Title She Lets Go of Family Restraints and Rediscovers Herself
The family is a pot of fine wine, and the woman is the essence of brewing.
My name is Wang Xuemei, I am married to a man surnamed Chen, and we have a lovely daughter named Xiaoqian.
When I got married, I was full of longing and happiness, believing that this family would be my lifelong harbor.
However, my married life gradually made me lose myself.
Mr. Chan is not a reasonable person, he always likes to scold me loudly, and treats me as a kitchen servant, without warmth and respect.
I worked hard and took care of my family and daughter, only to be met with his indifference and neglect.
Women should never lose themselves for the sake of their families, this sentence keeps echoing in my heart.
I began to doubt myself, lose myself, and suppress myself.
Until one day, I realized that I couldn't go on like this.
As a result, I ended up filing for divorce.
Xuemei, are you crazy?This family is all for you to have today, aren't you grateful at all?Mr. Chen asked loudly.
I don't want a home like today. ”
My voice was calm and firm, "I want respect and happiness, not being scolded and indifferent by you." ”
You!"Mr. Chen is furious, I haven't seen him so angry in a long time.
Xiaoqian, look at your mother, she's going to abandon us!How can you treat us like this?He turned to his daughter.
Dad, Mom must have her hardships, and we must respect her choice. ”
You ......Mr. Chen looked at our mother and daughter with a face full of disappointment and indignation.
I decided. ”
I took a deep breath, "I'll leave with Xiaoqian, no longer bound by you." ”
I turned away from the home that had once made me feel warm.
The sun shines on me through the treetops, and I know that this is my sunshine, the freedom I have regained.
Mom, if you hold on, we will definitely live a happy life. ”
Xiao Qian held my hand, her eyes full of determination.
I held my daughter's hand tightly, and I knew that the road would be difficult, but I also believed that under this sky of our own, we would be happy and free.
After leaving the Chen family, I took Xiaoqian to start a new life.
Financial constraints forced me to give up my old job and I had to start looking for a job again.
After I sent Xiaoqian to school, I started looking around for a job.
I interviewed several companies, but all of them were unsuccessful.
I felt lost and depressed, and my heart was filled with helplessness and anxiety.
Mom, don't worry, everything will be fine. ”
Xiao Qian looked at me and said, her eyes showing maturity and determination.
Thank you, baby, that you are strong for me. ”
I hugged Xiaoqian tightly and felt the strength she brought to me.
Finally, I found a job as a waiter at a coffee shop that didn't pay too much.
It's hard work, but I'm able to support myself, which makes me feel extremely satisfied and gratified.
Xiaoqian also performed well in school, and the changes in her family did not make her lose her enthusiasm and yearning for life.
However, new contradictions have also arisen.
I received a divorce petition from Mr. Chen.
In his complaint, he stated that I had abandoned my family, that I was not responsible for it, and that he was seeking custody.
I felt angry and helpless, I didn't abandon my family, but because of his attitude and behavior, I had to leave, and Xiaoqian couldn't follow him.
I decided I wanted to meet him in court.
It's so irresponsible for you to do this!"I stood in the courtroom, looked at Mr. Chen and said coldly.
You left by yourself, how can your irresponsible behavior give Xiaoqian a good growth environment?"Mr. Chen's attitude is arrogant and cold.
You haven't given us a good environment to grow up in at all, your scolding and indifference, your irritability and unreasonableness, this is the harm to the family. ”
I replied without flinching.
The court trial took a long time, and during this time, Xiaoqian's life and I became more difficult.
Mr. Chen's prosecution made me feel bitter and I began to feel uncertain and fearful about the future.
I knew that the divorce lawsuit would be an uphill battle, and I had to persevere for myself and Xiaoqian.
Mom, no matter what, I will always be there for you. ”
Xiao Qian held my hand with a firm look in her eyes.
Thank you, dear, and we will stay the course. ”
I smiled, my eyes full of determination and determination.
This is a court dispute caused by family issues, I don't know what the next outcome will be, but I only know that I will always protect my original intention and work hard for the future of myself and Xiaoqian.
The moment I left the Chen family, I felt a lot more relaxed.
No longer being blamed and hurt by Mr. Chen, I can finally live my life on my own terms.
Xiaoqian has become my strong backing, and she has always supported me.
Mom, have you really decided?Xiao Qian looked at me worriedly.
