In the controversy over the red and white roses, I once described Bai Feifei and Zhu.
Seven. 7. The story of Pei Rong and Xiao Wei, Sanshun and Xi Zhen and others. In fact, as long as they are within the same frame, they will be torn apart, as well as characters like Min Jing and Shin Ji from "Funny Family"!
14 years have passed, and every once in a while, posts about "who do Min Yong love more" always stand like a skyscraper.
The Minjing Party pointed out that the little uncle would only take responsibility for Shin Zhi in the end, otherwise how could an indifferent person like him lie on Minjing's shoulder and cry, and it would be impossible to say such words as "I will regret it, I will regret it for a lifetime"; The People's Intelligence Party believes that choosing to return to someone's side means loving him, and Minyong is just moved by Mr. Xu's emotions.
So, what is the truth?
Min-yong falls deeply in love with Shin Ji when he first meets him, and his feelings for Min-jeong deepen over time.
Before the story moves towards the finale, at first glance, Min Yong's emotional entanglement seems very clear.
He has always had a deep affection for Shin Ji in the past and is looking for a chance to start over after the divorce, but Shin Ji has always resolutely rejected him, and has repeatedly said things that hurt his self-esteem, and even pushed him into Min Jing's arms, which makes Min Yong really decide to be with Min Jing because of the impulse.
However, before their first breakup, his feelings for Min Jing were mostly push-and-push, as can be seen from the fact that he was not jealous and did not see the bus stop, at that time one of them was cautious and the other was not too concerned. After the birthday card incident, he fell deeply in love with Minjing.
Compared to Shin Ji, he always hurts him mercilessly like a machine gun. Minjing's enthusiasm and gentleness ** his heart. Min Jing sometimes feels jealous and sometimes frolicks with her. Later in love, life was really sweet. Minyong, a person who values face, to please Minjing's parents, and even proposed to her in the ** pavilion, is enough to prove his deep affection for her.
However, after in-depth analysis, Min Yong initially fell in love with Shin Ji at first sight, and he was attracted to Shin Ji dancing in the crowd at a glance, and his eldest brother also said: "This young man just likes tigress"; His affection for Minjing stems from a deep touch, and a girl who is so wonderful and kind-hearted does not hesitate to fall in love with him, which also makes him develop a deep affection for Minjing.
This also explains why Minjing is always hesitant in this relationship, although she is naïve, the female intuition makes her feel that Minyong has not completely let go of Shin Ji, she is afraid that he will be attracted to Shin Ji again, in fact, she feels right.
Min Yong and Shin Ji get along more harmoniously, and they appear very harmonious in many aspects, such as their attitude towards their sister-in-law; Min Jing is a younger girl who loves romance and caramel macchiato. She hoped that Min Yong could sing for her in front of everyone, but Min Yong didn't actually think so in his heart, he just wanted to make some changes for Min Jing.
Although there is plenty of evidence that Min Yong has a crush on Shin Ji or Min Jung, the end result reveals that he has a deeper affection for Shin Ji.
Many people don't understand why after Shin Ji's car accident, Min Yong has to choose between her and Min Jing, and since he has already fallen in love with Min Jing, why does he need to turn back in order to take responsibility?
That's because, it's not just a responsibility, he still loves Shin Ji dearly.
After learning the news of Shin Ji's car accident, his mood has been unstable, and Min Jing happens to sense his inner struggle and decides to let him go to Russia. His injuries were severe. When it comes to responsibility, even though Shin Ji didn't show up being mature and sensible in her previous married life, she has now been adequately compensated.
In order to pursue her dream, she decides to divorce and agrees to Shin Ji's request. She even endured the homelessness that a rented house brought to Shin Ji, not to mention helping her again and again.
At that point, he really didn't have a better option? Or do you want to keep going? Can we really just end the relationship? Why would he do that? In fact, Shin Ji's roommate can't get in touch with her parents, but Min Yong has the ability to get in touch with her.
It is entirely possible that he would take Minjing to Russia if he wanted to, or make an agreement with Minjing to return after taking care of Shin Ji, but he did not choose to do so. Also, does he really not have any responsibility for Minjing? It took a lot of effort for him to get permission from his fiancée's parents, and it wasn't that he didn't understand how much heartache Min Jing would have.
