Obituary!Committed suicide on December 27, 2023!

On December 27, Li Shanjun committed suicide.

He was found in Wolong Park, Jongno-gu, Seoul, with charcoal burning, and was eventually confirmed dead at the age of 48.

He is widely known for his works such as "My Uncle", "Coffee Prince No. 1 Shop" and "Parasite", which became popular all over the world.

A Korean big-name actor who is loved by Chinese fans passed away in a hurry.

On the same day, Hong Kong female star Li Shuxian was also exposed to the news of suicide.

She committed suicide by burning charcoal in the bathroom at home and fell into a coma, and was sent to the hospital and died at the age of 46.

Li Shuxian participated in Miss Asia and debuted as the runner-up.

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The following year, he played the girlfriend of the eldest brother in "3 Hands Covering the Sky", and he became famous.

In the early hours of the morning of her suicide, she also celebrated Christmas with her friends, and she looked the whole time.

didn't think about it, and in a blink of an eye, she said goodbye.

The departure of Li Shanjun and Li Shuxian is like an accident.

Before leaving, he left a suicide note to his wife, and she sent a text message to her ex-husband, which shows that he still has nostalgia for the world.

If someone had noticed something was wrong, it could have been a different story.

But the accident itself means that it is uncontrollable.

There are no earth-shattering tragedies, no heinous villains, no sudden blows.

No one could have predicted that this was also the most desperate scene.

When the news of his death came, many people could not believe it.

"I'm not afraid of death, but I'm still afraid of living”

It's a pity, have you ever thought about your own family?”

It's not just cowardice, it's selfishness!”

But if there is a choice, if you feel that the world is worth it, who wants to walk into the eternal night, turn away, and never look back.

A WHO report shows that

Globally, nearly 800,000 people die by suicide every year. You may not have an idea of this, but if you break it down, one person dies by suicide every 40 seconds.

On October 30, Hong Kong star Lin Haoting also committed suicide by burning charcoal and passed away.

When he left, he was only 35 years old.

A week earlier, he had been smiling and attending an interview.

A few months ago, Zhang Xuerun, a well-known male star in Hong Kong, also chose to commit suicide by burning charcoal.

Before leaving, he often started live broadcasts to chat with fans.

The pain behind many people's smiles is actually something we can't see.

In 2020, a boy with the screen name "Braised Potato Leaves" ended his life at the age of 25 after leaving a suicide note on Weibo in the laboratory in the early hours of the morning.

And this suicide note caused heated discussions on the whole network after his death.

Swipe up and down to see) The reason why he decided to die, from the perspective of a bystander, is not complicated. The experiments didn't go well, and he couldn't graduate on time. In the mood of self-blame and inferiority, he chose to give up:It's not about giving up experiments, giving up on school, it's about giving up life. He used to be a sunny boy before.

I have a lot of friends, like cats, and love to dance. I also looked forward to the good times of college and the snow in the north.

But as real life slowly unfolded, unsatisfactory life came one after another, and those internalized theories of "successology" repeatedly shouted in his heart. He scolded himself, useless, stupid, wasteful, ashamed, sorry for his family, there is no need to exist, it is better to die. He is not irresponsible, so he chooses to die regardless of his parents. On the contrary, he demanded too much of his own "usefulness". That's why when I can't get good grades and can't get affirmation, I blame myself and doubt my life. will be because it may be delayed, and the heart is "except despair or despair". When they are about to decide to die, they still hope that their bodies can be of some use.

Even suicide comes with a strong sense of guilt. Finally, I would like to wish my family and friends all the best and that the motherland will always be prosperous. Such a death is not a revenge for the world, but an apology for the world. It is precisely because he lives too seriously that he cannot accept his incompetence. Isn't this a tragedy?We have been taught since childhood to be a useful person, a successful person, to be successful in our studies, to have a promising career, to repay our parents and society. We are often encouraged that where there is a will, there is a way. But no one has taught us how to accept our own mediocrity. I saw such a news: In Zhenjiang, Jiangsu, a man took out a tissue to wipe his tears silently after his child fell asleep. One person goes to work to support his wife and two children, and the monthly mortgage and car loan are like a mountain, not to mention other consumption. His wife's sentence "It will get better slowly" made him unload all his strength, and he couldn't help but break down and cry.

In the adult world, most of them are the aftermath of the catastrophe. At three o'clock in the morning, the whole company left, and he was still in the office to change the planThe boss wanted to fire himself, and he didn't even say hello;The landlord rushed to pay the rent and wanted to postpone it for a few days, but was ruthlessly refused;My parents were sick, but they didn't even have the money to buy a ticket home to visit them. Sometimes, life is really cruel, and many people have to do their best to survive. Only those who have experienced it understand that every disappointment, every bad luck, will become the fuse of collapse.

Infinite desolation, permeate the screen. Accustomed to human indifference and cruelty in the world, we seem to have lost our expectations for life. It's just that in this world, there is no choice but to leave?In fact, no matter how bad the world is, there are still people and things worth looking forward to. A girl walked to the food stall after work and couldn't wait to say, "Let's have a nut roasted naan."

Unfortunately, the nut filling was sold out.

The girl complained to the boss in a bit of a frustration: "Didn't you say yesterday to leave me one?."”

The boss paused for a moment, remembering that this was the girl who had patronized the stall four times and didn't buy nut roasted naan, and comforted:

It's you!Many people asked me if I had any pralines, and I said they were all sold out. ”

Then, magically, he turned out a nut-roasted naan from underneath, which he had specially left for the girl.

The world of adults is not easy, and there is nothing more heartwarming than being remembered.

In the evening in Hejin, Shanxi, an elderly man rode an electric car to pick up his two grandsons from school as usual. The three of them were trapped in the rain, with nothing to cover them around, soaking wet and shivering. A husband and wife drove by, hurriedly beckoned them to the car, provided water and towels, and comforted the little boy "Don't be afraid, don't cry". * After the explosion, netizens ridiculed: "You will be written into the composition as a classic material by the children." ”

The happiest thing in life is that someone gives you a touch of warmth in your darkest stage. What is more difficult to resist than bitterness and tiredness is the kindness and gentleness that caught you off guard. Some people may ask: why do people live?Today, after experiencing the ups and downs of life, and seeing too many joys and sorrows of others, my answer is Shi Tiesheng's sentence:Because, death is a thing that doesn't need to be rushed!Compared with the long, endless death that will eventually come, life in the world is a few decades in the ocean, but it is a drop in the ocean, insignificant. So even if we are destined to endure many meaningless years, we should still choose to live. to feel the happiness of the world, to endure the pain of being a mortal;To experience the precious reunion and love, to get used to the heart of eternal loneliness;Go to the hope that may not be much, to bear all the incompleteness and imperfections.

You don't have to be a "useful" person, you don't have to cater to anyone's standards, just look up and be yourself, and naturally someone will love you.

Just like Osamu Dazai once wrote:

I wanted to die this winter, but I recently got a mouse-gray pinstriped linen kimono, which is suitable for summer, so I'd better live until summer first.