It is not uncommon for graduate exams to be abandoned, and every year, a large number of candidates choose to forgo exams after registering. The reasons for abandoning the exam vary, some are due to formalities that lead to not being able to take the exam, some are dissatisfied with the major, and some choose to avoid it due to excessive psychological pressure. In this article, a girl shares her journey of abandoning the exam and chatting with her family. However, her actions were heavily criticized by Internet users, leaving her at a loss for her choice.
Dropping exams is not uncommon in graduate exams, and the reasons vary. Some candidates are forced to abandon the exam because of formalities, some are not interested in the major they are applying for, and some are not prepared. Among them, a large number of candidates are afraid of facing the pressure of the exam and are afraid of facing the results that they may not do well. This part of the test takers often feels guilty about themselves and for the support and dedication of their parents.
And in this girl's autobiography, she had insomnia all night before deciding to abandon the exam. Facing the moment when the alarm clock was about to go off, she felt her whole body collapse. In the past, her family has always encouraged her to try the exam even if it is naked. But this time it was different, she chose to compromise and chose to go home. According to the normal direction of development, she should go home to apologize to her family and relieve her emotions, speculating that she has wasted the resources and support given by her family in the past six months.
However, she didn't do that. When talking to her family, she has a somewhat impulsive attitude. It can be seen that her father is very worried about her and does not want her to go out when it is dark and is worried about her safety. At six o'clock in the morning, her father also reminded her that breakfast was ready and waiting for her. However, the girl directly replied, "Leave me alone". From her description, it can be seen that she wanted to be comforted and empathetic, to express her emotional breakdown, but she did not receive understanding and support, on the contrary, she was violently criticized by Internet users: What are you pretending to be noble?This made her feel lost and aggrieved.
Judging from the girl's self-report, she herself is aware of her own problems and knows that she is a person who lacks self-discipline. But all she could do was know. She is unwilling to face reality and is unwilling to pay the price for her lack of self-discipline. She took a threatening approach to solve the problem: "I gave up the exam, I am emotionally unstable, you want to comfort me, you must be able to empathize." She tried to touch the people who really cared about her in this way, but for netizens who had never met before, this method did not work, so she was attacked by netizens.
For some students who have experience in preparing for graduate school entrance examinations, their attitude towards girls is not eye-catching. The girl is not working hard and is arrogant, and they think that she is not using her full effort to face the exam, and chooses to avoid it. The comment section is also full of accusations of her behavior, lacking comfort and empathy. After all, it is not without students who have abandoned the exam, and there are many students who take the exam naked, and the focus of controversy is the attitude towards the problem and the attitude towards parents.
In my opinion, the girl's behavior is not as serious as that of netizens. From her narrative, it can be seen that she herself is aware of her own problems and knows that she is a person who lacks self-discipline. However, all she could do was know her own problems and was not willing to bear the corresponding cost. Solving the problem through a threatening way will naturally not be supported and understood by netizens.
For those who care about her, they don't want to see her sad and hurt, but at the same time disappointed. When the disappointment accumulates to a certain level, it will numb people, so that even the people around her who really care about her will no longer have expectations of her. As human beings, we must take responsibility for our own lives. Safe havens can't last forever, so we must learn to overcome our hearts and get things done with seriousness. Those who truly care for us may not tolerate our misfortunes, but they will be disappointed. In this world, no one wants to endure our emotions endlessly.
In short, in the face of difficulties and setbacks, we should face them with a positive attitude, not running away, not retreating. Deciding to forgo the test is a choice, but we also have to take responsibility for our choice. Only through hard work and sweat can we achieve our ideals and goals, not only to bring a sense of accomplishment to ourselves, but also to make the people around us more supportive and encouraged. I hope this girl can learn a lesson, face up to her emotions, and learn to solve problems with sweat instead of tears.