My name is Li Xiaofang, I am 28 years old, and I am a primary school Chinese teacher. My husband Wang Qiang and I are in the same business, he is in business in a foreign trade company, and we have been married for 5 years.
After marriage, life has always been very happy, Wang Qiang works very hard, often works overtime to earn money to support his family. I am also very content, I have a warm little home, a husband who loves each other, and a lovely 3-year-old daughter Xiaofang. I concentrate on teaching at school, and although I am living in poverty, I am happy as a family.
However, the good times did not last long, and in March this year, Wang Qiang's company suddenly collapsed. It turned out that the company's senior management did illegal business and was seized by the ** department. Wang Qiang was unemployed at home, in a very bad mood, and was depressed all day long. I comforted him: "It's okay, we'll figure it out, you can rest at home for a while and then look for a job." ”
Wang Qiang said: "Now that the economy is so bad, it is too difficult to find a job, and I have to bear joint and several liability for the huge debts owed by the company." ”
I was worried, so I persuaded him: "We can pay off the debt slowly, as long as the two of us are together, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome." ”
In the days that followed, however, things got worse and worse. Wang Qiang's boss is nowhere to be found, and no one bears the debts he owes. The creditor came to collect the debt, and Wang Qiang was seized by the court for his car and house. Wang Qiang and I can only rent a house, and life is becoming more and more difficult.
I advised Wang Qiang: "Don't be discouraged, let's find a way to work and make money." I can go to make up the lessons, and you can also go to deliver takeaways. We'll get through it. ”
Wang Qiang is like a loser, lying in bed all day long, unable to lift his energy for anything. I was very anxious, my small family was broken and I couldn't support the family.
At this moment, a man named Li Jian appeared. He was a middle-aged wealthy businessman who taught at the cram school where I worked. He was very nice to me, often taking me home and sometimes giving me some money. I refused at first, but when I saw my family's predicament, I gradually accepted it.
One day, Li Jian said to me: "Xiaofang, follow me, you don't have to suffer like this anymore." I will give you a warm home. ”
I hesitated, but still shook my head: "Brother Jian, I'm sorry, I already have a home and can't leave my husband." ”
Li Jian didn't give up, and said, "Look at your husband's current appearance, he can't give you anything." Come with me, I'll be good to you. ”
I repeatedly refused, but Li Jian gave me a passbook.
Li Jian gave me a passbook with more than 100,000 yuan on it. I hesitated, but I didn't accept it. Li Jian saw that I was resolute, so he didn't embarrass me anymore.
When I got home, I saw that Wang Qiang was still depressed, and I felt very uncomfortable. I advised him, "It's not a way for you to go on like this, we have to find a way." ”
Wang Qiang said sullenly: "It's useless, I have nothing now, I'm a loser." You'd better leave me, I can't afford to raise you and your children. ”
I red-eyed and said, "How can you say that?".I'm married to you, not your money. We can start all over again together, don't we still have my part-time wife?”
Wang Qiang was silent, I looked at him like this, and I felt very uncomfortable.
Li Jian readily agreed. He first helped me pay off all the debts I owed, and then gave me a living allowance. I thought of my family's predicament, so I followed Li Jian and left.
I left a letter to Wang Qiang, saying that I was sorry for him, but I really couldn't watch the child suffer, so I had to leave for a while. I believe that our relationship will come together again.
After being with Li Jian, life is indeed much better. He gave me a luxurious apartment and would often give me gifts. But my heart is very uncomfortable, and I always think of Wang Qiang and the child.
One day, Wang Qiang suddenly came to me. I subconsciously wanted to hide, but I mustered up the courage to meet him.
Wang Qiang's face was tired, and he said: "Xiaofang, I know that I can't give you anything now, and you have no choice but to leave me." But listen to me, I've figured it out, and I'll definitely cheer myself up and give you and your children a home. Can you come back and start over?”
I listened, and tears welled up in my eyes. I said, "I'm sorry, I was so selfish." I shouldn't have left your mother and daughter. I'll pack my things and go home now. ”
When Li Jian learned that I was leaving, he refused to agree. He forcibly asked me to go with him, and Wang Qiang had a fierce argument with him. I tried to fight between the two, but I couldn't stop them from fighting.
Seeing Wang Qiang injured because of me, my heart was like a knife. I did this, and if I hadn't chosen to leave, it wouldn't have been like this. I don't.
I shouldn't have left my husband because of a temporary difficulty. Now I have to redeem it all!
I stood in front of Wang Qiang and said to Li Jian: "Brother Jian, I'm sorry for your misunderstanding. I decided to go back to my husband, and I hope you can understand. ”
Li Jian said angrily: "Xiaofang, I gave you such a good life, how can you treat me like this?."”
I said resolutely, "Brother Jian, thank you for helping me. But my relationship with my husband has gone through so many ups and downs, I can't just abandon him. Money is important, but it's not as important as true love. Please leave us alone. ”
Li Jian was very annoyed when he saw my resolute attitude and knew that I was really going to leave him. He punched Wang Qiang again and scolded: "It's all you waste, so Xiaofang was forced to leave me!."”
Wang Qiang endured the pain and said, "Brother Jian, I know you like Xiaofang, but feelings are not forced. I will pick herself up again and give her happiness. Please let it go. ”
At this time, Li Jian actually took out a knife from his pocket and shouted hysterically: "I won't let go!."Xiaofang is mine, you waste is not worthy of her!”
I was frightened and hurriedly blocked in front of Wang Qiang: "Brother Jian, calm down, please put down the knife, we can have a good talk!."”
Li Jian seemed to go crazy, raised his knife and pounced on us. Wang Qiang and I had to hide everywhere. At this moment, the neighbors heard the commotion and rushed to stop it. Only then was Li Jian subdued, and the knife was taken away.
Wang Qiang hugged me tightly, his face full of tears: "Xiaofang, I'm sorry, it's my uselessness that caused you to suffer these things." From now on, I will definitely treat you and your children well. ”
I also burst into tears: "Husband, I was wrong, I shouldn't have left you." From now on, we will be together as a family forever!”
Li Jian saw that the general trend had gone, and finally gave up. He said to me with red eyes, "Xiaofang, I really love you." But I don't want to force it, as long as you're happy. You and your husband go, I won't bother you anymore. ”
I nodded and left with Wang Qiang.
On the way home, Wang Qiang kept apologizing to me. He said that it was all his fault, that he wanted to be a new man, and that he must not let me suffer any more grievances.
I shook his hand and said, "Husband, we are both responsible as husband and wife. No matter what happens in the future, we will always face each other and never leave each other again. ”
Wang Qiang nodded and shook my hand vigorously.
Since then, Wang Qiang has found a job as a courier, and although the income is not high, he has never been depressed again. I also continued to work and we both worked hard to earn money to support our families.
Although life is tight, our relationship is deeper than before. Sometimes I wonder how much damage I did to my husband and the children when I almost left him in the first place. Now I cherish this hard-won happy life even more.