that this was not her home, this was his parents' private hotel, she could come whenever she wanted, and she and Xue Jun had to clean up for a few days.
Yuan Hui didn't want to deceive herself anymore, and said: Xue Jun, do you see that this is still a home?
Xue Jun was also embarrassed, this was made by a distant cousin's family, the ground was full of melon seed skins and candy paper, the coffee table in the living room was full of fruit peels, and there were all on the sofa, and several places on the sofa cushions were dyed, that was the sofa cushion that Yuan Hui liked very much, she had carefully selected it for a long time, and now it is all scrapped.
Xue Jun didn't know what to do, it was a fucking relative, his mother brought him to live at home, he couldn't help it.
But he didn't expect that their family would be like this, even if they brought a 7-year-old child, they should be sensible, but the two of them, one child, made their home look like a car accident scene, and then patted their butts and went out to play, and when they cleaned up, it was time to come back.
So what to do, after all, they are all relatives, and people finally come out to play, and they can't let them break their hearts, and besides, this is a fucking face, and he has to take care of it as a son.
Xue Jun: Huihui, I know they made it like this, you are not happy, and I am not happy, but after all, they are relatives, and they don't come often, so we just have to bear with it.
Yuan Hui looked at him and said: This is not my home, and such things don't happen occasionally, your parents have many relatives, and they are busier here than the hotel. Forget it, there's no point in talking about this, anyway, I don't want to live, you can do it yourself, either we move out together, or we will divorce.
Xue Jun: Huihui, but we don't have a house when we move out, and we have to rent a house to live in, so my parents won't agree. They bought us a house, and then we went to rent a house to live in, and they couldn't hold their faces.
Yuan Hui heard him say this, smiled, and said: Then divorce. I'm moving out today, you see when it's convenient for you, we'll go through the formalities, it's good that we don't have children.
Xue Jun: Huihui, don't be willful, how can you get divorced so easily.
Yuan Hui: I'm not joking, let alone willful, I think I can endure it for so long, it's enough, I don't want to live like this, think about it yourself, but don't be too long, you know I don't want to be involved.
She didn't listen to what Xue Jun had to say, but packed her things by herself, and she went to live in the company dormitory for a few days for the time being, and rented a house at the same time.
Xue Jun was stunned, in fact, he always knew that this day would come sooner or later, just thinking about it, maybe Yuan Hui was like him, thinking about forbearance and passing, but Yuan Hui has never been such a person, 2 years is really her limit.
In fact, they also told their parents, Yuan Hui said to his mother: Mom, my cousin's family is coming, we will book a hotel for them, and Xue Jun and I will pay for it, and it is very convenient for them to live, and they don't necessarily have to live at home.
He looked at Huihui in disbelief, and felt that she had done something rebellious, and said angrily: Huihui, you are still a college student, how can you say such a thing, relatives are here, and you are not allowed to live at home, how do you let people think of us?How else do we move around?
Yuan Hui: Mom, now that the relatives are here, they basically arrange to stay in a hotel, which is good for everyone, otherwise we are not familiar with each other, and you and Dad don't live here, and it is awkward for them to live.
Mother: No, I don't care, this house was bought by me and his father for 1 million, and my relatives must live here.
At that time, Yuan Hui didn't speak again, but she must have been injured.
Yuan Hui didn't look at this home again, and went out with the packed box, she happened to meet her in-laws at the door, she didn't say much, and her mother-in-law said unhappily: Huihui, why are you on a business trip again, you are a woman's family, often on business trips with male colleagues, and you have been talked about by relatives, you still have to pay more attention yourself.
Xue Jun happened to arrive at the door, and when he heard what his mother said, his face turned black directly.
Yuan Hui left directly, she was going to get divorced, how could she listen to these meaningless words again, and there was no need to argue.
Xue Jun chased after Yuan Hui and said: Huihui, we haven't been together for many years, it's not easy to go all the way, you wait for me to find you, no matter what, I won't get a divorce.
