"I really admire Yang Jiuhong, and even men can't compare to her."
Bai Yuting and Yang Jiuhong both belong to the style of hurrying.
Yang Jiuhong sat in Bai Yufen's house for three days and three nights, and was deeply moved, so she promised Yang Jiuhong to spend the rest of her life with the seventh master. Bai Yuting hoped to imitate Yang Jiuhong's approach and find a mat to sit down on in front of Wan Xiaoju's house, hoping that Wan Xiaoju could accept her affectionate confession.
Once, Bai Yuting clearly saw Wan Xiaoju and her wife and children walking into Wan Mansion, but she was still standing outside the door, waiting blankly. She knew that Brother Qi's family was in the county seat and lived far away from her home, so she was in such a hurry. Then, in the middle of the night, she walked into her new residence and begged Seventh Brother to propose marriage for her, she thought that Seventh Brother had a very heavy face, and as a noble lady, it was perfectly acceptable to become Wan Xiaoju's maid. However, she didn't know what to do. She even intended to marry her first and then reveal the news to her mother.
In contrast, the hardships that Yang Jiuhong experienced in order to win the heart of the seventh master were actually just her patience challenged. She has always had a good relationship with the Seventh Master. She had never been in Bai Yufen's home for three days and three nights in a row, and whenever someone closed, she would go home immediately, and before they opened the door, she was already waiting in front of the door, which was where her real strength lies. Her porter has almost become a relative to her, not to mention her well-behaved appearance of sitting quietly waiting for the seventh master, which is really impressive.
Despite being affectionate, they don't belong to the same type of people.
Observe the views and attitudes of these two people on the issue of marriage.
Seventh Brother took the initiative to talk to Wan Xiaoju twice, but she refused, and Bai Yuting did what she said, saying, "I want to give up this idea." She said, "I told your mother that you are my son's daughter-in-law." At the age of thirty-six, she believes that as a woman, she should experience at least one marriage in order to be truly recognized in this world. However, except for Wan Xiaoju, she is not favored by anyone in this world. She plans to hold a wedding with Wan Xiaoju's **, this is no child's play, the ceremony of the wedding completely follows the highest etiquette of the mansion gate, for example, she has a formal worship ceremony with **.
Bai Yuting's more resolute decision is that she not only married **, but also stayed on ** all her life and would never marry anyone again. She said that what she loved was her photographs, and what she loved was her home, a warm, peaceful cottage. Ten years passed, and when the real person appeared in her sight, holding her hand, as if she could enter the cave room immediately, she unexpectedly refused. "You are the one who has a house, so I don't love you!"You have your own family, and I have the same."
In fact, Wan Xiaoju didn't know anything about this matter, which shows that everything Bai Yuting did was not to impress Wan Xiaoju, as the seventh master said: "In your life, there is truth in fiction, and there is fiction in reality, more real than anyone else."
Bai Yuting knows how to make a choice, she doesn't want to leave a trace of pity in the scene of true love, she has the courage to take responsibility for what she has done, she is both decisive and satisfied.
When Bai Yuting reached the age of forty-six, she still maintained the shy temperament of everyone's ladies, and always cherished the belly pocket that was enough to scare away Wan Xiaoju. She only started as a mother after her mother's death. Although Bai Yuting is willful, she always adheres to her own rules and family education.
For Yang Jiuhong, even the wedding was planned by her alone. The Seventh Master was very surprised to see that the room was full of the word "Xi", but he still couldn't resist Yang Jiuhong's attraction.
Although the pressure of marriage is very high, enough to control the seventh master, the seventh master's temper is uncontrollable.
She didn't really understand the deep meaning of a living bandit, and the Seventh Master not only has courage, he also has a "wolf nature", which is reflected in his deep affection for a person.
Since he is both the elder of the family and the master of the mansion, his feelings for Yang Jiuhong are by no means limited to one person. The seventh master is the third in the seven families, and although he is also the eldest, he is not like the other brothers, who can get a lot of benefits. If Yang Jiuhong can wait until the seventh master takes the initiative to propose to her, then the love between them may be even deeper.
