"It is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage".
Everyone knows this folk proverb!It's just that when I was young, I didn't understand why I said it so seriously, and I didn't care about it.
I remember very clearly that more than ten years ago, when I was wandering on the street, one of my buddies met me and hung out with me, and suddenly said, "I want to get divorced, I can't live anymore, but I have a daughter... hey."A long sigh". At that time, I was not married, and at that time, my view of love was to soak one and count one, and come and go freely. I remember saying to him at the time, "Life is very short, since you don't love it, why find a reason to live" is this sentence, today, eighteen years later, the unexpected happened, let me torture and repent!
It also made me deeply appreciate the power of this proverb!The ancients had a very devout belief in Buddha and temples. According to the Jizo Sutra, if any sentient beings come out of the body and blood of the Buddha, slander the Three Jewels, and do not respect the Sutra, they should also fall into the infernal hell, hundreds of billions of eons, and seek an indefinite period. This is a sign of sin. This also shows how terrible it is to break a marriage!
Legend has it that during the Southern Song Dynasty in Siming (now Ningbo), there was a scholar named Ge Dingnai, who was gifted and intelligent, and was blessed by Emperor Wenchang and became a champion of the Golden Branch. One day, an illiterate ordinary man asked Ge Dingnai** for a letter of resignation. From then on, the land lord never got up to salute, and Emperor Wenchang also canceled all his fame and blessings. Later, when he found out, he tried his best to save and reconcile them, but to no avail.
People's marriages always feel that there is a certain number and origin!For example, surnamed Zhang, Zhang Liang failed to assassinate Qin during the Warring States Period, hid everywhere, was hungry and met a house, begged for something to eat and drink, and continued to hurry. And the owner of the house is surnamed Liu, more than 2,000 years later, the descendants of the surname Liu found the descendants of the surname Zhang, that point in time, that time period, both of them can't figure it out now, they have a choice!It is that vein that makes both parties insist on getting married and having children. Culture has a heritage, and whether marriage also has a heritage and origin, no one can say clearly. Therefore, don't say that other people's marriages are right or wrong, let alone persuade separation!Remember that those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed!
Twenty-eight years later, every night when I go to the bedroom window**, I deeply repent, because that woman has lived in the front building outside the window for a long time after many years. The blazing white light of her room was like a thousand-year-old butcher's knife, and I knew I was guilty!Please forgive me for being young and ignorant!Wenqing 00:30