Jia Pingwa said: "Bad people have no shame, so they live with peace of mind, good people have many rules, and too much thinking becomes a disease." The disposition of living a life is: to live badly, to be ridiculed, to live well, to be jealous, but to sit temporarily in this world, but to go through thousands of vicissitudes. ”
In the crucible of life, good people and bad people are intertwined and symbiotic, each experiencing different situations.
The dilemma faced by the good guys is obvious. They follow the norms and moral standards of society, are sensitive to the needs of others, and are always considerate of the feelings of others.
However, such actions often put them in a dilemma. They bear the expectations and judgments of the outside world, carry a heavy moral baggage, and often feel physically and mentally exhausted.
The bad guys are very different. They ignore the rules, focus only on their own interests, and act without scruples. Their actions, while often criticized, are sometimes tolerated and understood. This unfair phenomenon makes good people feel confused and helpless.
Wang Zhiwen's lines in "The Way of Heaven" vividly reveal the contrast between good guys and bad guys.
"Mice never think that what they eat is stolen, flies never think they are dirty, and bats don't know that they are poisonous, after all, in the world of crows, swans are all guilty. ”
Rats, flies, and bats live in their respective biospheres, and their behavior, although unacceptable to people, is justified in their own logical system.
And good people, in the process of adhering to morality, often need to give up some personal happiness and satisfaction.
In this world, being a good person is not easy.
Mr. Yang Jiang once said: "If you want to be an honest person who has no quarrel with the world, people will use you and bully you;If you have a little talent and good character, people will be jealous of you and exclude you;If you give in generously, others will infringe on you and harm you. ”
However, despite the adversity, we should still firmly choose to be a good person.
In this long life, no matter how many ups and downs and confusions we encounter, we should stick to the bottom line of morality and maintain the goodness in our hearts. Only in this way can we walk more steadily on the road of life.
As Mo Yan said: Reality tells us that it is difficult to be a good person, it is even more difficult to be an honest person, the better the character, the fewer friends, the more down-to-earth the person, the worse the mix, the kinder the heart, the more suffering, the more right you do, the more tired you live, this is the sorrow of human beings. ”
But even in the face of adversity, one should still maintain faith in goodness. In this complex and ever-changing world, what is needed is not only wisdom and courage, but also the qualities of kindness and justice.
No matter how many hardships and misunderstandings we encounter, we should be determined to be a good person in order to truly experience the value and meaning of life.
In the confrontation of human nature, let us choose to be a good person, let the seeds of kindness take root and sprout in our hearts, and let the world become a better place because of our existence.