Yang Jiuhong's sincere emotions are not suitable for the seventh master, it will only become the vassalage of the seventh master, not the person he really loves. The Seventh Master, the son of the Seventh Master. Yang Jiuhong decided to be with the Seventh Master because she felt that the Seventh Master treated her as a person, and she didn't want to lose this person, so she clung to the opportunity and would rather spend her life with her in a dilapidated house. The seventh master's life is all for her and her family. Of course, this is only her initial wish, with the strength of the seventh master, she will not live a difficult life in Jinan. In front of the mansion, there is a group of people who have their own way of life, their own ideals and pursuits. However, neither of these two people has enough strength to fight against the mansion gate, and Yang Jiuhong is not willing to be separated from the seventh master for a long time, so he will still face the mansion gate in the end.
At first, Yang Jiuhong knew her identity, and she only had the identity of her aunt's wife. Her daughter and husband are all people with status, and she also knows that her life is for these people, so she has been working hard. However, under so many pressures, her ambitions are much more than that, she longs for too many things, but it is difficult to clarify her position, and she lacks the confidence to fight for it. Therefore, she vented this unobtainable pain on her daughter, mother-in-law, and men, and finally became a confused person who harmed others and herself, completely losing her cute nature.
Yang Jiuhong had an argument with her second grandmother, which led to her road to enter the mansion completely blocked.
In her new residence, she confronts her second grandmother face-to-face, thus losing three good opportunities to change her fate.
One: When Yang Jiuhong heard Honghua mention the arrival of the second grandmother, she immediately and quickly left the scene. She knew that the second grandmother was a very laughing person, and she laughed like a blooming rose. When the second grandmother was enjoying the drama, she was in a very happy mood and took the initiative to greet others to avoid causing dissatisfaction among others, this was because she felt that Yang Jiuhong did not respect her, which also explained why she complained about Yang Jiuhong.
Two: Yang Jiuhong suddenly heard the second grandmother call Jiali, and was so frightened that she threw away the cat that had fallen asleep (she really felt sorry for the cat), turned her head, and the two happened to meet their eyes, so many people followed the second grandmother, Yang Jiuhong was ready to flee without saying hello. What can I do?It's no wonder that the second grandmother said that she didn't understand the rules and didn't consider the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, after all, she was a member of the family, which should be taken into account.
3. When the second grandmother called Yang Jiuhong back, Yang Jiuhong still unabashedly showed her face to the second grandmother, which was the same as the way she usually showed Huang Chun with her head down. Huang Chun is not stupid, she has the temperament of a wife, how could the second grandmother be angry because of a kiln sister. The second grandmother said, you kid, do you still know how to talk back to me?Yang Jiuhong compromised with the seventh master, clashed with the second grandmother, and completely reversed. When the second grandmother asked her which aunt she was, she replied firmly that she was the mother of Bellie, and unabashedly refuted and defiant.
In addition to taking away her children, the second grandmother's behavior is really too much, but in other aspects, she is basically acceptable in terms of face. She also loves her children very much, in the eyes of outsiders, she is a filial daughter-in-law, but in the eyes of others, she is the mother of a big man. For example, when Yang Jiuhong was pregnant with her second child, her second grandmother was very concerned about her, and she believed that women were the most vulnerable when they were pregnant, so she gave Yang Jiuhong some white fungus longan as a gift. Yang Jiuhong misinterpreted it as missing the child in her womb, which made the relationship between the two extremely strained.
Yang Jiuhong really doesn't know how to cherish it, although the second grandmother praises her as a beauty, she doesn't know how to smile.
The second grandmother said softly to the third master: "You may not have noticed, she really doesn't understand the rules." Her tone gave the impression that she was disciplining her daughter-in-law normally.
When Jingqi began to build a new residence, the second grandmother came to visit. She also asked about Jiuhong's arrival time, but it should be noted that she was talking about Jiuhong, not Yang Jiuhong.
Yang Jiuhong adopted a tough attitude and lost the opportunity to be trained by the second grandmother. The second grandmother resolutely refused to let Yang Jiuhong wear filial piety, which implied that the second grandmother had given up on the transformation of Yang Jiuhong. Observing Xiangxiu, she is a little girl holding a dog, and under the influence of the second grandmother, she shows the temperament of a woman in the house, how is it different from Yang Jiuhong.
