Parents are the earliest guides and supporters in our lives, and bear the dual responsibilities of childbearing and nurturing. They play an important role in family education and play a vital role in the development of children's moral character, emotional intelligence and social skills. Although parents may lack professional skills in education relative to school teachers, the teachings they provide are permeated in everyday life and encompass a wider range of outlooks on life, values and behaviours. Therefore, we cannot underestimate the importance of family education, nor can we let parents neglect their own educational responsibilities.
Parents' words and deeds have an important impact on their children's development. Through their words and actions, they pass on to their children the correct values and code of conduct. For example, a loving and caring parent will teach children to be kind to others and respect their rights and feelings;A diligent parent motivates their children to study hard and strive for excellence. These words and deeds subtly shape the character and personality of children as they grow up.
However, some parents may be inadequate. They may be inconsistent in their words and actions or have some bad habits that leave the child with a false example. For example, quarrels and conflicts between parents can cause stress and anxiety for childrenA parent's unfair or discriminatory attitude towards others can have a negative impact on a child's values. Therefore, parents should be aware of the importance of their words and deeds in the hearts of their children and strive to be a good role model.
Family education is the first lesson in a child's life and a key link in shaping a child's future. Parents play an important role in homeschooling. They are not only the children's guides, but also the children's closest role models and confiding objects. Compared with school, home education is warmer and warmer, and can be closer to children's lives and needs.
However, even if parents put a lot of effort into their children's education, there may still be people who question their parents' ability to educate. For example, a recent Tsinghua University scholar said in an interview that parents basically don't understand anything, don't take your parents too seriously. His remarks have aroused widespread concern in society. This scholar is a student from a poor background, and he thinks that as a poor student, his parents did not provide him with many ways to cross the class because they did not have professional knowledge. Therefore, he emphasized that students from poor backgrounds need to find and choose their own future.
The scholar's point of view has caused a lot of discussion. Some agree with him that parents have limited educational experience and resources and cannot rely on them completely;There are also those who disagree, believing that the love and care of parents is essential to the development of children. In any case, this scholar's speech reminds us that we cannot blindly rely on family education, and at the same time, we need to fully realize the importance of family education.
The reason why this humble scholar's remarks attracted attention was because he pointed out some blind spots in traditional concepts based on his own special experience. As a poor student, he realized that his parents did not give him too much professional educational guidance. His parents, who were taxi drivers and sanitation workers, were not theoretically experts in education. Therefore, he advocated that he should rely on his own efforts to understand all kinds of information and choose his own future direction.
This top student made a unique choice in his own plan, majoring in Chinese and computer science as minors. He believes that looking at computer science from a humanistic perspective can give him a more comprehensive understanding of this popular profession and can make him more competitive in terms of employment. His choices demonstrate his unique ability to think and act, and also make his development path unique.
This scholar has unique insights into academics and employment, the development of the times, academic concepts and attitudes. He believes that scholarship is a beauty in Chinese, but in today's society, the measurement of academics and employment may not fully match. He emphasized that individuals need to adapt to the needs of the times, just as cars need to adapt to engine configurations. He also emphasized the need for individuals to take the initiative to learn and communicate, and the need to be proactive in acquiring new knowledge. These insights demonstrate his thoughts on personal development and his positive attitude towards the future.
The story of this humble scholar has given me a lot of inspiration. First of all, the education of parents, while important, cannot be completely dependent on them. Regardless of whether our parents have professional knowledge or not, we should take the initiative to seek and learn to take control of our own future. We can broaden our horizons and abilities with the help of schools, social resources, and self-directed learning.
Second, we must be flexible in choosing our own development direction. Whether it is academically or professionally, we should think and understand from multiple perspectives to gain more comprehensive knowledge and ability. Like this student, a minor and a major can give us a different perspective and a competitive advantage.
Finally, it is necessary to adapt to the changes and development of the times. Times are constantly changing, and we need to take the initiative to adapt and learn to deal with them. In the age of abundant information, we can obtain more information through ** and social platforms, but we must also pay attention to active choices and judgments so as not to be overwhelmed by information.
To sum up, the role of parents in homeschooling cannot be ignored, but we cannot rely on them completely. As individuals, we should take the initiative to pursue the improvement of knowledge and ability, flexibly choose the direction of development, and adapt to the changes of the times. At the same time, we should also cherish the love and teaching of our parents, integrate them into our own growth, and lay a solid foundation for our future.