Recently, the TV series "I want to go against the wind" has become popular on the screen.
In addition to starring Gong Jun, Zhong Chuxi and other new-generation actors, the co-starring of Zhang Chenguang, Sarina, Wen Zhengrong and other old actors makes this drama even more exciting.
Among them, what is particularly eye-catching is Wen Zhengrong, who plays the role of the financial director "Yue Shan".
is different from the previous image of a "bad woman", the nameless and penniless "Yue Shan" loved his daughter after the death of his beloved, and was jokingly called a "stepmother" model by netizens.
Looking at the gentle "Yue Shan", who would have thought that 18 years ago, she was the "Gu Yiluo" who was full of evil?
In the TV series "Wrong Love for a Life", she not only "stole" the life of "Chen Xiangnan" played by Han Xue, but also ruthlessly killed her grandmother, making the name of "Gu Yiluo" a childhood shadow in the hearts of countless friends.
can be ruthless and gentle, and the charm of the old drama may lie in the fact that every drama is a "drama throwing face". It's just that unlike 18 years ago, Wen Zhengrong is no longer the female number one, but the female N.
In the face of a career that starts high and goes low, from loss to relief, Wen Zhengrong has also gone through a struggle. Fortunately, relying on the self-confidence of the "big heroine" and the support of her lover, she smiled at everything.
The self-confidence in the bones is poured out by parents with love
In 1978, Wen Zhengrong was born in Guizhou.
She is the only daughter in the family, and her family conditions are ordinary, but her parents are very affectionate.
Ben came to her generation to be the "heart" generation, but her mother felt that the name "Wen Xin" was more than gentle, and her heroism was insufficient, so she gave her the word "Zhengrong".
I hope that my daughter can be as strong as the mountains, and I also hope that my daughter can get out of the mountains on her own.
Not to mention, Wen Zhengrong, who has grown thick eyebrows and big eyes since he was a child, showed his artistic talent very early. Not only that, but she is also very lively, cheerful, confident and generous.
So, despite the average family conditions, her mother still saved money and sent her to learn the violin.
Because becoming an artist is not only a mother's expectation for her daughter, but also a mother's own dream.
In this way, Wen Zhengrong has been practicing for 6 years.
But although he likes **, but he doesn't resist the boredom of practicing, Wen Zhengrong finds more and more that he doesn't like practicing.
In order to practice the piano, she racked her brains.
Once, as soon as she went out, she hit the railing with the piano case, and chopped her foot hard, but she accidentally broke her foot, and when she went to the hospital for an examination, she actually broke a bone.
Seeing her daughter so resistant to practicing, her mother had an in-depth exchange with her.
After learning that her daughter was not resisting for the sake of resisting, but really didn't want to take ** as a career, her mother no longer forced it, but instead helped her daughter find true love.
Later, Wen Zhengrong began to learn Xi dance. It was also in the process of dancing that she was generous and bright and was discovered by her mentor to have an acting talent.
Slowly, becoming an actor became Wen Zhengrong's dream.
If you want to realize this dream, you must first be admitted to a professional school. For this reason, Wen Zhengrong's family suffered a lot.
Everyone knows that studying art is particularly expensive, and in order to support their daughter's dream, Wen Zhengrong's parents did not hesitate to sell their house and the family rented a simple basement.
However, the tougher the environment, the more motivating it is.
Soon it was the eve of the exam, and Wen Zhengrong began to enter the preparation stage.
Once, when the mother came back from outside, she was terrified when she saw her daughter's face. She really couldn't understand why her daughter, who was so dignified before she went out, suddenly disappeared her eyebrows.
Could it be that Xi is too tired and malnourished?Frightened, she quickly pulled her daughter's hair.
Seeing this, Wen Zhengrong laughed and explained that her eyebrows were shaved off by herself, so that she wouldn't always think about running out to play.
In ancient times, there were hanging beams and thorns, and now there are shaved eyebrows. I have to say that Wen Zhengrong is really a ruthless person.
What's even more commendable is that she is not only ruthless, but also quite aura.
