Recently, a ChineseSocialThe director of the World Social Security Research Center of the Academy of Sciences put forward the suggestion that "it is difficult to raise a baby, and you can ask relatives to help take care of the baby" for the phenomenon that modern young people are reluctant to marry early and have children early. This point of view immediately aroused heated discussions and ridicule among netizens.
Netizens have expressed their disagreement with this suggestion, thinking that the expert's remarks are a bit standing and talking without backache. Some netizens ridiculed: "This expert really dares to say anything, what to do with his relatives, just ask for help from this expert." Some people also asked experts directly for help: "Expert, what you said moved me to tears, I feel that I have seen my relatives, you are my relative, can you help me take care of the baby?"These ridicules fully express netizens' disagreement and disapproval of this point of view.
Although the advice of experts may be a bit unrealistic, the problem of relatives helping to bring the baby is indeed real. InModern society, due to the high pressure of work、lifeFast-paced, young couples in busy work and personallifeIt is difficult to balance the education and care of children. Relatives helping to bring up the baby can alleviate this dilemma to a certain extent, helping young couples to better balance work and family.
However, it is not easy to really get relatives to help take care of the baby. First of all, relatives also have their ownlifeand work, may not be able to take care of and accompany the child all the time. Second, there may be conflicts and disputes between relatives, making it more difficult for them to coordinate their responsibilities for the care of the child. Again, relatives helping to take care of the baby will undoubtedly bring them additional burden and pressure, which will require time, energy andEconomysupport. Therefore, it is not easy to be able to really get help from relatives.
TodaySocialIt is very common for young people to be reluctant to marry early and have children early. There are many reasons for this, and experts have analyzed and studied them.
First of all,Modern societyThe competitive pressure is enormous, both at work and personallylifeThis makes young people reluctant to take on too many family responsibilities. They want to achieve something in their work and pursue their careers and dreams. Secondly,EconomyStress is also one of the important reasons why young people are reluctant to have children early. Raising children requires an investment of a lot of money and effort, for:EconomyWeaker young people are a big burden. In addition, there are also young people who choose to enjoy being singlelifeThe tendency to have more free personal space and time.
These reasons are understandable, and young people also have the right to choose their ownlifeManner. InSocialIn the progress and development of people's concept of family andlifeThe perception of ways is also constantly changing and evolving. Therefore, experts' criticism and advice on young people's reluctance to have children at an early age may need to be more understanding and tolerant.
The expert's point of view that "it is difficult to raise a baby can ask relatives to help take care of the baby" has sparked a heated discussion among netizens, and many people think that the expert's remarks are untenable. BecauseModern societyThe stress is not only faced by young people, but even their relatives are also under the pressure of worklifePressure. So, the advice of experts seems too simplistic and idealistic.
lifeStress is universal for everyone, for everyonelifeAll have their own difficulties and confusions. Especially inEconomyToday's uneven development, most ordinary families need to forlifeRunning around and tiring. Therefore, relatives helping to take care of the baby is not the fundamental way to solve the problem, we need to think about and solve this problem more comprehensively.
EarlyParentingThe issue of family responsibilities affects many young peoplelifeChoose, this is oneSocialProblems faced together. Solving this problem requires allSocialThe joint efforts of **, enterprises, families and other aspects.
* More friendly policies could be developed to support early childbearing and family development for young couples. For example, the provision of more convenient childcare facilities and services and the reduction of familiesEconomypressure, etc. Businesses can also help young couples better balance work and family by offering more flexible work arrangements and benefits packages. Families can cultivate children's independence and self-care skills, and reduce the pressure on relatives to take care of them.
All in all, the view that "it is difficult to raise a baby can ask relatives to help take care of the baby" has a certain feasibility in reality, but various factors and actual conditions need to be considered. At the same time, we should also understand and respect young people's choice to not want to have children at an early age, rather than passing on their own expectations and responsibilities to others. Through the fullSocialTogether, we can create a better for young peopleParentingand the home environment.