When Xue Jun got home, his parents sat at the fairly clean dining table, pulled their faces, and saw him and said: How did you do it, do you still want to be a home?The garbage dump is cleaner than this, Yuan Hui won't clean it up?I also went on a business trip directly, which is too unusual.
Xue Jun couldn't help sneering and said, "Yes, it's dirtier than a garbage dump, so you have to ask my cousin how they got it?"Is it like this in their family?
His father said angrily: Xue Jun, why did you become like this, your cousin's family lives here, they are guests, even if they get dirty, you just clean up, it's not that you two are too lazy.
Xue Jun frowned when he heard this and said: We still have to work, we really don't have time, I have to work overtime today, I'll leave first.
The looked at him in disbelief and said, "You're going to work overtime?".Your daughter-in-law is also gone, so who will clean up here?
He looked at them and said, "Either it's you, anyway, you have to let people live in, or whoever gets dirty will clean it up, and you still need to ask?"
His mother said directly: You let Yuan Hui come back to clean up, she usually lives comfortably, and she hides when she has something, this character is too bad.
Xue Jun: I don't know this cousin very well, and it has nothing to do with Yuan Hui, so why should she clean it up.
Xue Jun: Mom, Huihui is not on a business trip, but has moved out, and she wants to divorce me. I went to work first.
Xue Jun also left, his parents looked at each other, they didn't know what to do, they didn't want to clean up, and besides, this was not their home, and it was not appropriate for them to clean up.
His mother said to his father: Xue Jun said just now that Huihui moved awayIs it true that you want a divorce?What happened to the two of them?
His father snorted and said, "It must be because relatives often come to live and feel uncomfortable."
: But this is the house that the two of us bought, why can't our relatives come to live there, and besides, there are more children coming, and the house is more noisy and messy.
His father: Maybe it's not just a relative's business, you forgot that time when the two of us came at 6 o'clock in the morning, she got up and wore so little, and screamed at the time, and she was unhappy at that time, thinking that we didn't hit **, and suddenly opened the door and came in.
: Hmph, I don't behave, and I blame us, this is also our family, why do we fight **, we can come if we want, no one can say anything about us.
They sat for a while, thinking that when their relatives and family came back, they saw that the house was not cleaned and it was not good-looking, so they had to and start working there.
Xue Jun went to work overtime, but he was in a bad mood all the time, he knew that what Yuan Hui said this time was true, but what should he do?
The colleague was very annoyed when he saw him, and when the two of them were a little free, he asked him what was wrong, and he couldn't help but complain.
After listening to this, my colleague said: You have to think about this matter clearly, if you don't handle it properly, you may really not be able to save your marriage. In fact, the solution is very simple, if the two of you have money, buy a house and move out, if the money is not enough, then rent a house temporarily.
Xue Jun: It's not that I haven't thought about it, but my parents don't let us go out to rent a house, thinking that our family has a house, and it must be stupid to go out and spend that money, and relatives will gossip.
Colleague: Then tell your parents that you want to change the door lock, they have to come in advance to call **, and relatives can stay with them or stay in a hotel. Xue Jun, don't think that this is a trivial matter, there are many divorces for this matter, and it is too late to regret it.
Xue Jun: Is there really a divorce?
Colleague: Why not, one of my classmates divorced for this kind of thing, his parents bought the house, they also wanted to come, her wife didn't dare to wear a nightdress at home, let alone have a chance to sleep lazy, and finally couldn't stand it and filed for divorce, my classmate thought she was making a fuss, so he divorced, and then he got married again, or divorced, and now he is alone, often alcoholic, and every time he gets drunk, he cries and says he regrets it.
Colleague: Later, although he was still alone, he didn't live in that house, and gave his parents the key to him, saying that I would give you back your house, and I really regret that I only understand now.
Xue Jun was shocked after hearing this, if he didn't take it seriously, maybe that man would be his end, thinking about his loss of Huihui because of these things, his heart began to tremble, he felt that he absolutely couldn't accept it, he had to solve this problem quickly, it couldn't really reach the point of no return.
