Why don't girls like honest people?There are three reasons, let's take a look.
1. Not romantic enough to speak sweet words.
2. Impatient and short-tempered.
3. It's hard to catch up, because girls like men who take the initiative.
In fact, many girls don't hate honest people, but hate the "honesty" of honest people, which makes people feel uncomfortable and depressed.
There are some shortcomings in the body of honest people:
1. I don't understand romance, I don't have romantic cells.
2. Impatient in doing things, easy to give up halfway.
3. If you are not generous enough, it is easy to be looked down upon.
4. There is no focus on speaking, and others can say whatever they want to hear.
5. Without your own ideas and opinions, it is easy to be led by the nose.
6. Without your own bottom line and principles, what others say is what you say.
1. Honest people don't know how to be romantic, and they always say some sweet words stupidly, which makes girls very disgusted.
Many honest people, no matter who they are with, are honest, they don't say some sweet words, and they don't take the initiative to pursue girls. If you want to chase girls, you have to take the initiative to pursue them, you have to know how to be romantic, and you have to know how to say some sweet words.
Honest people are straight, and they don't want to think about many things, let alone do them. Many things are "resigned to fate" attitude, and it is difficult for such a person to have a big future.
When I chatted with a few friends, I said that if a man does not have the ability, then he will be "poor" in his life, and he will not be able to chase girls at all. Whether you want to get married or not, you have to take the initiative to pursue it.
Second, honest people are impatient in doing things, always give up halfway, and can't do anything.
As the saying goes: "Ten years of cold windows no one asks, in one fell swoop to become famous all over the world".
If a person wants to achieve something, he must have enough patience. In today's society, there is a lot of competition pressure, if a person is impatient and can't stick to anything, then he will definitely not have great achievements.
Many things require patience, even small things. For example, reading, writing, studying, etc., you need to have enough patience. If you don't have enough patience to do a good job, then you won't be able to persevere. And in the eyes of girls, if you don't have enough patience, you are not self-motivated.
3. Honest people are not generous enough, and they always wronged themselves in order to please others.
What women hate the most are men who like to please others, and when you please others every time, and you don't have anything to give, you are easily looked down upon. So don't be a man who only knows how to give, when you do, you will be looked down upon.
Honest people have a common problem, that is, they are too kind. Many times, when others ask him for help, he doesn't dare to refuse, because he is afraid that others will hate him even more after refusal. Such a person is too kind, so when facing a girl, he always can't refuse the other party's request. While we can't change other people's minds, we can change our own attitudes.
Fourth, honest people have no focus on speaking, and others can say whatever they want to hear, and they don't know how to express it at all.
Many women don't like honest people, just because honest people don't have the focus when they speak, and no one listens to what they say, and they don't consider the feelings of others. You may think it's nothing, but it's this seemingly insignificant behavior that can make people feel uncomfortable and even off-putting.
People are mutual, and if you don't know how to take care of other people's feelings and only treat others in your own way, then it will be difficult to get the respect of others.
A man who truly knows how to respect others must know how to speak and act with focus. Doing so is not only respecting others, but also respecting yourself.
Fifth, honest people do not have their own ideas and opinions, and are always led by the nose.
An honest person will always be led by the nose by others, and he has to listen to other people's arrangements in everything, which makes him lose his own ideas and opinions, because what others say is what they say.
Such honest people are not very popular, because girls like boys who are assertive and have their own ideas.
I will not be led by others, but I will be very determined to do what I want to do.