The programmer keeps 2,000 a month, all of them are handed in, but after 3 years of marriage, he mentions divorce, where is the truth of life?
On December 9th, a high-paid programmer only had 2,000 yuan left in a month, and the rest of the money was spent by the woman, which was discussed on the Internet, in fact, this is a very normal thing, but because the woman wants to divorce, it seems a little different from everyone. Behind this seemingly perfect family, there is a poignant marriage story.
Programmers are traditionally synonymous with the best sons-in-law, who have career potential, good income, and are not good at rhetoric. However, for Xiao Chen and Xiao Wei, this seemingly perfect marriage has cracked in the monotonous life.
Three years ago, under the matchmaking of Aunt Jin, a matchmaker who is enthusiastic about public welfare in Huanglongdong, the two became husband and wife. At that time, their first acquaintance was sweet, but after marriage, they gradually fell into stumbles and contradictions. Their lives gradually changed from dinner to supper, which in turn turned into Xiaowei baking a birthday cake for Xiao Chen, but having to wait for two hours in the office. This seems to have become the norm in their lives, and in the monotonous days, companionship has become extremely scarce.
The pressure of life and the lack of companionship made Xiaowei feel left out, even when she gave birth. Xiao Chen's company was short-lived, and she soon returned to her job, often working overtime. Xiaowei took the child back to her parents' house, and Xiao Chen went to pick her up twice, but was turned away. The mobile phone can't get through, and WeChat has filed for divorce. This can't help but make people sigh, what kind of management style does marriage need?
In fact, marriage is not a simple matter, it requires the joint efforts and maintenance of both husband and wife. As one expert on emotional issues put it:"Marriage needs to be managed, even if you are busy, you must be considerate of the hard work of your wife and children. When you are at home, you should spend more time with your wife and give her love and respect"。
Behind this seemingly perfect family, there is an untold marriage story. Xiao Chen and Xiao Wei's marriage seems to be perfect, but in fact, there are cracks. They used to walk in the sweetness of love, but they lost each other's companionship and concern for the trivial things of life.
The pressure of life and the lack of companionship made Xiaowei feel left out in the cold. She tried to communicate with Xiao Chen, but did not get enough attention and understanding. Although Xiao Chen is very busy with work, he must understand the difficulty and loneliness of his wife taking care of the children at home. In this fast-paced era, couples need more communication and understanding to maintain the stability and happiness of their marriage.
When Xiaowei filed for divorce, her heart must have been painful and helpless. She had tried to communicate with Xiao Chen, but she did not get enough response and attention. This feeling of loneliness and helplessness made her lose faith in her marriage and feel lost about the future. If Xiao Chen and Xiao Wei can re-examine their marriage, start communicating, and understand each other's needs and feelings, their marriage may still have a chance to regain the sweetness and happiness it once had.
Money is one thing, but being able to live an active life under the existing economic conditions is the most fundamental, and it is actually relatively normal to be able to save 2,000 yuan.