There is a saying: The unjust rich are troubled, and the family and poverty are enough. ”
If a wealthy family is often in conflict, it will gradually decline.
If it is a poor family, if it can maintain peace and warmth, it can also cultivate excellent feng shui and change the current situation of the family.
Generally speaking, the rise and fall of a family lies in management, and only when it is properly managed can it bid farewell to poverty and move towards prosperity.
How to run it?Pay attention to the right and say goodbye to the mistakes, and you will really reap the rewards.
Remember, it's important to throw away one of the three poor habits that a family is not thriving.
As the old saying goes:
The harmony hall is blessed with longevity, and the harmonious family is precious. ”
A family can prosper and develop, often with harmony as the precious, and can really twist into a rope, not afraid of wind and rain, and face difficulties.
On the contrary, if the family is always more temperamental than harmonious, and there are constant disputes everywhere, it is destined to lead to family decay and depression.
I've seen such a story before.
There is a couple in a cake shop, usually because the business is too busy, the two of them will quarrel constantly because of a trivial matter, and they will not give in to each other.
In the most serious case, when the two were arguing, the husband suddenly picked up a kitchen knife, brandished it and said to his wife:
If you talk back to me again, don't blame me for being rude to you. ”
When the wife heard her husband say this to herself, she was also furious and shot back loudly
Do you think I'm afraid of you?Come on, I'll see if you dare to touch me and try?”
The cake shop of the two people is obviously doing good business, but because they often quarrel with each other, there are fewer and fewer customers in the store.
In the end, it had to be closed.
There is a sentence in Zhu Zi's Family Motto:
The family is harmonious, although the food is not continued, there is also joy. ”
A family can become prosperous, often inseparable from a harmonious atmosphere, only let the family have a harmonious atmosphere, in order to everything prosperous, rich and long-lasting.
If you have something to say, you have something to discuss, you must not be more tempered than peaceful, and only by saying goodbye to strife will you prosper.
There is a saying: the most difficult company in the world to run is the family, and the most difficult relationship is the husband and wife. ”
If there is only endless complaining and pickiness between husband and wife, and there is never warm gratitude, no matter how rich the family is, it will go down.
A reader friend shared his story.
She said that she and her husband have been married for many years, and the two of them have worked diligently, and the family's economic situation is getting better and better.
However, I didn't expect my husband to file for divorce from me.
It turns out that two people are always critical of each other in their usual interactions, no matter what the other party does or says, it will attract opposition from the other party, in short, no matter what they do, it is wrong.
Even in public, two people will quarrel openly over some trivial matters, seemingly without regard for each other's feelings.
The more time passes, the weaker the relationship between the two people, the worse the life, and finally each other comes to an end.
There is such a philosophical passage:
Two people who have been together for a long time will encounter good and bad things, and they can't stand repeated complaints, decadent family atmosphere, soaked for a long time, and scattered and easy. ”
It is not easy for a family to get along, especially if they have gone through the troughs and ups and downs together, but also cherish the hard-won things they have at the moment, and should not always be critical of each other, but be more grateful.
No one is perfect, and if you always look at each other in your own way, you will never reap satisfaction and contentment.
On the contrary, if you can tolerate and understand each other with gratitude, then the relationship between you will be harmonious and happy.
Please remember, don't always be critical and blaming in everything, the more you live like this, the more decaying your life will be, and only if you know how to be considerate and understanding, your family will prosper.
The Book of Rites reads:
Father and son, brotherhood, husband and wife, and the fat of the family. ”
A family can become more and more prosperous, and it is often inseparable from the silent support of the family, so that the family can prosper.
I've seen the story of entrepreneur Cao Dewang and his wife Chen Fengying before.
After the two got married, they just started to grow fungus together, and then sent it from Fujian to Jiangxi, the purpose was to earn the difference in price.
However, the heavens did not fulfill people's wishes.
The money was not earned, his goods were seized, and Cao Dewang owed a huge amount of money.
When his wife learned about it, she didn't complain and blame, but encouraged him
As long as the person is good, it's a big deal to start all over again. ”
After that, Cao Dewang was running around doing business, and his wife took care of his sick mother at home without any complaints.
With the strong support of his wife behind him, he helped Cao Dewang become a famous entrepreneur later.
When a family gets along, only by supporting each other and complaining less will it become more united, and it will make the family better and better.
On the contrary, if the family has no support and only complains, it will only make everyone physically and mentally exhausted, and the whole family will slowly go downhill.
Don't blame when you encounter problems, and carry everything together, such a family will prosper one day.
Sun Qifeng, a master of science, said
The prosperity and decline of family fortune, heaven cannot control its power, but it controls itself. ”
The meaning of this sentence is that the prosperity of a family is never predestined by God or influenced by other people, but is caused within the self.
Only by really throwing away the wrong habits within the family, so that the family can get along happily, understand and cherish each other, not only increase cohesion, but also make each other better and better.
I hope you can have a thriving and prosperous family, in which you can cleanse your mind, be happy, happy, and always go up!
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