Life is like walking steps, the first few steps are relatively easy, step by step to climb up. However, as we get older, life becomes more and more difficult, bringing us more challenges and difficulties. Why is life harder the older you get?This is because our brains gradually degenerate and the body is no longer as healthy as it was when we were younger, at the same timelifeThere are also more and more problems. In the face of these changes, we have to face more challenges and pressures, which makes life more and more difficult.
When you are a young person, even if you are facing unemployment, you have no family burden and no children to raise, so you can rely on your parents for support. Middle-aged and elderly people are different, they have to face the dual responsibility of caring for their elderly parents and raising children, and once they lose their jobs, the whole family may face livelihood problems, which makes themlifeIt becomes more difficult. As the saying goes: "The house leak happened to rain overnight, and the ship broke and encountered a head wind." "The tougher the times, the more problems arise and the more challenges we have.
Both young and middle-aged and elderly people will have difficulties in making money. Young people have lower incomes due to lack of experience or lack of employment opportunitieslifeThe demand is getting higher and higher. Middle-aged and elderly people have weakened their ability to make money due to factors such as retirement or physical healthlifeThe cost is getting higher and higher. This makes a lot of people fall intoEconomydilemma, unable to meet the basicslifeDemand,lifeLack of dignity.
For ordinary people without background, money means havingliferesources and live what you wantlife。The current situation of middle-aged and elderly people is not optimistic. If they are lucky enough to own a property or have the right investment channels, they may be thereEconomyIt is relatively generous. But not everyone gets such dividends. Penniless middle-aged and elderly people face physical health problems andEconomycrisis, theirslifeIt's as hard as winter. The cold of old age is even more unbearable than when we are younger, because in old age we already don't have much choice.
Young people are relatively resilient to risk, they are risk-taking, stress-taking, and have a high tolerance for risk. On the contrary, middle-aged and elderly people are less able to resist risks, they are more cautious about unknown risks, and they are prone to dilemmas due to fear of risks. At the same time, the risks faced by middle-aged and older people are gradually increasing, to themlifeBrought more trouble.
InPhilosophyThere is a concept called contradiction. When we are young, we tend to be able to enjoy less risk because we are relatively strong. In old age, the risks are more diverse because we are relatively vulnerable. lifeOften likes"Bullying the soft and fearing the hard", when you're doing welllifeIt will go more smoothly;And when you're having a bad time,lifewill become more difficult. Middle-aged and elderly people face family relationship conflicts, physical health crises and sudden occurrenceslifeUnexpectedly, these problems make their lives more fragile.
We often hear the words qi number and blessing, but we may not know exactly what they mean. It can be understood in this way that the number of qi and blessing are the power to seek good fortune and avoid evil in life, and to protect oneself wisely. When we are young, we are often able to avoid accidents and disasters, and even when we encounter difficulties, we can easily get through them. As we get older, our qi gradually decreases, and our blessings become less and less. This leads to a problem: a sudden accident can cause a person or even a group of people to leave, and they will not be able to turn back for a lifetime.
Zeng GuofanHe once put forward a point of view: "In the early years, there is no good time, in middle age, and in old age, there is no adversity." This phrase means that we all have different challenges and difficulties to face at different stages. When you're young, you can't be too smooth, because you need to go through grinding;You can't be too idle in middle age, because you have to work hard to earn money to support your family;We can't face too much adversity in our old age, because we don't have much of a choice.
To sum up, the further you go in life, the more complex the problems you face, and the more difficult the challenges become. The difficulty of making money, the increase in risk, and the gradual reduction of blessings have made the life of middle-aged and elderly people more difficult to cope with. However, we still need to be brave and face itlifeStrive to overcome difficulties and strive for a better one for yourselflife