There is a Songjiazhuang in Zhumi County, Weichuan City, Ludong Province. There is a well-known person named Song Li in Songjiazhuang, who went to a secondary school and worked in the town land office, although he studied accounting, but he liked to study the Four Books and Five Classics.
Song Li is not only handsome, but also very good at talking, and his eyes smile when he speaks. However, this Song Li is a bit like a poor scholar in the old society, and when he speaks, he should often pop out the words "zhi, hu, who, also". Eaten?Drink water?What's even funnier is that once when he went to the toilet, he said that he was ...... to peealso made a lot of jokes, so someone in the village gave him a nickname behind his back: "Song Huzhi".
It is said that on this day, there was a professor of ancient literature at a well-known university, Kong Li, who returned to his hometown. When Song Li heard about it, he paid a visit with a gift and asked Professor Kong to teach him the classic Chinese Confucian passage "The Book of Rites". Professor Kong was very happy to see Song Li coming to apprentice, so he readily agreed to Song Li.
Since then, Song Li has become famous in the town, saying that he has received the true inheritance of Professor Kong, and that he is the person who knows the most etiquette and Xi in the whole town. And he often said on the street after drinking too much, "If you are polite, you will also be polite." ”
When people marry daughters-in-law, Song Li sends red dates, peanuts, longan, and chestnuts;
The wife gave birth to a child, and Song Li sent crucian carp and pig's trotters;
The old lady celebrates her birthday, and Song Li sends noodles and hens;
People's father built a house, and Song Li was busy before and after, and asked someone to calculate the auspicious day of the royal road to start the construction of the beam;
The family moved to a new house, and Song Li sent carp and tofu ......
Those happy events, funerals, big events, small things, dog things, and fart things in Sili and Eight Villages, Song Li enthusiastically went to help. And the things that are given are all courtesy and learning. The people around him are convinced, oral, and take out admiration for him.
Speaking of which, in the Year of the Lunar New Year, it was finally the turn of others to give gifts to Song Li. Song Li's son was admitted to a well-known university in the provincial capital, and he wanted to invite the villagers to a banquet. As soon as everyone heard that Song Li held a banquet for his son's advancement to school, it spread ten, ten and hundred, and it became big news in Sili and Eight Villages. All those who have received gifts from Song Li and received help from Song Li have come. The banquet ran more than 80 tables at once.
After the banquet was dismissed, the tired Song Li and his family opened the account book, it didn't matter, they spent 25,000 and received 195,000 gifts. Song Li's daughter-in-law blossomed.
Song Li crossed his legs, sat on the head of the bed, and said to his wife: "I, Song Li, have realized a truth: if you do a good deed every day, you will have a blessing in the future." I gave gifts at the beginning, not to receive gifts, but to think that the neighbors had something to do, and it was also a gift to help people. Just thinking about giving small gifts, receiving big gifts, and giving gifts is to receive gifts, and it is not okay to be careful. Favor is greater than debt, this is the secret of my Song's "Book of Rites"!”
This Song Rite is really a gift.
[Analysis].
There is an old saying: distant relatives are not as good as the door. In a traditional rural society, when a family in the village has a problem, the neighbors come to help. Those who have money pay for it, and those who don't have money pay for it. This kind of unity and harmony is the core point of the "family culture" with blood and family as the core of traditional Chinese culture for thousands of years.
Courtesy is light and affectionate. There is also knowledge in gift-giving, and he will definitely give the right gift and send the gift to people's hearts. Giving a souvenir often is also a good way to strengthen the emotional bond. Between friends and neighbors, the more contact and more movement, the better you will understand.
Do more good deeds in your daily life, and good fortune will come naturally.
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