A cheating man is a selfish and greedy existence.
When they get married, they only consider the conditions of their wives and do not consider the so-called feelings.
Choose a woman who is good for you, but not so much in love.
But after getting married, I began to dislike this wife for not being able to give me a feeling of love.
Then turn his head to find a junior who gives him a feeling of love, and gives the junior all kinds of promises.
Let the junior know three and do three for the sake of love, in order to be able to achieve positive results with the cheating man in the future.
But in reality, cheating men are actually just greedy and want everything.
It's just selfish, he doesn't want to lose anything, and as for the original partner and the junior, he won't take care of it.
Scarlett had previously come into contact with a third party who came to me for help.
The reason why this mistress asked for help was that she felt that the cheating man had this affection for her.
Because the cheating man said that he would marry his wife, it was because the conditions were comparable, and the family was in a hurry.
But the wife is very dull and boring, married for more than a year, and after becoming pregnant, she feels that she has completed the task of starting a family and having children.
I can't raise any interest in my wife, and when I meet Xiaosan, I feel that I have met true love, so I pester Xiaosan, all kinds of money offensives, and spend time and effort coaxing Xiaosan.
This mistress has never been married, and he still has a boyfriend when he meets a cheating man, but the conditions of a boyfriend are much worse than those of a cheating man.
Xiao San said that she has feelings for cheating men, but she also takes a fancy to the good conditions of cheating men.
has been having an affair with a cheating man for more than two years, and she thought she would be able to succeed in taking the position.
The relationship between the two is also very good, and they were discovered by their wives later, and the cheating man has always been very protective of the mistress.
The cheating man bought a house and a car for the mistress, and introduced a good job, and the mistress was also very satisfied.
But the cheating man refused to divorce for a long time, she was pregnant and the cheating man didn't want a child yet.
So Xiao San began to have some worries, feeling that the cheating man deceived her, and the cheating man had no intention of divorcing and marrying Xiao San.
She came to Scarlett to analyze what the psychology of cheating men is.
This kind of cheating man is actually very common
Many cheating men are married to women with good conditions
They don't care if they love this woman or not, as long as they don't hate it.
But the wife's condition must be good enough to bring him some help, or at least not to hold him back.
When choosing a wife, look at her family conditions, academic qualifications, work, and ability to take care of the family.
But do they love such wives?In fact, I didn't love it, but chose the right marriage partner who was the most beneficial to me.
When I got married, I was very eager to choose the best marriage partner for myself, ignoring the question of love or not.
When I got married and lived with my wife, I found that I couldn't stand a loveless marriage.
But he is unwilling to give up this marriage, because the wife's conditions are good, because the marriage has interests.
So men will choose, in order to meet their own needs, and cheat, to find a mistress they love.
But the extent to which a cheating man can do it for the mistress,
It is to give the mistress some benefits outside of marriage, and the one who buys a house and a car raises the mistress.
But I don't want to give the junior more such as marriage, such as a child.
Because the cheating man has actually been controlling a degree.
It's the wives who found out, although they will make trouble, but for the sake of their children, or for the sake of face, they won't really divorce.
The cheating man is good to the mistress, and if he buys a house and a car for the mistress, the wife's conditions may not be investigated.
But if the cheating man and the mistress have an illegitimate child, then maybe the wife will choose to divorce.
It's true that a cheating man loves a mistress, but he is not a love brain, and he doesn't put love first.
Otherwise, the cheating man would not have chosen to find a wife with good conditions to marry, instead of finding a wife he liked.
However, many cheating men actually have misunderstandings about the mistress.
They are always overconfident that Xiao San loves them, as long as he gives Xiao San enough love, let Xiao San feel that he also loves Xiao San.
Then the mistress will always follow the cheating man and never give up.
But the reality is that the mistress who can get together with a cheating man is actually similar in essence to a cheating man.
Xiao San has a need for love, but Xiao San also attaches more importance to interests, so the cheating man is reluctant to divorce and marry Xiao San, Xiao San has no long-term interests, she will not let things develop like this.
The junior will try his best to get on top, even if it affects the interests of the cheating man.
At this time, the cheating man and the mistress will have a conflict of interest, and it is also the best time for wives to solve their extramarital affairs
Because only when two people have a conflict of interest, the cheating man will find out that the mistress's love for him has no meaning, and the mistress pays more attention to interests in his eyes, and the cheating man will have to pay a certain price if he wants to get out.
The cheating man didn't get the love he wanted, and he was still subject to the mistress, so he naturally just wanted to get out.
Men are the smartest
Sleep and find no money, fall in love and find beauty, and get married and find a thrifty housekeeper
Xiao San thought that the cheating man was in love with her, and the alliance was true love?
In fact, the cheating man is young, beautiful, and doesn't need money.
Wives think that cheating men refuse to divorce and coax their wives, but they still have feelings?
The reality is that cheating men don't want to lose a nanny who is diligent and thrifty, and is soft-hearted and easy to deceive.
Actually, they are more realistic than women.
When dealing with extramarital affairs, the original partner needs to understand a truth, you can never wake up a person who is pretending to be asleep, but you can wake him up!
The more painful it is, the more it can sober up a man who is addicted to extramarital affairs.
You want to get the cheating man to turn back and give up a mistress who they do have true feelings for.
It is necessary to directly make the cheating man pay some price and make the cheating man feel painful.
When a cheating man discovers the existence of an extramarital affair, only by making him miserable will he truly end the affair.
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I'm Sijia Yin, your exclusive emotional mentor, sharing emotional cases and helping you answer your questions.