During the physical test, the teacher asked him to perform a dance, which required fewer movements. The other students all performed decently, but only Wen Zhengrong was ingenious.
When it was her turn to take the stage, she stood motionless for two minutes.
Faced with the teacher's question, she said confidently: "I finished this dance with my heart, if you didn't see it, it's because you didn't understand me." ”
The teachers unanimously agreed that this girl is very smart, has her own ideas, and is extremely malleable.
In this way, in 1997, Wen Zhengrong finally got her wish and was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy with the first grade in her major, starting her "big sister" college career.
Career starts high and goes low, love has a beginning and an end
From the mountainous area of Guizhou to the foot of the imperial city, Wen Zhengrong did not twist at all, and he was still confident and free. Soon, she became the "eldest sister" in the class.
Their class teacher was Huang Lei, who had just graduated from graduate school.
When he first became the head teacher, Huang Lei was quite strict, not only strictly disciplined at ordinary times, but also had to add classes on weekends.
The classmates dared to be angry but did not dare to speak, and the bold ones secretly took Mr. Huang's bicycle to vent their anger.
And Wen Zhengrong is one of the most courageous, because she delayed her to see her boyfriend because of weekend make-up classes.
Her boyfriend at the time was also her current husband, and she met on December 24 of the year Wen Zhengrong first entered college. The other party is a few years older than her, he is an outsider, and he has his own opinions on how to behave in the world, in Wen Zhengrong's words, "he is a special man, and he does not change color when it is big."
It turns out that Wen Zhengrong is not afraid of heaven and earth, there is actually a little girl living in his heart.
In front of her boyfriend, she can be a child wantonly, and the other party always affectionately calls her "little thing", often guides her, and satisfies all her fantasies about love.
When in love, who doesn't want to get along day and night, but the teacher wants to make up the class, and the child's warm heart uses the teacher's bicycle as a punching bag, and even once went over the wall to see her boyfriend.
Once, he happened to be caught by Huang Lei, he didn't want his best student, because he ruined his studies because he fell in love, so he scared Wen Zhengrong and said: "Be careful that I screen (expell) you." ”
was wronged by the teacher, and Wen Zhengrong went to her boyfriend and was depressed. Her boyfriend enlightened her, and the teacher's strictness was all for her good, so Wen Zhengrong burst into tears and laughed.
It is often said that good love is nourishing. This statement was best verified by Wen Zhengrong.
Although Wen Zhengrong is usually naughty, he is quite concerned about his studies. Because of her different temperament and professional acting skills, she was also regarded as Gong Li's ** person.
However, as confident as she is, she has always wanted to find her own way.
In 1998, Wen Zhengrong, who was still a student, starred in "The Story of the Performance Department". Unfortunately, a few years after graduation, she was still reduced to a "background board".
Fortunately, his career hit a wall and his love was sweet, and Wen Zhengrong and her first boyfriend quickly achieved positive results.
Don't look at her husband as an outsider, he is very supportive of his wife's career, and said: "I have the confidence to let her pursue her career, I don't want her to say when she sees her classmates filming in the future, if it weren't for marrying him, she could still be an actor." ”
That's what he said, and that's what he did.
When his wife's career was at a low point, she told her in the "Disney" method she liked: "God will give you 10 balls, half of them are good luck balls, half of them are not so good luck balls, 10 balls will be given to you, don't worry, there will be good luck next year, if you can't get it next year, there will be good luck the year after, there will always be a year when you will get a good dribble." ”
With the support of love, Wen Zhengrong gradually began to calm down, hone his acting skills, and wait for the flowers to bloom.
In 2005, a TV series called "Wrong Love for a Life" was born and became the ratings champion.
Compared with the weak and kind "Chen Xiangnan", the surprisingly bad "Gu Yiluo" is more impressive. The success of this role also made Wen Zhengrong completely popular.
However, success is also "Gu Yiluo", and defeat is also "Gu Yiluo". is famous for playing bad women, Wen Zhengrong was stereotyped as a "bad woman professional", and even suffered personal attacks.
Why do I try so hard to perform and people see me like this?”
Once upon a time, Wen Zhengrong, who was naturally confident, couldn't help but question himself.
