Lovers want character
Choosing a lover is choosing life, what kind of lover you choose, what kind of life you will live.
If you choose the wrong person, then your life is a mistake, you live in mistakes every day, repeat mistakes every day, and add mistakes to mistakes every day.
A really good lover, rich and poor do not need to be absolute, but the character must be absolutely good.
The person who went away with you despite the opposition of your parents, you can't want it, treat your parents like this, and when he doesn't like you anymore, he will treat you in a 10 times cruel way.
If a person is not filial to his parents, he will not be sincere to anyone.
If he really likes you, he will work with you to make your parents accept you and like you, instead of not considering your parents' feelings and staying away from you, it is not how much he loves you, but just proves how ruthless he is.
A person who is affectionate, righteous, courageous, resourceful, virtuous and virtuous, first of all, is filial to his parents, and secondly, he understands that a marriage without the blessing of his parents will not be happy, let alone last.
The one who gives up everything for you, he is definitely not a good choice and is not destined to be the best destination for you;Such a person is impulsive, selfish, cold, ruthless, short-sighted, without the big picture, let alone far-sightedness!
No one is older than parents
Whenever a lover and a parent have to choose, choose your parents. Only the love of parents is eternal, no matter how much you quarrel with them or how many conflicts you have, their love for you will never change, it will always be selfless, and it will always be unconditional.
No matter how much you love each other, once the conflict occurs, he will spare no effort to hurt you, and even do everything to maximize benefits;Turning from a lover to an enemy is an instantaneous thing.
A person who doesn't want parents for you, you can't choose no matter what, you can be so ruthless to the person who gave birth to him and raised him, and you are just the one who has accompanied him for a while, how deep can he have feelings for you.
Parents have been warm for decades, they will leave when they say they will leave, and they will leave when they say they leave, how can you let him accompany you for a lifetime.
He must be a person who is filial to his parents, kind-hearted, dignified and stable, and will not use radical ways to solve problems.
Marriage is no child's play
To marry and choose a person, we must first see whether the person is filial to his parents, whether the person is literate, and his attitude towards his family.
A person's character and character can be basically characterized by his attitude towards his family.
People show their truest side in front of familiar people, and politeness and politeness are all outsiders.
If a person has a bad attitude towards his family, yells and accuses at every turn, and speaks badly to each other, then this person must not want it.
If you choose him, he will be his family in the future, and his attitude towards his family is the attitude towards you, or even worse.
Don't be fooled by appearances, be rational and calm!
Marriage is a mistake for life!
Be cautious and cautious!
Marriage needs to be cautious, and lovers need character!
It's not that you can't get a divorce if you choose the wrong lover, of course you can, and you have to be fast!
But,A failed marriage will bring a shadow to your life that can never be erased, and even make you no longer believe in love and marriage.
Why don't we do things that can be prevented before they happen?
Everyone will have a good life, but because of some wrong people and wrong things, our originally beautiful life will be clouded with dust. Since it was originally good, it deserves to be good!
I'm Ka'b, and I'm with you!
Author: Kabu, freelance writer, ** person, manager of Buska (clothing)!
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