A woman in Guangdong softly called her husband to take a shower.
However, her husband lies on the couch, immersed in the world of his phone, and ignores her calls.
Seeing this, the woman had a plan and took out a hanger from the room.
Seeing the hanger, my husband immediately sensed the crisis, bounced up from the sofa, and ran into the bathroom like a fly.
This scene was jokingly called by netizens: "It's too difficult for men, I'm afraid of my mother when I was a child, and I'm afraid of my wife when I grow up." ”
Female netizens said: "Why do men always like to procrastinate in the bath, what is the difference between this and being a mother." ”
Another netizen said: "Mom is reluctant to fight, just to scare, wife, my good girl, she is not scaring you." ”
This is the fun of husband and wife, not afraid of wives, and those who don't have wives don't understand. ”
So, is it natural for men to be afraid of their wives, or is it a helpless choice?
In our country, men seem to have always lived under various pressures and constraints from childhood to adulthood.
When they were young, they were afraid of their mother's harshness, and when they grew up, they were afraid of their wives' "hangers".
This slice of life truly presents a scene of a man's married life.
After getting married, many men no longer pay as much attention to their appearance and life routine as they do when they are in love, and often stay up late, lie in bed, and have a disordered rhythm of life.
In family life, many men regard housework as a woman's responsibility, while they become passive and lazy, indifferent to family matters.
Wife Discipline Tips:
1.Guiding the establishment of common goals: Husbands and wives work together to set goals in life and motivate men.
2.Establish a regular routine: Help your husband develop good Xi lifestyle habits and make him consciously abide by the family routine.
3.Inspire a sense of responsibility: Encourage your husband to participate in family affairs and develop a sense of family responsibility.
4.Praise and encouragement: Give your husband praise and encouragement at the right time to increase his motivation.
We have to understand that being afraid of a wife is not a bad thing.
In many families, men who are afraid of their wives tend to be more able to take on family responsibilities and are more understanding and respectful of women.
This kind of "fear" is not real fear, but a manifestation of love.
They are afraid of losing their wife's love and living up to their expectations, so they will work harder to be a better husband and a better father.
In this story, the woman's behavior seems to be punishing her husband, but in fact, she is reminding her husband in her own way.
The family needs to be maintained together, and everyone should take their own responsibility.
This way of being a woman seems to be a bit "oppressive", but it is also an expression of love.
In modern society, the status of women in the workplace and family is constantly improving, and women have independent economic ability and thinking ability.
In this case, if the man continues to be machismo and does not respect his wife's opinion, it is likely to lead to escalating family conflicts.
On the contrary, a man who is afraid of his wife can effectively calm down family disputes and make family relationships more satisfying. This practice is also of positive significance for the growth and education of children.
The phenomenon of men's laziness after marriage is not impossible to change, the key lies in the joint efforts of both husband and wife.
Through communication, understanding, encouragement, and mutual growth, we can make our marriage happier and happier.