Yang Jiuhong did not give Bai Yuting's mother the respect she deserved, which was seen by Bai Yuting, but she didn't take it seriously at the time. Seventh Brother has a deep affection for Xiangxiu, and this scene is seen by Bai Yuting, but her heart is deeply concerned. Bai Yuting finally understood what was going on.
The seventh brother started his romance.
Seventh Brother's affection for Xiangxiu is deep, and he prefers to spend time in the countryside with her rather than indulging in joy all day.
Wang Xiguang denounced the Seventh Master as a despicable person, which made the Seventh Master so angry that it was difficult to swallow his meal. The seventh master is a poor boy, he has been bullied since he was a child, and his wife and son were also beaten to the point that his nose and face were swollen. When the seventh master enjoyed the nest head in Xiangxiu's home, he felt an unprecedented aroma, and Xiangxiu angrily scolded him for "the rich gave birth to a poor life, cheap bones", which made the seventh master feel very angry.
Back then, Seventh Brother didn't dare to publicly express his liking for Yang Jiuhong in front of Bai Yuting, let alone say that he liked her in front of his mother and allowed her to enter the mansion. Later, after the seventh master knew this secret, he no longer said that he liked it. The seventh master may not even be able to clearly say what he likes her, and he can't praise Sister Yao for being too charming.
I still remember that Yang Jiuhong had just been redeemed, and the seventh master described the gate of the mansion as like a fragile hornet's nest, which could scare Yang Jiuhong at the slightest movement, warning her that she would be stung to death sooner or later. Regarding their marriage, the seventh master did not disclose it to his parents, he had a clear plan from the beginning, just to marry an aunt and place her in Jinan. He was an honest man, he didn't like to deal with women, and he didn't have much power. Therefore, when Yang Jiuhong came to the capital with her daughter, the seventh master seemed so anxious and uneasy.
When Xiangxiu wanted to become a wife, she deliberately added fuel to the fire and said to the seventh master: "This hornet's nest is not easy to poke, the people of the Bai family have offended Guang, you can fight them, can they tolerate this matter"?This time, the seventh master was not only no longer afraid of the hornet's nest, but also decided to try to stab one himself.
The grandson is about to reach the age of Xiangxiu, what does it matter!
Please inform Yang Jiuhong directly that he is about to remarry!
The seventh master did not communicate well with his family, and as long as he had a surplus, he would draw his sword to serve him, and he effortlessly violated the rules of the family and married Xiangxiu.
Yang Jiuhong is like a paper tiger, specially used to pinch soft persimmons.
Bai Yuting immediately noticed that the relationship between Seventh Brother and Xiangxiu had already been deep. She suggested that Seventh Brother take Xiangxiu for himself, and Seventh Brother responded that he did have such a plan.
As for Yang Jiuhong, although she knew everything well, she didn't dare to take any action against Xiangxiu. In the final analysis, Yang Jiuhong is afraid of the second grandmother, and she has a powerful girl who is afraid of her. Huaihua has become a special case, and Yang Jiuhong's scolding of her has become commonplace. Therefore, she constantly looks around, which angers Xiangxiu. The seventh master also confessed his feelings and said: "The reason why Xiangxiu dares to be so arrogant with me is because I have a good impression of her. After that, the seventh master went to the countryside to look for Xiangxiu.
What Yang Jiuhong should do is to let the Seventh Master straighten her up, and then put Xiangxiu into the room. She knows the temper and temper of the seventh master, he is a person who is easily impulsive, if the seventh master does not agree, she will do it immediately. Due to her lack of courage, Xiangxiu ended up ahead of her. She is a very honest woman and does not like to be called stupid. In fact, before Bai Yuting started to speak, Yang Jiuhong always had a chance.
Yang Jiuhong didn't start complaining until the seventh master told her that he wanted to remarry: "I've survived all my life, and I've never said a word to straighten you up, why did she become a wife as soon as she arrived"!"You mean, I mean, I mean. Indeed, Yang Jiuhong chose to remain silent when she shouldn't have said it, and when she shouldn't have said it, she added an unnecessary burden.
She only remembered the second grandmother at this moment, at least she should be glad that the second grandmother handed over to the seventh master at the last moment of her life was not Xiangxiu, but Huaihua.
