A married woman, if she has a house, a car, a job, money, and children, even if she is cheated, it is at most hurtful, but the fatality is not high.
If you feel that you can't live anymore after being cheated on, it is often because your own conditions have not given you the ability, and you can live tenaciously without a cheating man.
The strongest relationship in the world is not that I love you, but that I have money.
Wives have good enough conditions that it will not be too difficult to resolve extramarital affairs, this is the reality.
Scarlett had dealt with an extramarital affair case before, and the original partner said that her husband cheated on her as a child's tutor.
The original partner and the cheating man have been married for seventeen years and have a child who is in junior high school, because the child's grades are not ideal, the original partner found a one-on-one tutor for the child.
This tutor has just graduated from university and has a clerical job, but the salary is not much, the university is a teacher major, and there is a teacher qualification certificate, so I found a part-time tutoring job.
After trying to teach two classes, the effect is good, and the original partner plans to use this cram teacher for a long time.
At first, it was to send the child to the rental house of the tutor, and the original delivery child went, but then because the relatives of the original match were not in good health, she had no time, so she asked her husband to send it, two days a week and two days on the weekend, and the original partner didn't feel anything at first.
Because of this tutor, he looks very quiet and sensible.
She never thought that her husband would get together with this tutor.
Why is the original partner suspicious, because the cheating man and the mistress underestimate the sensitivity of the child.
The two of them met during the child's tutoring time, pretending to be the same as the head teacher and the teacher.
But after developing an extramarital relationship in private and dating, their attitudes towards each other will slowly change, and the child is also sensitive to the fact that such a big child actually knows a lot.
So the child went home and said to the original partner that he felt a little too familiar between the cheating man and the mistress.
This original partner did not ignore what the child said, saying that the child was thinking too much or something.
Instead, the child secretly left a voice recorder in the cheating man's car.
Then he successfully collected evidence that the cheating man and the mistress were developing an extramarital affair.
In addition to sending the child to the primary three for tutoring on weekends, the child also has a special class
After the cheating man sent the child to the special class, he said that he was waiting for the child outside, but he actually went to find the mistress.
In just one and a half hours, it takes half an hour for the cheating man to drive back and forth.
There is only one hour, and I have to go to get tired of the mistress, and the mistress comes to the car to chat with the cheating man, talk about love, and have some physical contact.
The original partner didn't expect that the collection of evidence would be so smooth, but after getting the evidence, he didn't know what to do.
The original partner asks Scarlett how to resolve this affair.
Scarlett's advice to this original partner is to consider her options first.
The cheating of the man and the mistress has been confirmed, and the two of them have not been cheating for a long time, and it is the time when the fight is hot.
Even in front of the children, there are some outflows, and there must be feelings, but there is no way for wives to solve extramarital affairs, but do wives really want to solve extramarital affairs and continue to live with cheating men?
This original partner is not a housewife, the original partner's salary is higher than that of the cheating man, the conditions of the mother's family are also very good, and the children of the original partner are obviously very sensible, and they are more inclined to the original partner.
Therefore, as long as there is still the heart of divorce, then divorce stop loss is still the best choice.
This original partner said that he did not plan to divorce for the time being, and he was not willing to divorce like this.
This is a common problem of most of the original partners who have been cheated, and they will always feel that the divorce because of the mistress is their own failure.
But in any case, Scarlett respects the choice of the original partner, so it provides a solution to the extramarital affair.
First of all, we must go and collect evidence, and it is not enough to just have a more ambiguous recording.
When the cheating man didn't notice it and had a hot fight with the mistress, it was easy for the wives to collect more evidence.
Secondly, wives should be prepared for divorce, not for wives to really divorce.
Instead, it directly gives the cheating man an attitude, so that the cheating man clearly knows the bottom-line principle of his wife.
Compared with threatening a cheating man with divorce, it is obviously for him to see that his wives really have plans to divorce, which is more conducive to the wives to solve extramarital affairs, after all, most men will not go to the point of divorce for the sake of the mistress.
In the end, it is a showdown with the cheating man, and to see the attitude of the cheating man, this cheating man directly chose to break up with the junior.
But there will also be some cheating men who will choose to be yang and yin, saying that they will break off with Xiao San, or break off the thread.
At this time, the original partners went to clean up the juniors, on the one hand, to vent their anger, which was conducive to the wives calming down.
On the other hand, it is to kill chickens and make an example of monkeys, just doing nothing, threatening cheating men will not have a deterrent effect.
Let the mistress pay a certain price, and then turn the spearhead to deal with the cheating man, he will be more afraid, and the extramarital affair will be easier to completely solve.
In the end, Scarlett wants to say that many men cheat because they see lust
and Xiao San are considered to look at each other, they are not moral people, and in the name of love, the two of them began to develop extramarital affairs behind their wives' backs and enjoy the pleasure of betraying morality.
But in fact, the feelings between these two people are less pitiful and more fresh and exciting.
It's not difficult to solve this kind of mistress, but the hard thing is for wives to let cheating men see your attitude clearly.
Make the cheating man dare not cheat again at one time, and completely solve the extramarital affair.
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I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.