The postgraduate examination is an important exam, and for many people, it means that they can continue their studies, further their academic qualifications and career development. As a result, a large number of students apply for graduate school every year. However, there are also some students who choose to abandon the test after registering for different reasons. Some may be due to personal reasons, some may have doubts about the major they are applying for, and some may be afraid that they will not be able to achieve the desired score in the exam due to insufficient preparation. These students often feel guilty and guilty when faced with the decision to drop their exams, knowing that they are facing the disappointment of their families and the waste of time and resources.
This article focuses on the experience of a female student who dropped the exam. The girl had insomnia for a night before the decision to abandon the exam, and she felt her whole body collapse. Previously, her family had always encouraged her to give it a try even if she took the exam naked, but this time she chose to compromise and let herself go home. Often, students go home to apologize and relieve their families, as they have wasted so much time and the resources and support their families have provided. However, the girl's attitude seemed a little impulsive. She had some conflicts when communicating with her family, and although her father was very worried about her safety, she was tough on her family's words and did not express gratitude to her father for his concern and reminders. She seems to want to be comforted and understood by her family, but unfortunately, in the eyes of her classmates and netizens, her behavior seems arrogant and irresponsible. The comments were filled with accusations of her actions and a lack of comfort and empathy, which made her even more confused and sad.
1、.Psychological stress and fear
One of the reasons why girls drop out of exams is psychological stress and fear. The high level of competition in postgraduate examinations, coupled with their own lack of preparation, puts a lot of pressure on women. She was afraid to face a situation where she didn't know anything about the exam, and she was afraid to face embarrassing results after the exam. In her heart, this low self-esteem and fear triggered the idea of abandoning the exam, and she felt that it was easier to accept it than to face failure.
2、.Problems with the way of communication
The way girls communicate with their families is also a major cause of conflict. She did not get along with her family in a friendly manner under feelings of disappointment and guilt. Her attitude and rhetoric give the impression of being arrogant and irresponsible, which is contrary to her purpose of hoping for support from her family. If she is able to communicate with her family in a calm and receptive manner, she may be able to get more positive and supportive feedback.
3、.Recognize and deal with emotions correctly
We should not condemn this girl too much for the emotional loss of control she showed, because emotional control is a challenging task for everyone. It's understandable that she has emotional outbursts under pressure, but that doesn't mean we can let ourselves go and make impulsive decisions under the influence of emotions. Recognizing and dealing with emotions correctly is essential for everyone's growth and maturity.
In my opinion, although netizens have a very strict attitude towards this girl, the problem is not entirely on her alone. Everyone has their own mental journey when facing difficulties and choices, and we should not be too critical of others, but should think and reflect on them. As adults, we must take responsibility for our own decisions and actions, not relying on others and counting on unconditional tolerance and understanding. The difficulties and choices we encounter in life are opportunities to exercise our ability to think independently and take responsibility. Only through down-to-earth efforts and hard work can you truly achieve your goals.
This article describes a girl's experience of abandoning the exam, which prompted me to think about the reasons behind her behavior. Everyone has their own confusion and confusion in life, and we can't completely pin our emotions and losses on others, let alone deal with problems in a negative way. In the face of challenges and pressures, we should insist on facing them bravely, and continue to learn, practice, and grow, so as to find self-worth and the meaning of existence. Only in this way can we be more confident and firm on the road of life, keep forging ahead, and constantly surpass ourselves.