Even Jingye began to develop an aversion to Yang Jiuhong, and she was often used as a cover, such as asking Jingye if she dared to call Xiangxiu "Mom." It doesn't come naturally, and even if I don't get used to it, it won't be a big deal for me as a mother.
Among the mansion gates, Yang Jiuhong is the one who can't be mentioned clearly. Except for her second grandmother, everyone else in the family was very kind to her. But Yang Jiuhong attaches too much importance to herself, and every time she encounters a problem, she seems very emotional, offending almost everyone, and Bai Yuting naturally will not stand on her side. For example, she was not satisfied with the repair of the acacia flower, because the second grandmother handed over the acacia flower to the seventh master;And the repair of Xiangxiu is because the seventh master can't control herself, but later she realizes and re-understands the bandit.
Yang Jiuhong used her own hands to destroy her social relationships.
Just when the second grandmother's life was dying, she actually cursed the second grandmother to die earlier in front of the seventh master. The second grandmother pulled her up from the bed, let her take her, and came to Sister Yu's room. Bai Yuting's affection for her was in vain. "The Seventh Master is a good temper. Once, Yang Jiuhong chose to hang herself, which made Bai Yuting very angry, and she blamed the people in her family. "This kid, I don't know why it's like this!"In the face of such a major event, Seventh Brother is reluctant to mention it, there is really no moral bottom line." "I said you know who she is, aren't you her mother?Don't you know what kind of official she is?!"My mother was no exception, not only taking away other people's daughters, but also continuing to treat them unfairly."
Xiangxiu asked the seventh master: "What is the cause of Huaihua's death?"The Seventh Master felt his fault and thought that Huaihua should not be hurt, but Xiangxiu revealed the truth of the matter, which turned out to be the death caused by Yang Jiuhong. The seventh master loves Xiangxiu so much, how can he tolerate her being bullied?Therefore, when he became a wife, he chose to be a wife. And the seventh master himself is also ashamed in the face of a kiln sister's wife, Xiangxiu is also a close person to the old lady after all, and should be given proper treatment.
The Seventh Master talked to his sister without reservation, and when Bai Yuting learned the truth of the matter, she might despise Yang Jiuhong and be more inclined to understand her mother's deep meaning. If her mother decides not to take Yang Jiuhong's child, then the whole family may be in chaos because of her, as it is now.
Yang Jiuhong is indeed a little cautious, lacking real wisdom, what she often does, even it is difficult to maintain face, this kind of character makes it difficult for her to gain a foothold in the mansion.
Bai Yuting is fully qualified to show willfulness, although she is the daughter of the Bai family and is emotional, she can always find a rational balance, in a confused situation, live a free life, self-care, which is completely acceptable.
Yang Jiuhong managed to win the hearts of Yufen, Huang Chun, and her aunt, but she didn't spend much time building a good relationship with her third uncle and Yuting. Especially for Yuting, the seventh master regards her as the most important person, and if Yuting can say anything for Yang Jiuhong, the seventh master will listen to her opinion. It made her very uncomfortable. If Yang Jiuhong can follow Yuting, learn Xi the etiquette that everyone should have, and frequently appear in front of the second grandmother, just as people often said back then, how could the second grandmother not be moved. From a particular point of view, she's already played all the good cards in her hand.
When the seventh master and Xiangxiu entered the palace of marriage, Yang Jiuhong resolutely did not allow everyone in the family to participate in the banquet. Because they are all the heads of the house, and no one can do without the other. Yuting realized that she had caused harm to Huaihua, and if she treated Xiangxiu like this, she didn't want to associate with her, because causing trouble to Seventh Brother actually caused trouble to herself. Yuting and Seventh Brother, there is no need to deal with those hypocrites anymore, they can directly invite the servants of the family to dinner and maintain a happy mood.
Yang Jiuhong was embarrassed by Xiangxiu, mainly to maintain Bai Yuting's dignity. She chose to take the initiative to act as a matchmaker and carry out various preparatory work, in order to repay Seventh Brother for a favor. In her opinion, having a woman in the Seventh Brother's family is the greatest help and support for his life. Initially, when she married **, it almost threatened Seven's life, but Seven's brother not only fulfilled her wishes, but also personally served as the celebrant of the wedding.
Bai Yuting doesn't know anything about love, but she is the person who understands love the most, as long as he sees that Brother Qi has found his true love, he will be happy.
