There is an important criterion for people to be human, that is, because they know Entu.
As the saying goes: Invest in the peach, repay the plum".
That is to say, there should be courtesy between people;
That is to say, to be born as a human being, you must learn to remember people's kindness.
In fact, others are not obligated to help you in times of crisis, to help you when you are at a low point, to comfort you when you are sad, and to lend you money when you are short of money.
Therefore, in our interpersonal communication, we treat our benefactors, do not use simple meals and gifts to repay, but learn the following three ways to repay!
01.The strong help each other and enhance relationships.
As the saying goes: life is like a cycle, and kindness is an echo.
Don't just think about your own self-interest, don't just care about your own feelings.
Along the way, help each other, be grateful to each other, and always have kindness, in order to endlessly, to feel warm, to achieve a win-win situation, in order to create brilliance.
Just like people are divided into three, six, nine and so on, inferior people, people step on people, and hurt others with evil words;
Medium-class, crowded, calculating others by means;
Superior people, people help others, and help others with kindness.
Just like people with a low realm like to get along and tear down the stage, causing their road to get narrower and narrower, while people with a high realm like to get along and help each other, so that their road is getting wider and wider.
02.The wise man continues, passing on good deeds.
As the saying goes: give people roses, and there is a lingering fragrance in your hands.
Today, when I am favored, my benefactor may not need my help, and it will be difficult for him to find an opportunity to repay the favor.
But we can also be a bridge, a bond that transmits goodwill.
Famous actor Andy Lau said:
What you learn must be taught, and what you earn must be given to others.
He said this, and he has done this for so many years, becoming a bridge and encouraging many young and promising future generations.
Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans, accept the kindness of others today, continue this kindness to others tomorrow, and continue to pass it on to others, then this time will be much more beautiful.
Becoming a bridge that continues goodwill is also a good reward for the benefactor.
03.The wise man remembers his grace and sends charcoal in the snow.
As the saying goes: the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring.
Although it is not necessary, you have to empty your family in order to repay your kindness, and you have to use up your wealth in order to repay your affection.
But at the very least, after receiving favors, you should always have a grateful heart and do not take the help of others for granted.
And people will encounter difficulties, you have become a white-eyed wolf character today, and no one will be willing to help you next time you encounter difficulties.
The great man said: A gentleman does not take favors lightly, but he will never forget them."
The great man said so, and he persisted in this way throughout his life, and led more people to learn and Xi.
Born as a human being, he does not forget when he is favored, and he is not stingy when he gives people in return.
He has the ability to repay in time, and his benefactor is a good person when he encounters hardships and sends charcoal in time.
The strong help each other to enhance the relationship, so that the road is wider and wider;
The wise man continues to pass on good deeds and make the flowers bloom more;
The wise man remembers the grace and sends charcoal in the snow, so that the friendship lasts longer.
The tree is thousands of feet high and does not forget the roots, if the person is brilliant, do not be ungrateful, and always be a person who knows how to repay the gratitude!