Thank you 2023
Father's love is like a mountain, embedded in the heart;The son wants to feed back and hate late, heartbreaking!
The early summer is like a cold winter, and Ciyan sails away without seeing each other!When you have to say goodbye, it will be difficult to be filial piety to the Nine Realms!
My father has a temperament like a mountain, and he is isolated and upright. Be cautious in your words and deeds. For the sake of livelihood, the sun does not rise, and the sun sets and returns. Work hard all day long, work silently. At the beginning, he was not good at interpersonal worldliness, and he was cold and fearful.
At that time, on the eve of the reform, the years were difficult, the family road was poor, and only a tiled and straw house remained. Parents raise seven children, and there are many people and few places. Whenever the green and yellow are not received, there is almost no food to eat, and there is a sigh to be fed. The mother sighed sadly. The exclusive father is calm, and continues to move forward with weight, full of bitterness, tired and painful, but never tells anyone!
When I was young, I was afraid of my father, and even deliberately resisted and distanced myself. One is because my father is silent and not good at words;Second, because I skipped school at that time, my father used wattles to beat my legs all the way, and I jumped and cried until school. In front of everyone's eyes, he was ashamed and embarrassed, so he felt disgusted. After that, he favored his mother.
In the following years, after experiencing a lot of right and wrong, my father's dignity gradually appeared, changing the image of Mu Ne in the past, his quality was a person, and his strength was so great that it even affected the direction of my life path!The following is a brief quote.
That. 1. In the seventies and eighties, family planning was regarded as a national policy. Those who have more than one child and who have more than one child not only face the highest punishment, but also suffer from ridicule and suppression in social life. In fact, it is a mockery of the low per capita income, high expenses, and difficult family life. My father admonished me to be patient in a hurry, thinking that if I endure for a while, I will win a lifetime!
That. Second, at that time, the "theory of the uselessness of reading" was very popular. Eight of my fellow toddlers were admitted to middle school at the same time, and I was the only one who continued to study in high school. Many students dropped out of school to work to earn money, and even got married and had children. "You spend so much money on studying, you can use a basket to hold money" similar cynicism to the mountains and fields. My father was anxious, but he was not shocked, and there was no abnormality.
That. 3. My father was often respected by a family in the village, and he was also quite friendly to my generation. It's been puzzling for years. It turned out that my father's young playmate drowned, and at the moment of danger, my father came to the rescue!My father repeatedly told me not to spread the word. In addition, original documents such as family heirlooms ** and land certificates for the founding of the country, in order to avoid disputes among the same clans, the father of the family is resolutely not allowed to discuss publicly, let alone hang on the wall for publicity.
That. Fourth, after nearly ten years of planning and preparation, I finally built a large brick house, ending the "snail" era when I slept in the pigsty. This is a life event that my father is proud of.
That. Fifth, my father even influenced the direction of my life!This is something that my father didn't realize at all. It can be described as "unintentionally inserting willows into the willows"!
When I was a child, in the cold winter and the moon, the whole family sat around the fire. Kerosene lamps flickered in the darkness. My father talked eloquently about such things as "Fengshen Bang", "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", "Water Margin", "The Legend of Heroes of the Sui and Tang Dynasties", etc., sometimes eloquently, sometimes passionately, sometimes frowned, sometimes beating his chest, blending spirits, realistic shapes, and fascinating!Its setting is suspenseful, often with scenery or sentiment, which makes people think deeply and inspire Mingzhi. Even in the dead of night, it is still relishing and sleepless!
In middle school, I only loved history and politics, and went straight to the library after school, with "tomes" in my hands, greedy reading, and couldn't put it down!The list of sophomore subjects was released, and I couldn't find it with my eyes level, and I was suddenly flustered. Immediately leaned back and raised his head to the top of the list, and the first place in liberal arts was impressive!Suddenly I almost fell backwards!
College Entrance Examination Volunteer History Undergraduate!He then engaged in history education and teaching. Looking back on the connection, isn't it connected by karma?!
That. 6. I was in my second year of high school and returned home on the weekend. In the room, when my father and son were alone, I felt high in my heart and asked my father ...... with responsibilityYunyun. My father looked at me for a moment, sighed, and said calmly and earnestly, "This is not the case, and others are the same." You read a lot, but you can't tell the truth from the fakeNo matter what is important?With that, tears filled his face, and he turned around and left slowly.
I was shocked and stayed put, deep in thought, unable to let go for a long time. As it turned out later, there were many major issues of right and wrong, and my father won our trust and respect with his sincerity and persistence.
That. 7. I have been working for many years, and one day, my brother revealed that in order to provide me with the help of completing my university studies, the rice sold at home was like a landslideMy mother confessed that sometimes the family was so poor that ......they had no money to buy salt. In the past 30 years, until the early summer of the rabbit, my father died and drove west, and never revealed any pain to me!
Smell it, feel guilty!Thinking about it, tears are raining down!
Spring flowers welcome the warm wind, but they are strict but sail away. Who is the golden autumn with?Ask the sunset for the wine!The tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait.
In 2023, along the way, father's love is like a mountainI would like to use this article to remember my father. Remember it in your heart and never forget it!
The above review is based on facts. I don't dare to make a name for my father, I just want to restore the true nature of my father, remember the love of my parents to lick the calf, and be grateful for the kindness of my parents, so as to absorb the essence of the quality of our ancestors, and continue to move forward. And in this way, I hope that the family tradition will be carried forward!If so, that's enough!
Jiangxia Hall HSL
In the early morning of December 26, 2023.