The 69-year-old lady unexpectedly discovered that her wife, who had lived with her for more than 30 years, was the culprit who made her lose her first love when she was young
My name is Li Guizhi, I am 69 years old this year, and my wife and I have been married for more than 30 years. Looking back on our married life, it can be said that we are very happy, we have been in a good relationship over the years, and we have not had any big fights.
I thought we would always grow old together like this, and we would always be an old husband and wife of En'en**. It wasn't until a few days ago that I accidentally turned to my wife's diary when I was young, and I learned a shocking secret - my beloved wife was actually the culprit who made me lose my first love when I was young!
Speaking of my first love, it was an ambiguous relationship with my Chinese teacher Xu Xiaochuan in high school. Mr. Xu is handsome and golden, and he likes literature very much, and he is like-minded with me. In his classes, we often met eye contact and even secretly wrote love letters to each other.
How sweet and happy I was at that time, like a girl in love. As soon as I think of meeting Ms. Xu at school, my heart is overjoyed. But before this ambiguous relationship began, it was brutally ended.
One day, the principal suddenly informed Mr. Xu that he was no longer teaching our Chinese class, citing a problem with his personal behavior. I was heartbroken, but I couldn't find Mr. Xu anyway, and he disappeared like that. Later I heard that he had been transferred out of school.
This first love ended without a problem, and it became the regret of my life. It wasn't until I married my wife many years later that I gradually forgot that sad past. I always thought that Mr. Xu might have had a problem with his professional ethics and met with an unexpected end.
But I accidentally turned to my wife's diary yesterday and found out the secret. When my wife was young, he attended the high school next door to us, and he accidentally learned about me and Mr. Xu, and he started a fire of love and fell in love with me at first sight.
I wanted to pursue me in the bright light, but I felt that Mr. Xu was in the way. So he teamed up with a few friends and came up with a conspiracy - they anonymously reported that Mr. Xu had an improper relationship with the student, and successfully let Mr. Xu leave the school.
I was shocked. It turned out that my beloved wife turned out to be the culprit who caused me to lose my first love!In order to get me, he did not hesitate to hurt me and Teacher Xu with such indiscriminate means. I couldn't believe it.
I asked my wife with red eyes, and he confessed guiltily. He said that he did the wrong thing when he was young and vigorous, and now he regrets it very much. He asked for my forgiveness, saying that he had been faithful to me for so many years and hoped that I would not leave him because of my past mistakes.
My mind was in turmoil. I wanted to kick my wife out of the house because he had robbed me of the sweetest memories of my youth. But on the other hand, he did have a deep affection for me and took great care of me over the years. Should I forgive him for his youthful mistakes and continue our marriage?
After a painful struggle, I decided to give my wife a chance. After all, we have been together for so many years, and he has also given too much for this family. I can't deny our present just because of the past. I decided to see this as a test, and if we can get through this crisis, we will continue to grow old together.
My wife was grateful and vowed to take care of me in the future. I also warned him that I would observe for a while. If I find out that he still has a problem cheating on me, I will divorce immediately. It's also an opportunity for my wife to reflect on herself and rebuild our trust.
After this blow, I also learned that people and things in life are not so black and white. It is important to be tolerant of others and give them a chance to mend their ways. Mistakes should be forgiven, and only with love and forgiveness can we get through the ups and downs of life and be happy.
Xiao Yan said: Sure enough, love needs to go through the test of wind and rain before it can be gilded with gold. Although Mrs. Gui Zhi found it difficult to accept what her wife did, her years of affection still made her tolerate the past. I hope that the old couple will go further and further and continue to live happily. People are not sages, and mistakes should be tolerated, which is also an opportunity for my wife to start over.
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