Parents are worried about being in love and the stress of being in love.
When it comes to school, parents always disapprove of their children's development of feelings because they put their studies first. Parents are afraid that falling in love will distract their children, which can have a negative impact on academic performance. Especially in middle school, once there is an emotional problem, it is very likely to lead to a failure in the exam, and the first period of learning is delayed, and it is useless to regret it. However, parents tell their children that as long as they go to college, they are no longer forbidden to fall in love. In real life, some parents also encourage their children to find a partner, and they feel that starting a family early is the best destination. However, even after the students graduated, the parents' worries persisted. When they reach school age, parents worry about their children's marriages and marriages. Now, their new mission is to start a family as soon as possible.
Conditions for choosing a husband and industry rankings.
When it comes to choosing a mate, parents pay more attention to each other's moral character, education level and occupation. That's the key. Parents are especially careful when choosing their "son-in-law" so that nothing goes wrong in the end. If a man has a regular job, he brings happiness to the whole family. So, the career becomes a matter of consideration. In the minds of the parents, a list of "best sons-in-law" will appear, and everyone thinks that it will be the first, but to everyone's surprise, there are no public officials on this list. In third place on the list is the teacher, which is the country's "iron rice bowl". Although the teacher industry is not wealthy, you can live a rich life and do not have to worry about your children's studies, so many people will choose teachers when choosing a mate. In second place is the ** enterprise. Originally, this runner-up belonged to the national cadres, but I don't know since when, the ** company squeezed this position down, became the second-in-command, and became the wishful husband in the eyes of the future mother-in-law. Compared with the general government workers, enterprises have greater rights, parents do not have to worry about the future of their children, and their status in society is much higher. But when he saw the names on the list, he knew that these four words were well deserved. Physicians come first. With the country's focus on medical talents, the number of medical university graduates is increasing year by year, and the profession of physician is becoming more and more popular. In love, a physician is more likely to win the gratitude of his mother-in-law. It can be said that one person has attained the Tao, chicken dog **. Mother-in-law's heart, of course, is biased towards the "doctor".
The balance of work and affection for men.
Men have a more stressful job and have to bear all sorts of burdens not only to earn money to support their families. Many male students have to think about whether their job is secure and whether they can easily find an ideal partner in the future. For men to succeed emotionally and professionally, they need to plan ahead. When applying for the university, candidates should pay attention to choosing their own major, and then find a job smoothly through their own strengths. Even in the school you like, you must always be vigilant, because the stronger you are, the more advantageous you are. Although students who have graduated from higher education are highly educated, it is difficult to obtain recognition on the basis of a diploma alone. Parents should also broaden their horizons, not only focus on temporary gains and losses, but also seek a better future for their children. Parents can express their views and opinions, but they should not make any decisions on their behalf.
Personal Summary. When parents choose their children, they pay more attention to each other's moral character, education level and occupation. They place more emphasis on a man having a stable job and expect his partner to bring happiness to the whole family. During this time, the career becomes a matter of consideration. However, career is not the only indicator of a person's goodness. Everyone has their own ambitions and aspirations, and only by choosing the right path can they get the happiness of life. In addition, while achieving both professional and emotional success, men also face great pressure and challenges. In order to achieve one's ideal life, one must take the initiative to plan and improve one's talents.
Citation: Zhang Xiaolei, "Best Son-in-law", No. 1, **China Youth Magazine, 2022 (03).