What is a strong man?
It's not about the strength of your personality, nor is it a measure of how much material wealth you have, these are more one-sided and superficial. The real strong person depends on whether you have a strong thinking in your bones, such as creating a business, and some people automatically and spontaneously self-restrain themselves, so that they can think about the whole situation and implement it, and they will not be discouraged when encountering any difficulties;And some people need constant encouragement from others to help them fight chicken blood. There are several kinds of thinking, even if you are weak now, you will become strong at some point in the future.
1.Strong mentality: giving.
Giving more than taking, the heart of the strong is rich, giving, giving, and not feeling that giving is a loss, and will not care, just like Vido Corleone in "The Godfather", unconditionally to help every weak character, won everyone's respect.
One of the old women was evicted by the landlord, and the godfather paid more out of his own pocket to help the old woman rent the house, and asked the landlord to help keep it secret.
When a person only thinks about giving instead of taking, this person enters a relatively high realm, and this realm is joyful, just like you are helping a lost person on the side of the road to show the way, and he is grateful to you, at this time your heart is joyful, and the mood is happy. Those who love love to return, and those who are blessed are blessed to come.
So, even if you give, the Buddhists say: if you don't have wealth and don't understand the Dharma, then even if you leave a few grains of rice when you eat and feed the little ants, stray cats and dogs, your heart is calm and peaceful at this time.
2.The strong will pay more attention to the inside than the outside.
What the strong think, think, and do, go back more to micro-Tao their own value and sense of mission, introduce, do not put expectations on others, and do not care about other people's eyes and words. "The apes on both sides of the strait can't stop crying, the light boat has passed over the ten thousand mountains", 10,000 people have 10,000 people's opinions, 1,000 people have 1,000 people's opinions, you don't have so much time to listen to what those people say, let alone listen to their suggestions and opinions, the real master does not interfere with the cause and effect of others, and it is not good to be a teacher;Therefore, the strong will consider what they want to do and why they do it, the starting point of everything lies in their own internal drive, and they will follow their own hearts, and will not pay too much attention to whether there is an opportunity. (The real Maxima will identify Bole by itself, and the best Maxima and Bole go both ways.) ）
It really doesn't matter if there is recognition from others, you just need to pay attention to what you want to do, what you want to do, listen to your inner voice, and help yourself!
3.The attitude of the strong.
Facts speak louder than emotions. The strong will look at the essence behind things, will not indulge in the surface, will not follow the emotions, let the emotions flood and drown the reason, all the things that happen in life can be calmly faced, accept the changes of things, calm and calm, that kind of bearing, mind, is the practice of transformation after the world.
The real strong person is not the attitude, character, and strength in dealing with others, and will not ask for praise and recognition from others in the relationship;I will not be attached to very superficial things, but more calmly, calmly and wisely. Just like Lao Tzu said, the elephant is invisible, soft and strong;It is like water, which benefits all things without fighting.
How many strong characteristics do you have?
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