01: Among the three daughters of the Yi family, Zhong Ling is the most painful.
The Yi family has a total of three daughters, and the mothers of these three daughters are also completely different.
The eldest daughter, Zhong Ling, is not only the eldest daughter of the Yi family, but also the only daughter left by Yi Xinghua's original wife.
Growing up under the care of the old lady of the Yi family, she is an outstanding woman who is deeply influenced by traditional culture.
Whether it was the piano, chess, books or paintings, he was proficient, especially in the spice mixing.
According to the description of the original work, Zhong Ling's every expression and every movement is like a woman who has walked out of an ancient painting.
Among the three daughters of the Yi family, she has the most outstanding temperament, and at the same time, she is also the most understanding and considerate of others.
Zhong Ling, known as the "Earth Overlord", fell in love at first sight before marriage, and was affectionate after marriage, and her charm can be felt from her behavior alone.
The second daughter, Zhong Yu, is the child of Yi Xinghua's second wife, Zhou. Her life was bumpy and her fate was tragic. Among the three wives of Yi Xinghua, Zhou's family strength is the strongest, but her fate is also the most bleak.
Betrayed by her husband, she abused her daughter to "compete for favor", but eventually ended her life due to depression in her husband's cold reception.
Because of this special connection, Zhong Yu's childhood experience became the most tragic period of her three daughters.
As a child, I witnessed my father's cold attitude towards my mother, and at the same time experienced my mother's heart breakdown. My father was an out-and-out farmer who had never traveled far in his life. When he was young, he traveled to the Yi family and relied on others in his grandfather's home.
At such a young age, he has already experienced the warm and cold changes in the world, so the emphasis on blood and family affection has gradually faded.
Zhong Yu's unruliness and arrogance are revealed from the depths of her heart. She is the kind of woman who is not understood, her silence, her indifference, her loneliness. It's all cold. Even though she appears cold, this is just one of her "protective colors".
In Yi Xinghua's eyes, this daughter is the debt he owes the most. He fell in love with her, and he wanted to raise her to be chubby and chubby, but he didn't want her to gain weight. However, in addition to the debt owed, he was filled with deep appreciation for it.
Zhong Yu's business acumen is unmatched by the other two daughters. From the beginning, Yi Xinghua regarded Zhong Yu as the future successor and cultivation object.
In the Yi family, the youngest daughter Zhong Xiu is undoubtedly the luckiest one in fate. Not only is she slim, but she is also smart and smart. Despite his young age, he is Yi Xinghua's favorite stepchild.
Her growth and future not only depend on Yi Xinghua's participation and control, but also on the full support and protection of her biological mother, Huang Yingru.
Born in a deep affection between his parents and a wealthy family environment, with both the company of his sister and the protection of his older brother, his character is always full of optimism, cheerfulness and pride, which is unavoidable.
In the outside world, she is known as the most outstanding socialite in Shanghai.
At home, she is seen as the much-loved little princess of the family.
If you want something, coquettish will appear.
The three daughters, due to their mothers, their upbringing, and their father's different attitudes, led to huge differences in their personalities.
From these situational analysis, among the three daughters, Zhong Xiu's situation is the most superior, and the little princess who is favored by everyone is followed by Zhong Ling, who is highly praised by her family.
The worst thing is Zhong Yu.
The mother died early, and an originally harmonious family was also occupied by a "third party".
But is this really true?
Absolutely not.
Not only will Zhong Xiu be coquettish and willful, but under the protection of her mother, her life is very beautiful.
As for Zhong Yu, she seemed very lonely and helpless.
But the truth is, she has just too many chips in her hand.
His father's guilt, his appreciation, and his special fondness for certain things all make up his emotional bonds. She was a gentle, virtuous and capable woman, and her husband was pleased with her, but he did not like her. Her shrewdness and very calculating personality in everything ensure that she does not suffer any losses.
In addition, Zhong Yu also has a noble family background. Yijia Garden is not only her mother's marriage partner, but also the old lady of the Zhou family, and her grandfather who loves her very much.
