Dry goods are coming!The written examination stage of the 24-year graduate examination has ended, and with the upcoming festive atmosphere, you can relax your body and mind and relieve the hard work of more than half a year.
This year, the number of people who signed up for the postgraduate examination reached a new high, and the competition for the examination was fierce, and various psychological pressures also appeared. During this special period, some people prepare candy and chocolate in advance to maintain the state of the examination room;Some people ran away and gave up the test after signing up. Among the students who dropped out of the test, one girl recounted her experience of abandoning the test and shared a chat with her family. originally wanted to find resonance and be comforted, but unfortunately touched a gray nose, which made her doubt her choice, and was even severely criticized by netizens.
It is not uncommon in recent years to abandon graduate exams, with hundreds of thousands of students choosing to skip exams every year after registering. The reasons vary, some are forced to give up due to formalities;Some are dissatisfied with their chosen specialty;Some are afraid of facing unfamiliar exam papers and embarrassing results because they are not fully prepared. These students often feel guilty and feel guilty about their parents' support and dedication. In the girl's self-report, we can feel her inner struggle and collapse before abandoning the exam. On that sleepless night, she watched the alarm clock go off and fell into despair. Before, her family had always advised her to work hard to take the exam even if it was naked, and at least give it a try. This time, however, she gave up and went home. Often, students go home and apologize to their families to ease their emotions and thank them for their support and help during this time. However, the girl chose to confront her family. It can be seen that her father is very worried about her, reminding her not to come home at night and worrying about her safety. And when she learned that her father had prepared breakfast and waited for her, she replied directly: "Leave me alone." From her words, it can be seen that she desperately wants to express her emotional collapse and loss, hoping to be comforted and resonated. But unfortunately, among her classmates and netizens, she did not get the expected support and understanding, but was blamed and ridiculed. Netizens criticized: "What are you noble?"She herself knows the reason why the girl gave up the exam, neither because of the epidemic nor decision-making mistakes, but because of too much psychological pressure. She chose not to take the exam to avoid facing a bigger failure. It's easier to be brutal than to apologize. Parents always feel sorry for their children, and it is easier for her to ask for care than to apologize. In the eyes of those students who have had the experience of preparing for the graduate school entrance examination, her attitude is hateful: if she doesn't work hard and is arrogant, why is she so noble and pretending to be forced?Therefore, in the comments, she did not receive any comfort and empathy, only accusations and reproaches. Instead of comfort, she was condemned, like a dog being spilled with blood.
However, we should recognize that she did not commit any big mistakes. From her statement, we can see that she has some awareness of her own problems and knows that she lacks self-discipline. However, all she can do is know, and she is not willing to face up to and bear her own self-discipline. A threatening approach was even taken to address the issue. She said: "I gave up the exam, I am emotionally unstable, you want to comfort me, you must be able to empathize." For those who really care about her, this method may be effective, but for netizens who have never met before, this kind of behavior has no meaning. Therefore, she was attacked by netizens. However, in my opinion, the situation is not so serious. She can not only know her own shortcomings, but also recognize her family's dedication to herself, which is not easy in itself. What she lacks is the ability to face problems and solve them with sweat. Change and growth do not happen overnight, and in the days to come, she also needs to learn to face her emotions, be friendly with her family, and learn to solve problems with sweat instead of tears.
To sum up, the attitude of netizens is undoubtedly very harsh, but for those who really care about her, her behavior is really inconsiderate. In this world, no one will always expect anything from you, and the adversity of life will only make you stronger. Everyone has to take responsibility for their own life, learn to overcome their inner vulnerability, and use actions to achieve their goals.