I saw such a news some time ago.
A man found ** to complain, saying that the woman who had lived with him for 8 days disappeared and took away his 30,000 yuan.
I thought this was another typical love fraud incident.
But I never thought that the truth refreshed the three views!
The woman's surname is Guo, and her job is to work as a nanny in the city.
Although she is not young anymore, she does not have to worry about eating and drinking alone, but the experience of wandering for many years has always made her want to have a complete home.
By chance, she met a 56-year-old uncle with the help of a marriage anchor on the short ** platform.
In the beginning, the two people who were similar in age and had the same needs were very happy with each other.
Aunt Guo neither asked for a bride price, nor did she make excessive demands, she just wanted to find someone to live in peace.
The two soon moved in together.
But after living together for a few days, Ms. Guo couldn't stand it!
Aunt Guo never thought that the boyfriend she had just found who seemed to be loyal and honest, and who was still a farmer, would actually step on her feet behind her backboats, called"The Strongest Sea King".
She not only found 173 women's *** in the other party's mobile phone, but also a lot of evidence of flirting with the opposite sex and even **.
Looking at the unsightly private **, Ms. Guo was furious.
But instead of feeling ashamed, the uncle also had intimate contact with other members of the opposite sex in front of her.
In addition, her boyfriend's various behaviors in private life that disregarded her lover's health made Aunt Guo very disappointed in her boyfriend.
After only 8 days of cohabitation, Aunt Guo chose to leave this home.
In fact, she didn't mean to completely break off the relationship, but she was a little unwell and wanted to go to the hospital for a check-up, and at the same time seriously consider the relationship with each other.
After the examination, the doctor informed Aunt Guo that she needed surgery.
After the uncle learned about it, he felt that his opportunity had come again, so he rushed to the hospital to take care of Aunt Guo, who was in a vulnerable period.
Aunt Guo originally changed her opinion of her boyfriend a little because of this, and her heart softened a lot.
However, the human heart is unpredictable, and its nature is difficult to change.
When the operation contract mentioned that the uterus might be removed if necessary, Aunt Guo felt that it was okay, after all, she was so old that she had no plans to have another child.
But the uncle is furious!
He claimed that he was here to find his wife, how could he not have a uterus?
Just because of this trumped-up reason, he desperately refused the operation, and even discarded the health of his lover, regardless of it.
The boyfriend's true form was revealed, and Aunt Guo was completely disappointed in this boyfriend.
She directly blocked the other party and refused to contact again.
It's just that how could the uncle let her go so easily.
He directly approached **, completely portrayed himself as a victim, and said that Aunt Guo took 30,000 yuan from him.
But the fact is that the 30,000 yuan was the gift money he bought for the other party in order to please his girlfriend when they were together.
I want to take advantage of it, but I also want to pull it out.
The most terrifying thing is that he never felt that he was at fault.
In this uncle, Mr. saw not only the strongest sea king, but also the true epitome of a part of the real group!
In this 56-year-old uncle, there are actually many characteristics that middle-aged and elderly suitors have.
Selfish, stubborn, ignoring others, thinking only of oneself.
So much so that when people talk about twilight love, they will subconsciously wear colored glasses.
Everyone always feels that most twilight loves, like the story of the above-mentioned uncle, are full of calculations, and feelings are more marketlike than buying and selling.
Even in a blind date show in front of the camera, they will not restrain themselves.
Some uncles only have a pension of 3,000 per month, but they feel that they are fragrant and have a lot of requirements, hoping to find a "wife" who can serve him well every day.
So much so that netizens ridiculedNow in twilight love, the uncle wants to find a nanny, and the aunt wants to find an unjust seed.
It is precisely because of this stigmatization that many children always have a skeptical or even rejection attitude towards the elderly looking for a wife.
But Mr. would like to say that looking at the entire middle-aged and elderly group, the above cases are only an extreme minority after all.
Indeed, perhaps because they have experienced a lot and seen a lot, the feelings of middle-aged and elderly people will always be more practical and pay more attention to the actual conditions.
But friends who have experienced marriage should understand that it is not wrong to be a good person. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, money is needed everywhere, and life is everywhere.
Nowadays, young people also pay attention to these when they fall in love and get married on a blind date.
Compared with them, the middle-aged and elderly people just don't hide it, and maybe even be more sincere.
On the surface, they may seem practical and demanding, but in fact, the conditions that really enter their hearts are very simple and simple.
I watched a blind date show for middle-aged and elderly people, and I was deeply impressed by one of the blind date guests.
When the woman was young, she met someone unladylike, her husband cheated in marriage, and her mother-in-law's family thought he was doing the right thing. A few years after the divorce, the husband who had nothing left found his ex-wife and begged to get back together.
She agreed to be soft-hearted for a while, and helped the other party find a job, which Cheng thought that it would not be long before her husband cheated on a female colleague in the same department again.
Since then, she has been completely disappointed in her marriage and raised her children alone.
She said that she is worthy of everyone in her life, but she is sorry for herself.
What about the man?He is also just an ordinary man, who worked in a large company when he was young, but because of the long working hours, his relationship with his wife weakened due to lack of communication, and finally decided to separate.
It was only after the child got married that he had plans to find a wife.
In fact, this is what most middle-aged and elderly people look like.
They are not good at expressing themselves, they do not have any non-specific requirements, and they may even be unconfident or inferior because of their own conditions.
They are the closest to death, and loneliness has long been eroded to the bone, but they dare not think more about themselves until their children start a family.
However, perhaps their education is not high and their education level is low, but they know very well that there is only one real requirement for the wife they want to find: that is, people who match the three views and like to live a down-to-earth life.
It's like this pair of blind date guests. The moment they finally decided to be together was a meal experience.
The man planned to take the woman out to eat, but when he saw that the weather was getting cold and was afraid that the other party would freeze, he went to the restaurant alone to pack the food and bring it back.
This seemingly simple and ordinary action made a light appear in the woman's eyes.
In fact, whether it is young or old, there is not much difference in essence.
Only a two-way relationship can be successful and long-lasting, and everyone who only sees themselves in their eyes is destined to find true happiness.