Bai Yuting is fully capable of marrying someone on the **, why can't Seventh Brother choose a partner who is about thirty years younger than him?
Bai Yuting had become the richest man in the family at that time, but she experienced the pain of being bullied by Sister Yao for the first time, can this really be regarded as a relationship!
The seventh master has a good impression of Xiangxiu, and Bai Yuting also loves Xiangxiu, all out of deep affection for her, and both brothers and sisters begin to miss their mother. In this regard, Yang Jiuhong does not have it at all. Xiangxiu grew up under the guidance of her second grandmother and was pampered by her own mother, she spoke sharply and was very likable. As a woman who is both intelligent and promising, Bai Yuting's confidence has gradually increased, but her relationship with Yang Jiuhong has become increasingly estranged.
Yang Jiuhong failed because her mentality became distorted and she had no clear direction.
Comparatively speaking, Huang Chun's wisdom seems to be hidden deeply, while Bai Yuting's thinking is more open.
The seventh master declared: "In this world, you are undoubtedly the most handsome", Huang Chun expressed tolerance for the seventh master's decision to marry his aunt and grandmother, he said: "You also change people, change tastes." There is a deep meaning in these words. She has a good relationship with the Seventh Master. In the past ten years, Qiye has only visited Jinan twice, and he has been accompanying Huang Chun for the rest of the time. The seventh master was very good to her, but she didn't love him. Therefore, the Seventh Master often criticized her for her hypocrisy and virtuousness, believing that Huang Chun was the person he loved most and could understand him the most, and the Seventh Master always regarded Huang Chun as the goddess of the white moonlight. After her death, Yang Jiuhong continued to cause trouble, how could the Seventh Master not miss Huang Chun's kindness, he longed to remarry, and wanted to live the quiet life of the past.
The seventh master once loved Huang Chun and Xiangxiu deeply, which can be seen from the two sentences "This is my daughter-in-law" and "Why can't she be a wife".
The seventh master's feelings for Yang Jiuhong are just pure liking, and his love for her is so deep and selfless.
This tranquil attitude shown by Huang Chun is the best choice to be with the second grandmother. She has a gentle temper, speaks very easily, and doesn't care about anything. She can tolerate anything, even if Yang Jiuhong showed a displeased expression towards her, Yang Jiuhong didn't realize that this was not the behavior of an aunt and grandmother. Although Huang Chun did not teach her any rules, he always hid his heart very clearly, and he still advised Yang Jiuhong to relax his mind at the first time.
For example, once when she was chatting with Yang Jiuhong, the seventh master suddenly came back, and Huang Chun left very wisely, anyway, the seventh master would accompany her, regardless of time. After all, Huang Chun has the blood of the nobility, with a macro vision and a calm character.
Not to mention Bai Yuting, although she has a good impression of Yang Jiuhong, she still remembers the proportions that everyone should have. She is obviously different from Yang Jiuhong, Yang Jiuhong did not take the initiative to establish a good relationship with her, and Bai Yuting did not have conflicts with her family because of the so-called justice. In the eyes of others, she seems to be very happy. Although Yang Jiuhong did not realize the importance of this layer, "success lies in people" is still the key.
Bai Yuting has experienced many highs and lows in her life journey, but she has always maintained that unique fairy-like temperament. Her life is legendary. For example, when she became the richest man in the Bai family, she had the idea of choosing an heir in her middle age, but it was not until she was seventy years old that she decided who would be the heir. Unfortunately, all of her possessions were illegally occupied and taken abroad, but Bai Yuting was still able to confidently live to the age of 80. Her life is very simple, she doesn't have any grandiose words, and she doesn't like to talk big. She was colder than anyone else, but she was also more open-minded than anyone else.
At the last moment of her life, the words of comfort that the seventh master said to her were as if she was reading a book, and the seventh master deeply felt the deep meaning in it.
In a person's life, the ephemeral bloom is hidden in that hazy nothingness";
In a person's life, as long as you accomplish what you want to do, life will not be in vain."
Bai Yuting is a very wise person, she promoted the relationship between Seventh Brother and Xiangxiu, the purpose is to hope that Seventh Brother can sincerely live a happy life and completely get rid of Yang Jiuhong's entanglement.