Xue Jun sincerely thanked his colleagues, after all, there are really too few people who can give advice and persuasion like this, in this era, more people look at your jokes and hope that you are not good, but there are too few people who are so sincere, he feels that this colleague is really a person who can be friends, and he can deal with more in the future.
After work, when he got home, the house was clean, his parents were still there, and his cousin's family had not returned.
His mother was busy in the kitchen, and when I saw him, I said: Your cousin said that he wanted to eat hairy crabs, and then have a few drinks with your father, you see, the big crabs I bought today are very good, and you will give me the money in a while.
Xue Jun: Mom, why do you want me to pay for crabs for your cousin?Besides, Mom and Dad, when these relatives come in the future, can't they live in the house of the two of you?You can talk a little more.
His mother glared at him and said, "They didn't come to your house to save face, but to eat at your house, of course you paid for it."
Xue Jun: Mom, I just want to live quietly, and I don't need them to give me face.
Her mother really didn't know what was wrong with Xue Jun, and said: Junzi, no matter when, people need to help each other, you don't entertain people well now, you asked someone else that day, who cares about you.
Xue Jun: Mom, we have our own circle, this kind of distant relatives come to play, we can receive it, but there is no reason why we have to live at home, they make it.
Xue Jun saw his father sitting there with a straight face, he must have heard what he said, and he called his mother over.
Xue Jun: Dad, Mom, I want to discuss with you, if you live in this house, then I will change the lock tomorrow, and when my relatives come, I can go to your place or stay in a hotel, but I am not welcome to live here.
His mother laughed angrily and said: Junzi, this house is in your father's name, it is my and your father's house, it's just for you to live in, and you still want to change the door lock, which means that neither me nor your father can come in the future?
Xue Jun felt uncomfortable when he heard his mother say this, and he suddenly felt Yuan Hui's embarrassment and helplessness.
Xue Jun: Mom, I didn't say I wouldn't let you come, I mean, you can call ** or knock on the door when you come, so as to avoid a lot of embarrassment.
His father said directly: This is my house, I can come whenever I want, you can come whenever you want, you can let your daughter-in-law dress herself and pay more attention, and if you don't have the ability, don't ask for too much.
Xue Jun: Okay, Mom and Dad, I'll find a house as soon as possible, and when we move out, I'll give you back the key.
Mom looked at him and said, "Junzi, what do you mean, you move out, where are you moving to?".Do you have a house?
Xue Jun: Mom, we don't have a house, we can rent a house, or we can find a way to buy a small house, it doesn't matter, my dad is right, how much ability to live in a big house, it's me who thinks badly.
Mother: Junzi, your father and I didn't mean to drive you away, this house was originally bought for your wedding house, but we can use it too.
Xue Jun: No need, Mom, you can use this house, we don't need it, you don't have to wait for me to eat at night, I'll go find a house.
After Xue Jun left, his mother said to his father: Junzi really doesn't want to write about the house?Why don't you give them the key, there's no need for us to come here anyway.
His father glared at his mother and said, "At first, I said to give them directly, but you didn't want to, and now you want to do this again, what do you want to do?".Since they are not rare, then forget it, let them change, and they will turn back after suffering in the future.
Xue Jun took a look at his savings, only more than 100,000, Yuan Hui may be similar to him, he really doesn't want to rent a house, thinking that it is also convenient for two people to buy a small loft apartment with a down payment.
He rested tomorrow, planning to take a good look at a few more sets, he called Yuan Hui **, and made an appointment to come out to eat together, he ordered his favorite grilled fish, thinking that it should be celebrated, after all, he had already made a choice.
When Yuan Hui arrived, Xue Jun had already ordered the dishes according to his usual preferences, and she did it to him and said: This is our last supper
Xue Jun had a brain crash and said: What nonsense?We'll have countless dinners for you to stay with me every day.
Yuan Huicai ignored him, anyway, she had already decided to divorce, and it was useless for him to say anything.
The two of them looked at the grilled fish, and Yuan Hui ate what she liked. The mood is also much better.