At the critical moment, it was the embrace of her lover, the encouragement of her family, and the recognition of the audience that made her accept herself again and again.
Because the character is well portrayed and attacked, and being stereotyped, it just proves that he has acted well.
There are sweet and salty flavors in a plate of cakes, strawberry, chocolate and other flavors, and I play the chocolate flavor is also very good......”
To her surprise, she also gained more opportunities when she opened her heart.
played Han Ying in "Honghu Red Guards" and Yang Bai......, a resilient woman in "As Long as You Live Better Than Me".Wen Zhengrong's acting path is getting wider and wider.
It's just that just as she was galloping on the career she loved, the crystallization of love stopped her steps.
Learn to do subtraction, and pure people are more likely to reap happiness
In 2015, Wen Zhengrong gave birth to a son.
The arrival of the child made her and her husband feel very happy. Even, with her mother's love, she once thought about being a full-time mother.
Later, she thought about the experience of learning the piano as a child, because she was too young and had limited attention, her mother memorized all the content of the class, and then slowly taught herself, and finally played the piano better than herself.
My mother proved with her words and deeds that no matter what age you are, as long as you are willing to learn and persevere, you can learn well.
Parents are the best teachers for their children, and if they want their children to become people with pursuits, they should be people with pursuits.
"I don't want to be anyone's wife or mother, I want to be Wen Zhengrong myself. ”With the support of such a belief, Wen Zhengrong went out of the mountain again.
It's just that in order to protect his family over the years, Wen Zhengrong has refused to hype, and the ** degree is about equal to zero. If she hadn't been mistaken for He Zhengjun's wife, she took the initiative to refute the rumors, maybe everyone wouldn't know that she was so happy in private.
Unfortunately, when she returned to the stage again, she found that everything had changed.
Although she has also filmed many TV series, Wen Zhengrong, who lacks traffic, is still gradually forgotten, and many people still wonder if she is gone.
In 2020, in order to continue his dream of being an actor and to become a role model for children, Wen Zhengrong, who has always disliked excessive **, participated in "Actors Please Be in Place 2" for the first time.
According to the rules, 40 actors are rated as S, A, and B according to the market ** from good to bad. What shocked Wen Zhengrong was that she was positioned as B-level.
However, shock is shock, 40+ she has long been honored and disgraced, calling herself "the sister who makes a comeback", and generously said: "This is the market, I will try my best to rush to the S-level." ”
In the end, with the two clips of "Mei Lanfang" and "Parasite", she really succeeded in making the cut.
Wen Zhengrong has a saying that is particularly good:"Although the market has forgotten me now, I will use every performance to make everyone remember that I am Wen Zhengrong again. ”
In the past few years, whether it is "The Truth", "The Fog of the Octagonal Pavilion", or this year's "Lady's Character" and "I Want to Go Against the Wind", she has proved with her acting skills: no matter how many women she is, as long as she performs with her heart, she can be recognized.
Speaking of "The Truth", there is another particularly romantic thing.
Since "A Life of Wrong Love", Wen Zhengrong will use a perfume every time she acts, and after the filming is over, she seals the remaining perfume wax and writes the number of months and days in ** filming.
The sense of smell has a memory, and when you open it later, it is full of memories.
When filming "The Truth", she received the only perfume her husband used. Every time I smell that smell, it makes Wen Zhengrong feel very relieved.
Among them, the side of "Song Jinxiu's" infatuation with love is also called by Wen Zhengrong to be very similar to himself.
The persistence of love, the desire and love for home, and the persistence of being oneself have made Wen Zhengrong's happy life come true.
As she herself said, she doesn't want to be anyone's wife or mother when she is outside, but when she comes home, she must be someone's wife and mother.
Her happiness lies in not being entangled, learning to subtract from life, and only living the present.
"The world especially wants to turn girls into omnipotent Monkey Kings, but I really don't think it can be done. Distinguish the priority and secondary status of marriage and career at this stage, and focus on doing the same, so as not to be in a hurry. ”
Yes, if you talk about how to balance career and family, maybe the only way is not to force it, but to be yourself.