Yu Hua wrote in "Alive":
Life is something that belongs to each person's own feelings, not to anyone else's opinion.
You have to understand that if a person can live strongly, it is a very powerful thing and a special meaningful thing.
The ups and downs and tribulations that Fugui has experienced just want to tell us a truth, that is, the essence of life is life itself.
At any time, don't waste your life because of external affairs.
Blessings and misfortunes depend on each other
There is no absolute winner or loser in life
Fugui in "Alive", his life has been full of ups and downs, and good and bad things have happened alternately.
Just like the life of each of us, although it is not so miserable, it is also a blessing and a curse.
So tell yourself that there is no absolute win or loss in the world, and if you lose your horse, you will not know if you are blessed.
Sometimes when you encounter a hurdle, it paves the way for your own success.
If you are obsessed with the loss of the moment, or are too obsessed with success, it is easy to give up what you should not give up, insist on what you should not insist on, and miss the endless beautiful moments in life.
Life in the world, blessings and misfortunes depend on each other, there is no absolute win or loss in life, I want to open a little, look down on a little!
Life and death,
It's something out of our control
Fugui's grandson was sick, and Fugui was distressed, so he cooked a lot of fresh beans and gave them to the bitter root to eat.
Who knows, a pot of ordinary beans killed the bitter root.
Therefore, the separation of life and death in this world is something that none of us can control, and it is the normal state in the world.
In addition to life and death, we will also encounter many things in life that we are powerless and helpless.
If you keep thinking about it, the harder it will be to live happily.
Regardless of the outcome, the most important thing is to be kind to yourself in the moment and live every day well.
After all, what will happen in the future, who knows?
Live, gain and lose obey;
Live, go with the flow;
Live and enjoy the moment;
To be alive is to be complete.
To be alive is the result or the process important.
I think it's the process that matters, because whether you're rich or poor, the result is actually "dust to dust, dust to dust".
Living is a kind of life experience, the so-called gains and losses, the so-called success or failure, just to increase the freshness of life, everything will eventually disappear.
Therefore, we only need to live with a clear conscience and be open.
Living with the flow and living calmly is the best arrangement!