Children are always the most inseparable existence for parents.
The hard work and willingness to pay is to hope that the child can have a happier and better life when he grows up in the future.
Then the choice of marriage also becomes crucial.
After all, the quality of marriage also determines the happiness of the second half of life.
As a parent, I have traveled so much and experienced so many things, and I have more experience than my children.
When the child chooses the other half to be together and combine with each other as a common family, then among them, it will naturally be
Go through the stage of seeing each other.
When we meet with our future in-laws, in order to leave a better impression on each other, there are many things that we must know how to observe.
Because it helps to build a positive relationship and avoid embarrassment and conflict.
When the prospective in-laws meet for the first time, they must not talk about it, otherwise it will be very cheap!
01.Regardless of status
Not to talk about each other's status, it is to show respect for each other
and an important embodiment of politeness.
Regardless of the social status of both parties, we should treat each other as equals, rather than overemphasizing
one's own or the other's status.
So as not to give the impression that they like to show off, or that their inferiority complex is insignificant.
In the process of communication, we should focus on each other's common topics, such as some interests, hobbies, personalities, etc., rather than unnecessarily highlighting the level of social status.
02.Don't talk about the shortcomings of each other's children
Not talking about the shortcomings of the other party's children is also to maintain the parent-child relationship
It is important to be in harmony with the family.
Every child is the pride of the family and the heart of their parents.
If you emphasize too much, the shortcomings of the other child's will often bring negative emotions to people, and may even lead to disputes.
Avoid discussing the other child's problems, but discuss them more
The strengths and achievements of the children create a more positive and enjoyable atmosphere.
03.Don't talk about the ugliness of the family
Don't talk about the ugliness of the family.
It is the key to ensure a harmonious atmosphere when meeting.
Family is everyone's shelter and the place that worries them the most.
But in the course of life, it is impossible for everything to be smooth sailing.
And naturally in the family, too
Something bad happens.
But as the saying goes: family ugliness should not be publicized.
Especially for the in-laws who meet for the first time, we should avoid discussing these
Touching on the conflicts and troubles within the family, but focusing on common friendly topics to promote a more harmonious and friendly relationship.
The interaction between people must be based on mutual respect
On the basis of mutual tolerance and understanding.
Especially for the correspondence between in-laws, we should also know how to treat it carefully.
For the happiness of the children and the harmony of the families of both parties, we must know how to maintain a good relationship between relatives and families.
Children can be sweet and happy, and in-laws can be harmonious and friendly, this is the scene that parents want to see the most!