Thank you 2023
2023, this way, for the country, unprecedented!For individuals, a rare occurrence in a hundred years!
2023, along the way, appreciate the vicissitudes of the world, feel the warmth and coldness of human feelings, bitterness and hardship, sadness and joy, and sigh!
2023, this way, face the danger, tear your heart, lie down in despair!Remembered, never forget!
A new slang in the post-COVID era
Wuhan starts, unite as one, defend to the death!Victory!
Beijing, the heart of the motherland, must not lose a political battle!Guaranteed win!
Shanghai, an international metropolis, has to withstand it, overwhelmed!Didn't lose!
Guangzhou, judging the situation and announcing the relaxation of restrictions, accepted it calmly!Adapt!
1. Experiencing loneliness – life dictates
2023, the beginning of the year, the sun is shining HVAC!However, the sky is unpredictable, and he dared to "disobey the yang and the yin", causing the new crown to be stiff, and he actually came to the second "palace".
World War I" and "entering the palace" have been bruised all over their bodies, and the family in front of them has strengthened their beliefs.
In the first half of World War II, I lay flat at home for ten days, and my mental strength was exhausted. In the second half, he took the initiative to "enter the palace twice". In times of desperation, it is a wise move!
The new crown "brick family" suggests that you can lie flat, and it has proved that it is really harmful!
The cancellation of the new crown prevention and control has caused a national uproar!People are uncharacteristically preferring to self-isolate at home rather than risk the coronavirus on the streets. In an instant, thousands of people are empty, the streets and shops are rare, the economy is sluggish, and the market is depressed.
Before, it was better to die than to be free!There is no freedom, and there is a desire for freedom;Later, freedom is given, but freedom is feared. The people's intentions are inconsistent and their mentality is entangled. Public opinion and policy backlash.
Regardless of whether it is home isolation, hospitalization or centralized isolation, it is under strict isolation and protection measures. Living in a relatively closed and narrow space for a long time, after a long time, travel is restricted, life is inconvenient, mental depression, inner depression, and even madness and madness, and its pain is comparable to that of a prisoner in a cage. If it is invaded by a virus, it will be painful!Rushing to the west, exhausting his mind and physical strength, most of them are helpless and helpless, which makes people suddenly painful and lonely!
2. Recognize loneliness - accept loneliness
That. 1. Loneliness is first and foremost spiritual and ideological independence.
It is necessary to have an "independent spirit, a free mind"!(Chen Yinke).
For the majority of people, especially young students, their personality, education, thinking, heart, and (ideal) beliefs must be consolidated one by one in order to truly realize "the spirit of independence and the mind of freedom"!
And if you want to be independent and free, be a strong person in your heart!It is necessary to be strict with self-discipline and diligently;If you lift lightly and down-to-earth, you can lift weights lightly and easily;Empty talk misleads the country, knowledge and action are united;Keep upright and introspective, and the hair will be amazing;Instead of changing others, it is better to be yourself in order to achieve independence and freedom!
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2. Loneliness is a normal part of life.
The splendor that has been in life will eventually need to be repaid with loneliness, and life will eventually be a solo trip".
- One Hundred Years of Solitude).
People are born to be lonely, and those who meet in all kinds of water and walk with you can't accompany you to the end!Therefore, loneliness is a normal part of life.
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3. Loneliness is a state of mind.
Solitude is a kind of calmness, a kind of accommodation, which reflects its width and depth. The ancient sages calmly faced loneliness, and "raising a glass to invite the bright moon" was Li Bai's loneliness;"Fishing alone in the cold river and snow" is the loneliness of Liu Zongyuan.
3. Dealing with loneliness – be yourself
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1. Loneliness is not nothing to say.
"This is said to be honest in the middle, and the form is in the outside, so the gentleman must be cautious of his independence." "Be cautious in solitude;Idleness is discreet and introspective. That's it!
Loneliness is not that there is no one to talk to, and it is not that there is nothing to say!When you are lonely, you must learn to accept, tolerate and appreciate loneliness. When you are lonely, learn to talk to heaven and earth, communicate with your heart, learn to let go, learn to introspect, and explore independently!
Second, loneliness is an independent ability
Loneliness allows people to learn to be alone, solitude urges independence, learns to judge and make decisions independently, faces, bears and bears alone, so as to have their own independent thoughts, independent personalities, independent lives and lives!Carrying things by oneself and learning to be independent in loneliness is also a kind of independent ability.
The essence of loneliness lies in following the trend, being yourself, and cultivating independence!
Loneliness is a process of cultivating independence, and it is a kind of life experience and growth. The way of growth in life is often to be alone and alone, as the saying goes, "the master leads the door, and the practice is in the individual." What's more, the protection of parents and the help of relatives and friends are only for a while, and most of the rest of the journey of life can only grow up if you move forward alone, work hard, and do not slack off. This is true for study, but also for work and life.
Conclusion
In 2023, this way, despite the thorns, I have to continue to move forward on my life path, and I can't leave the burden halfway. Even if you are lonely and helpless, you will be alone for a lifetime. Because, even the people closest to you sometimes take care of themselves, how can they help you?Pamper you?
Along the way, Mu Yu Shaohua, ups and downs, tired and painful, asked Yutu how lonely he was at that time?
Recalling this trip, the eventful years, the waves and clouds are treacherous, sad and joyful, and see Chenlong in the coming year!
Jiangxiado HSL
December 26, 2023.