The reason why Min Yong didn't mention it first was because he owed too much to Min Jing. Frankly, Min Jing also has a hidden intention to gamble behind doing this. So when Min Yong went to the help desk and turned to hug him, her eyes were full of antiquity, and even a simple pause was enough to stop her tears. All this is because Minyong has become an "uncrowned king".
Despite the great suffering that Min Yong has experienced, he still chooses Shin Ji. If Shen Zhi is reluctant to go, he will choose to refund the ticket instead of changing it. But in the end, he gave the 5 hours to Min Jing and the destination to Shen Ji. Indeed, he once said that he would regret it, but when people are faced with a choice, don't they all make the decision that they regret even more if they don't choose?
True love means selfishly owning, not letting go unreservedly.
Therefore, looking forward from the finale, Min Yong did not change suddenly, and the screenwriter did not go against the sky, but cleverly hid the answer in the details.
In episode 132, Min Yong asks Shin Ji how his health is as soon as he enters the door, and finds that Min Jing's hands are wrapped in gauze, but Yun Ho seems very nervous, thinking that Seo is always not paying attention. I really feel sorry for her and want to care for her, because I feel that if she is not by my side, I will not be able to take care of her, it is a natural and instinctive devotion to her, not a selfless devotion.
In episode 54, Min Jing checks Min Yong's phone and unexpectedly discovers that Shin Ji's shortcut** number is 01. This made her feel a little uneasy, but then Yoon-ho quietly changed her number to 01. Min Yong tries to press 01 directly to find Shin Ji, but accidentally calls Min Jing, which confuses her. However, in episode 145, a close-up shot of Min Yong calling Min Jing shows who 02 01 is, which doesn't need to be said at all.
When Min Yong is with Shin Ji, he always does his best to selfishly let her stay by his side, and for Min Jing, he chooses to let go without reservation. If this is seen as a show of maturity, then why isn't Min Jing interested in it? She has made it clear that she longs for Minyong's selfish love, rather than leaving her all the time.
The more secret fact is that Minyong's family believes that he and Shin Ji are not divorced. Shin Ji calls him Parent, Dad, Mom, Brother, Sister-in-law, while Yoon Ho Min Ho calls him Auntie. Except for his sister-in-law, everyone else prefers Shin Ji, including the eldest of the Lee family and his grandfather and uncle who lives in Busan. Minjing and Minyong have a long relationship, but the elders in her family still don't know anything about it.
Do you remember the family photo in the first episode? The ** that was never taken down has revealed the fact that Min Jing does not belong to the family, but Shin Ji has always been a member of it.
Therefore, the screenwriter has made it very clear that the car accident is only a precondition, and whether Shen Ji receives the ** or not, what should happen will continue to happen. At the moment when Shen Ji could no longer hide the depths of his heart, his fate had already been decided.
Compared to the reunion, the imperfect ending is more memorable.
I've been thinking about the fact that "Funny Family" is so memorable because it brings us both laughter and a sad ending.
Shen Zhi is a bold person, her abilities are not outstanding, and her temper is not small. Despite her "shit-like self-esteem", she doesn't value her partner and is not a competent mother, so it can't simply be said that she was wrong to pursue her dreams. She loves Minyong, and he also loves Minyong. It must be understood that she missed three chances due to Minyong.
She genuinely believes that repeated compromises don't get the marriage she wants, and that's what really makes her explode. Her love is so fragile and sensitive, and the slightest hint of wind can make her collapse and become worthless. In a similar situation, Min Yong was too masculine at first, unable to bear the burden of his family or how to love someone deeply.
Over time, they have both experienced various trials and changes, but in love, they have encountered some regrets. Although they could have chosen to get back together when they were in love, they eventually came together, which made Minjing a knot between them.
She said, "I know you like him, and I think he's going to fall in love with me." I think it is not heart-wrenching for Shin Ji to say, "Wait for my brother to fall in love with me again", the person who once only saw her now has someone else in his heart, but they will continue to walk firmly after this incident.
The nature of life is like this, it fails to meet everyone's expectations, and it is impossible to satisfy everyone. Luckily, eventually everyone is moving towards their goals, although such a growth process can be a little difficult.