As a socialite and foreign minister in Shanghai, she was able to act without hindrance by her face alone."
But what's so special about Zhong Ling?
Her mother died young, as did her grandmother, who raised her.
Although Yi Xinghua, a father, cares deeply about his daughter Zhong Ling, since he is busy with business activities and has a young daughter and younger son to take care of, how many other responsibilities can he afford?
Even with his biological father, the friendship with his stepmother Huang Yingru is even more shallow.
Due to Zhong Ling's status and age, she was often overlooked in this family, but her mature and decent behavior further exacerbated this neglected situation."
02: Zhong Ling endured the most, but got the least, Yi Xinghua's negligence made her feel very hurt.
Those children who are prone to tears, there are sweets to eat. ”
For the three daughters of the Yi family, this old adage can no longer be exaggerated.
Zhong Yu is regarded as the most headstrong girl in the family, and her arrogance and arrogance will plunge the whole family into chaos whenever she appears in the Yi family.
However, the most headstrong children usually receive more care and care from their parents. Their rebellion and willfulness are often triggered by the negligence of their parents. Isn't the relationship between Yi Xinghua and Zhong Yu the same?
Jong-su is an over-spoiled girl who reveals her emotions whenever she is in a bad mood. She loves to eat, she likes to watch movies, and she loves to watch TV series. But what I love to do most is to take me by the hand and take me to a distant and strange place. Whatever you want, whether it's appropriate or not, just clasp your arms tightly and be coquettish.
Children who know how to be spoiled are often the most able to win the love of their parents.
In the family environment, the most overlooked children are often well-behaved and obedient.
In the play, Yi Xinghua's most common words to Zhong Ling are to take good care of his sister, teach his sister more, and watch her well.
Of these five sentences, about two or three are related to Zhong Yu and Zhong Xiu.
Although the initial topic of discussion was not "sister", Yi Xinghua was able to quickly turn the focus to his two daughters.
Before Yi Xinghua chose an heir, he had resolutely rejected Zhong Ling's inheritance before formally asking Zhong Ling's opinion.
You are not keen on business and lack the talent to do business."
Zhong Ling succeeded in developing the spice, and Yi Xinghua turned the focus of the discussion back to Zhong Yu with just a few words of praise.
When Wang Benchu set the fire, Yi Xinghua did not scold the initiator Zhong Yu, but accused Zhong Ling of being too soft-hearted.
Zhong Ling walked into Yi Xinghua's study with tears in his eyes, listening to him explain in detail that this and that incident were all related to his two younger sisters.
Although Yi Xinghua is busy with work, each of his daughters cares deeply about him. She completely didn't notice the tears in Zhong Ling's eyes, and the sadness she was trying to control.
Do you feel wronged?
Really wronged.
It gives a strong sense of substitution.
Although Zhong Ling is also a daughter of the Yi family, her daily life has become an assistant to her mother, a mentor to her other sisters, and a manager of all kinds of affairs in the family.
In Yi Xinghua's heart, he almost forgot that Zhong Ling was not only his daughter, but also needed his care and recognition.
Does Yi Xinghua really dislike Zhong Ling?
In reality, this is not the case.
In the play, there is a small detail that describes Zhong Ling and Wang Jianchi after they got engaged, and according to traditional Xi, they were not allowed to meet until they got married.
Despite this, in order to make Zhong Ming feel at ease, Yi Xinghua secretly arranged a subtle meeting for her and Wang Jianchi.
It was this encounter that made Zhong Ling have a deep sense of identity with Wang Jianchi's fiancé.
I wonder how a father can go to the trouble of arranging a meeting with his daughter if he is really indifferent to his daughter
Moreover, Yi Xinghua plans to let Zhong Ling marry Xi Wei'an, which is really oppressed by power?Is he a good man?Completely non-existent.