Xue Jun said: Huihui, how much money do you have in your hand?I have 120,000 here, and I use a down payment to buy a small apartment, just the kind of loft that is very popular now, and the two of us have more than 50 square meters to live.
Yuan Ting looked at him in surprise and said, "Are you serious?".I have 150,000, haha, more than you.
Xue Jun nodded solemnly and said: Really, I decided by myself, we will go to see the house together tomorrow and settle it as soon as possible.
Yuan Hui was so happy that she couldn't eat it, she was even happier when she ate, and said: Junzi, I didn't expect you to figure it out, I'm so happy, in the future, we will make money and live a good life.
Xue Jun was also very happy, he felt that as long as the husband and wife were together, life would definitely get better and better.
Yuan Hui and Xue Jun finally ordered a 56-square-meter apartment, both of them were very satisfied, the first floor and the second floor have independent bathrooms, the second floor has two bedrooms, and a cloakroom, in addition to the kitchen and bathroom, the first floor is a large living room, which is particularly beautiful.
Yuan Hui is a civil servant, and the housing provident fund is very high, so she directly took out a loan, repaid the loan, and lived with Xue Jun's salary, and the two of them saved some money again, and they were not nervous at all.
After they looked at the house type, Xue Jun said that I came to find the decoration, and I often came into contact with those studios, and I picked one that was suitable for good work.
She nodded and said, "Well, okay, then let them design it according to our intentions, and then settle it and decorate it."
Xue Jun is a supervising engineer, these two years are running the commodity buildings, just graduated, participated in the construction of several large enterprises, learned a lot at that time, and can be regarded as a qualified person.
He still wants to go to the kind of big factory that is being built now, a project is longer, and he earns more, what he regrets is that he supervised the community, at that time he could give the internal price, he thought that they had no money, and they had a house, so they didn't want it, and they knew that even if they borrowed money, they should buy a set.
But it's good now, buy a small set of transitions first, and then buy a good set when you have the ability, he believes that as long as he and Yuan Hui work hard, they will definitely be able to achieve it.
After the house was renovated, they moved in, and the two of them celebrated.
The next night, they went to his parents' house and gave them back the keys to the house, but his parents were angry and ignored them.
After they left, her mother cried and said to his father, "Old man, who are you and us working so hard for?"It's not for him, but if you look at him for his wife, it's so unconscionable to treat us like this.
His father was also very angry, and he didn't expect that they really didn't want a house and moved out, which was really a slap in the face of their old couple, just this kind of son, they are old, what can they expect from him?
His father said: It's better not to live, we rent it out directly, and there is a ratio of rent, what is not good to do at that time, you see, when they have children, the small house can't live, and the children have no one to bring, not to ask us.
His mother nodded and said, "Hmph, it's useless for them to beg me then, so I won't show her the baby."
When Yuan Hui and Xue Jun arrived at their new home, the two of them were still very excited, and Yuan Hui took out a list to show him and asked: Can we feed this little guy now?
Xue Jun looked at it in confusion, then his eyes widened in disbelief, and said, "Huihui, you are pregnant, when did you get checked?"
Yuan Hui: Last week, our unit organized a physical examination, and it was found out that day. However, I hesitated, now that we don't have any savings, it's too nervous to have another child.
Xue Jun: Huihui, when the child comes, we want it, the poor have the poor to support, the rich and the rich, you say.
Yuan Hui felt that what he said made sense and nodded.
Xue Jun: Huihui, don't worry, I will work hard, I will definitely be able to let your child live a good life.
Yuan Hui nodded happily, she liked her current life more than the original days.
Although her original house was 120 square meters, much larger than now, it was not their home, and now this one is decorated according to her own heart, which is her own home, a reassuring nest.
It is said that relying on anyone is suicide, and it will take a long time for everyone to understand that there is no grass under the big tree, it can shelter you from the wind and rain, and it will also make you lose sight of the day.
Parents are like this, and so are husbands and wives, so we must work hard to live our own lives, so that we can achieve each other, grow together, lay the foundation of happiness, and let two people hold hands for a lifetime.