I earn 50,000 yuan a month for my girlfriend, and she says it s too little

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-01-29

My name is Li Ming, and I am an ordinary office worker. My family is not wealthy, and my parents are ordinary workers, but I have been working hard to create better living conditions for myself and my family.

When I was 22 years old, I met a girl who caught my heart, her name was Xiaoya. Xiaoya is a kind and gentle girl with a QC appearance, and we quickly fall in love and decide to start living together.

Although I don't earn much money, I try my best to meet Xiaoya's material needs. Every month, I use most of my salary of 50,000 yuan to pay rent, living expenses, and daily expenses. I didn't even leave much pocket money for myself and poured my heart and soul into her.

However, my dedication to Xiaoya seems to be far from enough. Every time I offered her my salary, she always said with a disgruntled expression, "This money is too little, it's not enough." Her tone revealed dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction with my efforts.

I tried to communicate with Xiaoya and tell her about my efforts and difficulties, but she always made excuses to shirk it. She said she wanted a better life and hoped I could provide her with more money and material comforts.

Gradually, I began to doubt the relationship between us. I found myself no longer happy and no longer happy about the relationship. I began to wonder if it was worth the effort. I began to realize that love should be based on mutual understanding, respect and support, not just material exchange.

So, I decided to break up with Xiaoya. It wasn't an easy decision because I still loved her, but I couldn't indulge in this endless cycle of needs anymore.

The days after the breakup are not easy. I experienced loss and sadness, but I also came to understand that life needs more strength and independence. I revisited my values and cherished those who genuinely cared about me even more.

A year has passed and I have recovered a lot. I have found that through my own hard work and struggle, I can create a better life. I started learning Xi new skills to further improve my abilities and income. Although there is still a long way to go, I would like to believe that the future will be better.

Now I am more independent and stronger. I have learned to appreciate the little things in life and cherish every progress and growth. I learned that it is not money and material things that can bring me true happiness, but inner peace and self-satisfaction.

Looking back, I'm glad I made the right choice. Although I have given a lot, I have also learned many valuable life lessons from this experience. I learned that love should not be built on money, but on mutual respect, understanding, and support.

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