My dad and my mom were both from 1958 and belonged to dogs, so they quarreled all their lives until they couldn't quarrel anymore.
My ** sex is strong, and my ability is also strong, the only regret is that I haven't read a book, I don't know how to read, but she has always had a heart that does not admit defeat, whether she works in the field or at home, she is very powerful. What about my dad, an old high school student, 7In the 80s, I was great in the countryside, and I was a village chief for decades, and I was busy all day long, so my mother basically completed the work of the family. My mom is a woman. We have three children, me, my sister, and my brother. My mom hadn't read a book, so she wanted us to study well. At that time, girls were very well-read, and basically worked after graduating from primary school, but my mother was an exception, as long as we studied hard, we were not allowed to do household work. At that time, the family had eight acres of land, and my mother was a woman who was busy all day, but what about my father?I don't know what to do all day?And my dad works very slowly, my mom can't get used to it, and the two often quarrel.
Later, I went to normal school and became a teacher. My sister graduated from university and was admitted to the civil service, and my brother graduated from graduate school. The year was 2016. During the summer vacation that year, I told my mom that I was going to go to my sister's place for the Chinese New Year (my sister is in Guangdong), which should be warmer than in the north. Everything was planned, except for no surprises. My mother had a cerebral hemorrhage just after school started in September, and the situation was particularly critical at that time. We chose surgery, my mother has worked hard all her life, and we haven't done our filial piety well. Later, his life was saved, and the sequelae was hemiplegia and aphasia, and he couldn't take care of himself. All three of us have to go to work, except for my brother who is not married, my sister and I have families and children, and my brother is not in his hometown when he works. Each has its own difficulties. I found someone to take care of my mother, but it was not very good, and then the burden of taking care of my mother fell on my father's shoulders, and 7 years passed in a flash, and my mother was taken care of by my father very well, and the whole body was massaged every morning, so there was no pressure sores on the body. But my dad has also seen a lot older.
Someone in the neighborhood said to my dad that after so many years, my mom might as well leave, so that my dad would be relieved. I also asked my dad, after so many years of being so tired, did you regret saving my mom in the first place?My dad said that he never regretted it, as long as my mother lived for a day, he would take good care of it for a day, on the one hand, to repay my mother for her dedication to the family, on the other hand, as long as my mother was there, he would not feel lonely at home, and my mother could not speak. But he can talk to my mother, and it's better to have someone to keep you company than to be alone.
Long Yingtai said: "The so-called parent-child game is a practice that is gradually drifting apart", we are, we want to be filial, each has its own difficulties, and the only thing we can give is money. Less husband and wife, old companions, and more by your side.
It's the other half. Just like my dad and my mom, I've been happy all my life, but when it's over, it's still my dad who takes care of my mom.
Turning to look at my dad, he was feeding my mom and talking about the village. Although my mom can't speak, it doesn't matter to my dad anymore, as long as my mom is alive, my mom is here, home is there, and there is sustenance in my heart.