After graduating from university, many students are faced with choices such as postgraduate entrance examination, employment, and going abroad, among which postgraduate entrance examination is regarded by many students as a shortcut to a higher degree and better development. However, it is not so easy to go to graduate school, but many people do not expect that it will also become an addictive behavior. There is a girl who told everyone the fact that "the graduate school entrance examination will also be addictive" with her own experience, she has been taking the exam for eight years, and she is still in a state of no progress. Although she also wanted to give up many times, her obsession with the graduate school entrance examination has not allowed her to do it, and after every failure, she will have a thought of "maybe she will succeed next time". As the number of years of graduate school increased, this idea gradually lingered, and eventually led to her coming to her senses at the age of 30. This kind of mentality of wanting to give up but feeling that you will be able to succeed next time is the reason for the addiction to graduate school.
Expanding: Graduate school entrance examination is a challenge for many people, but for this girl, it has evolved into an unstoppable addiction. At first, the graduate school entrance examination may have been just a last resort choice for her to move towards a better future, but as time went on, she gradually fell into a state of inextricability in the process. Whenever she failed an exam, she was always hopeful, and she kept telling herself that she would succeed next time. This kind of self-paralyzing psychology caused her to go further and further on the road to graduate school, until she lost the light of her youth. This girl's experience is thought-provoking, whether it is the graduate school entrance examination, or other things, when we feel lost and confused, we should reflect in time to judge whether we are really suitable to continue to persevere, and whether we need to choose another path.
The girl's experience has caused widespread discussion on the Internet, and many netizens have expressed doubts and criticisms of her behavior. They believe that the girl should give up sooner rather than again and stop wasting time and energy in an area where there is no progress. The comments from netizens hit the heart of the problem and woke up students who were still stuck in a state of "pretending to be asleep". For those who don't listen to the advice, netizens can only stand aside, hoping that they can realize their true abilities and limitations for themselves. The comments of netizens are very direct to the hearts of the people, and they are a warning that students cannot blindly indulge in obsession and obsess over a thing that they know is hopeless. They reminded students to have the courage to face reality and make the right choices.
Expanding: On the Internet, this girl's experience has aroused heated discussions among many netizens. They questioned and criticized the girl one after another. Some netizens believe that this girl should recognize the reality as soon as possible and stop clinging to a fruitless matter. They believe that young time is precious and short and should not be wasted in an area where there is no room for growth. Although such criticism stung the parties concerned, it also served as a warning. After all, the postgraduate entrance examination is not a never-ending cycle, it requires the support of ability and strength. Such comments have forced students who are intoxicated by their own obsessions to reflect on whether they are really suitable to continue to persevere, and whether they need to choose another path.
This girl's experience has taught us that adults need to admit their abilities and limitations, and not everything can be successful by obsession. It took eight years to realize that it was too slow. Maybe this girl already knew that she was not capable enough, but she didn't know what she should choose if she gave up the graduate school entrance examination. So, she chose to silently persevere, until she could no longer continue. However, such a psychology will only harm oneself, not only wasting precious youth, but also not getting any gains. Students should have the courage to face their abilities and if they can't, they should be brave enough to pursue other paths. Although the pressure of finding a job is great, it is not less stressful than the pressure of going to graduate school, and it is only because students are unwilling to face society that they make excuses for themselves. Facing the reality, making a plan for future development, and moving towards your goals in a down-to-earth manner is the right choice.
Expand: This girl's experience teaches us a vivid life lesson. Adults need to be brave enough to confront their own strengths and abilities and acknowledge their limitations. Sometimes, a person's ability is limited, and no matter how big the obsession is, it cannot overcome the cruelty of reality. It took this girl eight years to realize this, and she may have known it for a long time, but she was unwilling to accept the reality and face her own shortcomings. The failure of each year only made her more eager to succeed in the next year, but she did not really reflect on whether she was suitable for graduate school. This kind of psychology will only make her fall deeper and deeper, and eventually lead to the loss of her youth and opportunities. Students should have the courage to face the reality, and if they have not made progress after several exams, they should give up decisively and explore other development paths. The pressure of finding a job is just as great as the pressure of going to graduate school, but students are unwilling to face society and find an excuse for themselves to escape. However, only by facing the reality and formulating a suitable development plan can we go further on the road of life. I hope that everyone can recognize the reality as soon as possible, bravely pursue their goals, and do not keep wandering in the same place, but boldly move forward to meet a better life.