In recent years, the phenomenon of young people in China not daring to have children has become more and more obvious, which has aroused concern and discussion from all walks of life. On this issue, an expert offered his own opinion. He believes that the reason why young people are afraid to have children is mainly because of various pressures in life, such as difficulties in education, pension, medical care and other aspects. He also said that although there are many difficulties now, young couples should face them positively, because difficulties are only temporary, and the opportunity to have children is fleeting. He suggested that young people should seek the help of relatives and friends when facing difficult situations, because sometimes borrowing the strength of others can solve some temporary difficulties.
However, the expert's remarks caused widespread controversy. Some people agree with him that young people should be brave enough to face difficulties and seize the opportunity to have children. But there are also those who question his point of view, arguing that he is detached from real life and does not understand the plight of ordinary people. In particular, the idea that relatives and friends can help him has caused many people to be dissatisfied. They believe that not everyone's relatives and friends have the ability and willingness to help, and that having a child should not depend on the help of others, it is a personal responsibility and choice.
The views put forward by the experts have sparked fierce reactions from netizens. They expressed their dissatisfaction and complaints about the experts' opinions. Some people joked that if he was a relative, they would lend him some money. There are also people who sarcastically say that the relatives of the poor are poorer than the other.
In fact, childbearing is not just a temporary difficulty, but a long-term and complex problem. In addition to the pressure on education, pension, medical care, etc., there are also social problems such as high housing prices and low wages. These problems undoubtedly increase the burden of childbearing on young couples. In the current economic situation in China, it is indeed difficult for many young people to shoulder such responsibilities and pressures.
In addition, borrowing the strength of relatives and friends is not the fundamental solution to the problem. While relatives and friends may offer some help, after all, they also have their own lives and difficulties. Childbearing is a personal choice and responsibility and cannot be relied upon for assistance from others. Even with the help of relatives and friends, there is no guarantee that all difficulties will be solved. Fertility is a complex issue that requires consideration of various factors, and it is not simply possible to rely on the help of others.
Whether or not young people want to have children is a matter of personal freedom and should not be subject to outside interference and pressure. Everyone has their own lifestyle and choices, and childbearing and how to raise children is a personal responsibility and decision. Experts should respect that individual freedom and should not make unrealistic proposals.
The problem of fertility needs to be fundamentally solved, and it cannot be just lip service propaganda and persuasion. **Measures should be taken to provide better social security such as education, medical care, and pension to reduce the burden of childbearing on young couples. At the same time, society should establish a correct concept of childbearing, reduce pressure and interference on young people, and allow them to decide whether to have children according to their own wishes.
In general, the views put forward by experts can be seen as a way of thinking about fertility, but they are not applicable to all situations and do not fully represent the ideas and needs of young people. The issue of reproduction involves the freedom of the individual and the responsibility of society, and needs to be considered and addressed more comprehensively. It is hoped that in the future, more experts and policymakers will pay attention to fertility issues and actively look for solutions to the dilemma and provide a better environment and conditions for young people to have children.