AttentionBrother Poison
Decoding the rules of the workplace
Author: Brother Poison & Lian Lizhi.
*: Brother Poison (ID: jokerdjt).
Whoever is happy, who prefers silence
I'm a big believer in how fast you surf the Internet, so I guess you've probably swiped that one too.
is a blogger who posted "Don't be carried away by the happiness on the Internet"**, to be precise, it is a fake for some love bloggers.
Probably speaking, many bloggers on the Internet now like to play the role of a beloved wife, which can attract young women's customer groups, because women are more likely to generate consumption.
When girls resonate with ** content, then their purpose has been achieved, not only can they bring goods to make money, but they may even achieve the effect of discord.
Everyone has seen too many "good man" characters, and when they return to real life, there will always be a gap.
As soon as the blogger made a move, he gave tens of thousands of gifts, bought a house and sent a car at every turn, and asked for warmth in every small matter, feeling like he was born specifically for his partner.
I'm not passing the buck or praising the highs and lows, I once thought that I would become an excellent life partner in the future.
But after I saw so many couples or couples around me, I found a different truth:
People will only look for what they lack in comparison, and will not cherish what they already have.
If you want your partner to earn money, then he may not be able to take care of his family;If you want your other half to take care of everything, then you are destined to have no time to work hard in your career;You said that there are always people in this world who can do both, but you can find a few more.
A perfect person doesn't need love, and the so-called love, I think, should be the love of a crippled person, begging for mercy.
Although this sentence sounds very broken, I bluntly say that if I am really perfect and invincible, then what does love matter to me?
We've been ignoring the fact that the beauty of the internet is because that's their job, and just as we need performance, they need topicality.
We'll nod and smile for the work, and they'll prepare the script to get attention.
You think that the ubiquitous romance may also be a deliberate layout, I don't deny sincerity, I just think sincerity is too rare, and you can only feel it yourself.
Private romance is not public
I remembered a passage I read a long time ago:
People who like it five points can't wait to hang him on their lips to show off the market;If you have seven likes, you can only share them with your closest friends;If you like it very much, then no one is willing to say that it is a secret that belongs only to you.
I used to think that this sentence was wrong, and I retorted that people should make private romance public, but now I think it's really naïve.
We think that if we tell the world that we are happy, we can double our happiness, but life does not seem to have so many audiences, and reality does not need a lot of literary and crepe truths, we live our lives well behind closed doors, which is better than anything else.
Is the happiness of the circle of friends really happy, is the happiness that comes out of the mouth really happy, or can you judge whether you are happy if you are seen by others once in a while?
Perhaps some people need to be recognized by the outside world, and they can find themselves more confident in the praise of others.
But I always remember a sentence, no one wants you to live too well, so I share the little luck generously, and I collect the big harvest alone.
I've passed the stage where I feel happy and I want the whole world to be happy, because I know that happiness is not contagious, but jealousy and hatred will.
Private romance is like private possessions, and it's not a bad thing to treasure them.
People who are trapped by the Great Truth
tends to collapse over small things
A few days ago, I was sweetened by the interaction between Zhu Dan and Zhou Yiwei in the variety show, and at the same time, I was speechless by the random editing of the previous marketing account.
After reading it, I only remembered a few points:
Zhu Dan's mouth made the public have a great misunderstanding of Zhou Yiwei, we should apologize to Zhou Yiwei, and Zhu Dan should apologize to us. ”
Zhou Zhouwei is a real "love brain", and he bears it silently without refutating or getting angry. ”
In fact, in the show, Wang Yanlin has been persuading Zhou Yiwei to express it and not let others guess and misunderstand, but he just smiled faintly, because he didn't value these, and it was enough for his "chick" to be able to see it.
In fact, think about it, two people who have a strong desire to express will write a lot of romantic words, and a strong sense of action will become a solid backing, which is a good match.
It's just that in life, we only remember the person who is good at expression, because we feel that words will convey a lot of information for us.
But we forget that there is not so much truth in life, and there is no perfect lover who spits out golden sentences casually.
What we love and reach out to is real people, not cold words and fixed bridges with scripts.
Subconsciously thinking about love, not letting words fall through the cracks is love, adjusting the stride length is love, and undisguised straightforward expression is also love.
Love does not have a fixed form and time, love is not to fall in love with someone with a camera on his head, the beauty recorded by the lens is for others to see;And the beauty recorded by the eyes is what you can see for yourself.
Didn't you say in "Love Apartment" that acting has a script, and life is broadcast live every day.
There is no empathy for the joys and sorrows of life, only tangible experience.
The truth is used to see, but not to be understood, I only know that every time I get out of the trough, it is not those chicken soup for the soul, but the self that is stronger step by step.