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Love yourself and use men as tools. ”
This makes sense at first glance, but it doesn't stand up to scrutiny.
is like the many views of the big woman, it seems to be able to make people feel empowered, but it is not a long-term way to get along.
Who is the big woman in Ququ?
She is the hottest emotional blogger this year, one-on-one microphone 800 times, it is said that there are many juniors to ask her how to get men to give more rice (money).
Her live broadcast room is breathtaking because the story is strange and real.
And her point of view was also summarized by netizens as a "fishing girl course", and even known as "Zhang Xuefeng in the emotional world".
But recently, the big woman of Ququ was suddenly ** by the whole network.
The 100,000+ viewers of a live broadcast show that there is still a great demand for the content she entered.
It is undeniable that some of her views are referential, but her values are biased.
Ququ is familiar to many people because of the case of a Shanghai financial woman who blew herself up and made more than 20 million in Lianmai.
This woman claims to work in the financial industry, earns 1 million a year, and met a married man who is 15 years older many years ago.
After getting along for 3 years, the woman broke up, and man A promised to wait for him to be promoted and divorced, and later man A earned 20 million as a **, all of which was given to this woman.
Later, man A said that he wanted to remarry his ex-wife, and the woman was also anxious and began to take the initiative.
But now, this woman met a man B who was 3 years older and was doing business, and the woman asked for a bride price of 4 million and 1 million living expenses, but man B's business was not good and he was in arrears.
Now this woman doesn't know how to choose, so she ran to the live broadcast room of Ququ Big Woman.
Unexpectedly, Lianmai became popular, and this big melon in Shanghai's financial circle rushed directly to the hot search.
The most incredible thing is that these three people were confirmed to be real in Shanghai's financial circles, and they were even picked up by netizens.
Now, because the authenticity of the content in the live broadcast room has been confirmed, the popularity of Ququ Big Woman is even more than before.
Of course, because the content of the chat in the live broadcast room is relatively sensitive, in order to avoid the monitoring of the platform, she has her own set of black words in the live broadcast room:
Dribbling (pregnant), happiness certificate (divorce certificate), entering the siege (getting married), xiazi (the other party spends money for himself), rice (making money), and so on.
You have to talk black with her, you can't talk more than 10 minutes at a time, and no one can break the rules.
And she summed up her "money party**" as "Jingui Relationship", priced at 2980 yuan, 1v1 consultation priced at tens of thousands, and 100,000 yuan can enter the girlfriend circle.
He has also published a number of best-selling books that express his views and life journey.
A set down, a proper Ququ female adult quickly realizes the channel.
And the fans who pay attention to the big women of Ququ are basically women with a certain economic foundation, and there are even many who rely on men to rise.
To be honest, she said that women should improve themselves and become strong, which I completely agree with, but they are not the same in terms of values.
When Ququ cries that she is not willing to accept a humble fate, she may be able to get a glimpse of her value orientation.
In fact, the big woman Ququ is very sober and rational in the relationship between men and women.
She asked girls to refuse to fall in love, not to suffer losses in the relationship, and at the same time to improve themselves and grow upward.
These are all fine, and they are what I identify with as a woman.
We say don't get carried away by love, it's right to pay whatever the cost, but the theory of teaching Xiao Sanduo how to make more money from men is very controversial in itself.
She saidSome people always say that I can, how can I teach girls to make men's money, don't you want love?Hahaha, you go and ask those women who want to love, what is the end?
Such a statement undoubtedly poked at the pain points of many girls and gained batch after batch of fans.
She teaches fans how to get a man to buy himself a house within a year;Teach fans to go to the night game to fish for local tyrants;Let them take the "ball" to the top position, get pregnant as soon as possible, and blackmail the other party to give money;You have to act like you love him, but you can't really love him;Spend time with multiple men at the same time to avoid getting on top of yourself;Under the guise of falling in love and getting married, men are used as cash cows.
And her woman cultivates a man's sense of paying;After the man makes a request, the woman also has to ask for money transfer, and so on.
When she exports these and measures women's success in money, her values have been deviated and distorted.
She said that everyone is suitable for different tracks, some are suitable for male competition and rely on their own hard work, and some are suitable for female competition and male competition to make money.
But is it really that easy to get money from men?Everyone can get a man's 20 million casually like a Shanghai financial woman
If you get lost in her logic, you must not be mature enough and your self-awareness is not high.
It is true that there are a lot of explosive things in her live broadcast room, but no one is a fool, and the bigwigs are not wine bags and rice bags.
No matter how slippery the theory of Ququ is a big woman, it can't stand up to the reality, and many women have no way to solve this relationship.
Instead of thinking about making money, it is better to manage your life and emotions in a down-to-earth manner.
Of course, I found that although the big woman Ququ taught the girl and the junior how to make money, she herself was a person who only believed in herself in her bones, and she relied on herself to earn money instead of a man.
Many fans of Ququ Big Woman feel that her point of view is a sober statement in the world, and she can't let men prostitute for nothing, and even make money from men as much as possible.
As everyone knows, this is also consuming trust, when so many girls who watched her live broadcast use this set of theories to fall in love and get married, will the ending really get what they want?
Your inner perception of feelings has become a material that money can measure, and the means and diligence are all to make money from men.
It would be better to use this means to strategize and work hard to build your own career, wouldn't it be more enjoyable.
At the end of the day, even if you want to run a normal and healthy relationship, the cost of trust will get higher and higher.
I have always believed that the most effective way to get along with people is always sincerity and kindness.
No one wants to be taken advantage of, and they don't like to deal with bad people.
Teacher Luo Xiang said:You will eventually understand that the future is more important than love, and you will understand that love is more rare than the future, but in the end you will understand that the right person will stand in your future.
For the correct view of emotions and marriage, I think it should be like this:Choose life first, then partner.