I haven't had a good life until I'm 30 years old Recently, I've been empathized with by this RS!I've found that letting go of yourself is also an ability.
"The education I received when I was a child told me that you can work hard now to make a good living," Toritori said. ”
We have been hearing such things since we were children, it is good to work hard to get admitted to university, it is good to get a job, it is good to take the exam to go ashore, it is good to get married, it is good to have children, and it is good to have children after graduation......
It seems that there is a set goal in a constant cycle, which cannot be stopped or relaxed.
But is it really cherishing time to run towards the same kind of success tiredly?Can such a life without quality today really be exchanged for a bright future?
As Toritori said, "I haven't had a good life until I'm 30 years old, and I don't know when I'll have a good life." ”
The important thing is not to invest in a single evaluation system, but to try to hear your inner voice, choose what you really like, and make yourself happy.
When you find that you are just a needed laborer, those so-called ideals and futures are not worth mentioning in the face of reality.
You don't have to have the obsession to get ahead and to pursue value in your work.
Do what you have to do and accept all the fragility and brokenness.
Toritori said she liked one of Kafka's words: "All obstacles can destroy me." ”
In our concept, it seems that expressing oneself is fragile, expressing oneself is not brave, cowardice and shame.
People will have times of vulnerability, and they don't have to hold on, and sometimes honestly expressing vulnerability is also a kind of strength.
Before, you were a cog of society, but you couldn't get stuck in the machine, and you would think that I was not qualified as a cog. ”
But in fact, there are super multi-card gears that don't enter the social clock, so what?
In the world, any person, any way of life, any kind of insignificant emotion, deserves to exist.
So, don't be anxious and don't judge yourself with other people's values all the time. ”
Professor Leung said, "In modern work, we often ignore what we feel and obsessively meet the expectations and requirements of others. If we are under the pressure of heavy responsibilities for a long time, the state of life can be greatly distorted. ”
Only one's own life itself is important.
We must learn to incorporate the absurd into normalcy and uncertainty into normality. Don't feel that life is gloomy, that there is no hope, that you have not yet reached that point, that moment of your day is waiting for you at a certain moment in front of you. ”
It may be difficult for you to face some stress and frustration at the moment, often surrounded by bad emotions and not see the light.
But you still have to listen to your heart, go down from the heart, and one day you will see that "the mountain has a small mouth, as if there is light".
The soul of patience runs calmly" is also a strength!Be a precious and happy ordinary person!