Yi Xinghua was a man of tenacity, as can be seen from his early staunch opposition to Chiang Kai-shek and later staunch opposition to Japan. Out of deep resentment, he was even willing to sacrifice his own life.
How could such a person be afraid of the power of the Xi family?
Yi Xinghua chose Wei An as his seat, mainly because of his deep affection for Zhong Ling and his unwavering strategy.
Zhong Ling's heart is fragile and soft, and in these turbulent times, only a man like Xi Wei'an can protect her.
In fact, after Yi Xinghua's death, the Yi family suffered a huge blow, and Xi Wei'an not only always stayed by his side, but also always protected Zhong Ling and the Yi family.
Considering Yi Xinghua's concern for Zhong Ling's daughter, why did he still show obvious neglect for her?
The core factor is her patience and willingness to sacrifice herself for the sake of harmony with everyone.
Although her father's negligence of Zhong Ling made her feel wronged, she never complained. The father didn't understand his daughter, and she didn't say it. First of all, Zhong Ling received a traditional way of education, and she could not conflict with her elders.
The reason for this second point is the core element mentioned earlier.
Zhong Ling's patience and compromise have made her gradually Xi to silently digesting everything to avoid causing unnecessary trouble to others, including her father Yi Xinghua.
The three daughters of the Yi family, Zhong Yu and Zhong Xiu, all showed the willfulness and arrogance of the eldest lady. They all like to do things at home, like their own way of life, and don't like what people say. Why did Zhong Ling endure it so silently?
To understand this, we must first start with her "lowly" background.
03: Zhong Ling's biological mother used to be a prostitute, which became a stain on her life.
At the last moment of his life, Yi Xinghua once admitted that in his life, he owed nothing to anyone, but to his three wives, he owed a very deep debt.
The original character never appeared in the whole play. She is actually just Zhong Ling's biological mother.
Zhou was born into a prominent family, but due to a disagreement with Yi Xinghua's personality, he eventually fell into depression due to neglect.
Huang Yingru, who is widely regarded by the outside world as a tutor with "superior" ambitions, chose to spend time with Yi Xinghua, but in fact it was only out of helpless considerations.
He has the power to save Huang Yingru and her family.
This is the decisive factor why Yi Xinghua was able to control the direction of Huang Yingru's fate. Since then, I have borne children for him and endured all forms of humiliation for him.
However, Yi Xinghua misunderstood the facts, and in this life, he not only failed these three women, but also one woman, so he was burdened with the responsibility of his life.
She is Zhong Ling's biological mother and also the wife of the scholar, Luo Rumei.
What does "Mrs. Shuyu" mean?The most straightforward explanation refers to high-class prostitutes.
In his young days, Yi Xinghua fell in love with Luo Rumei, who had a lowly status, and gave birth to Zhong Ling for her. The next relationship was cut off by Mrs. Yi without hesitation.
Zhong Ling also brought it back to the Yi family and recorded it under the name of her original wife. Because Zhong Ling was born in a "humble" family background, he has always lived a cautious and cautious life.
Every time Zhong Ling's birthday, Luo Rumei would go north to visit her, but was blocked by Mrs. Yi. On the snow-covered earth, Zhong Ling witnessed her birth mother kneeling outside the door.
Her heart is filled with pain and despair, but she has no choice but to accept reality.
Her grandmother decided to get her engaged, and she readily agreed.
Her father suggested that she marry Sivian, whom she didn't like, and she readily agreed.
In the face of the various demands put forward by the Yi family's generation, Zhong Ling never dared to resist in the slightest. Because, she knows how estranged her relationship with her father is. This stain on her biological mother made her lose all her self-confidence and confidence.
In the Yi family, she is kind to everyone, and in the outside world, she dresses herself up flawlessly, and in the final analysis, she just wants to hide her true background.
Zhong Ling was deeply in the panic of her life being revealed at every moment, so she chose to endure it in silence, she tried to compromise as much as possible, and lowered her status to the dust.
It is for this reason that when Zhong Xiu revealed her origin in public, she felt more relaxed than ever.