Well, baby, Mommy wants to see you live better and no longer be hurt. ”
I stroked her hair and smiled comfortingly.
We found a small apartment, which was shabby but we had a great time.
I found a job and accompanied Xiaoqian every day to learn Xi, eat, and witness her growth.
I think this is the life I've always dreamed of, simple but full of happiness.
However, life is not all smooth sailing.
One day, I received a ** from Xiaoqian's school teacher, telling me that Xiaoqian's grades had declined.
I hurriedly found Xiaoqian and asked what was going on.
Mom, I'm sorry. ”
Xiao Qian lowered her head and said apologetically.
Baby, what's wrong with you?Is there something you're hiding from me?I asked anxiously.
Mom ......Xiaoqian suddenly hugged me, tears rolling in her eyes, "Don't worry, it's all my fault." ”
Tell me, what the hell is going on?I shook her hand, and my heart welled up with endless worry.
Xiao Qian said slowly, "Actually, ......."There was a boy who kept pestering me, and I didn't tell you because I was afraid that you would worry, but he asked me to meet him, and I had to go.
As a result, my Xi was delayed in my studies, my grades declined, and I am sorry for my mother's ......Hearing Xiao Qian's words, a surge of anger welled up in my heart, "Do you know how dangerous this is?"Why didn't you tell me?"I'm sorry, Mom......Xiaoqian sobbed, and I looked at her, my heart full of guilt and anxiety.
I realized that Xiaoqian was becoming more and more silent, and the reason for the decline in her grades was not because she was lazy, but because of her inner confusion.
I sat down, held her hand, and said gently, "Xiaoqian, mom knows that you feel sad, but the divorce is not because of you.
No matter what happens, I will be there for you.
You also know that Dad has a bad temper, and we can't allow ourselves to be in pain for a long time.
We need to be stronger and face the changes in our families together. ”
Xiao Qian's eyes were red, she held my hand tightly and nodded.
I know it's also a relief for her.
It will take time for the mother and daughter duo to adjust to their new lives, especially psychologically.
Here's the lesson I learned from divorce: don't lose yourself for the sake of your family, but also don't ignore the emotional needs of family members.
Soon after, Xiaoqian began to keep in touch with her father more and more frequently.
Every time I see her eyes hanging up, my heart is full of torment.
I'm starting to wonder if divorce is the best option, maybe we can start over and reunite as a family of three.
At the same time, I also realized that my overprotection of Xiaoqian may have made her feel depressed, and she also needs to face her father and feel her father's love.
It's a complex emotional entanglement that I can't let go of.
Smelling the fresh air, Xiaoqian and I started a new life.
I never imagined that I would break up this family that I had dreamed of.
But I know that this is for our happiness and for Xiaoqian to grow up in a healthy and harmonious environment.
We rented a small house and started a new life.
I work hard and try my best to give Xiaoqian a warm and healthy environment to grow up.
Xiaoqian is also very strong, she is not depressed by family changes, on the contrary, she works harder to learn Xi, showing extraordinary courage and tenacity.
However, happiness does not come to our lives.
Mr. Chen began to put pressure on Xiao Qian, and he kept looking for Xiao Qian, telling her that the divorce was a wrong decision on my part, hoping that Xiao Qian would convince me to return to him.
Xiaoqian has been silent, but I clearly know that she is full of contradictions in her heart.
Mom, dad is still important to us.
Xiao Qian whispered to me, her hand holding the tablecloth trembling.
Xiaoqian, I know that Dad has an influence on you, but all we can do is face it.
You also know things between mom and dad. "I tried to enlighten her, but I was also full of anxiety.
But ......"Xiao Qian's eyes showed helplessness, and my heart sank.
In this decision, I felt a lot of pain in my heart.
I know that no matter what, I don't want Xiaoqian to return to that environment full of indifference and disrespect.
At the same time, I also understand Mr. Chen, as Xiaoqian's father, who cares about and misses his daughter.
I am afraid that there is still a long way to go before we can find a real solution to the contradictions between us.
I sat down with her, listened to her thoughts, and shared with her my hopes for the future.
We decided to develop the qualities of strength and courage in the face of conflicts and challenges in our families.
Although I know that family problems cannot be solved overnight, we have always believed that if we work together, we will be able to get through this difficult situation.
The future is unknown and hopeful.
Xiaoqian and I held hands firmly, determined to face all the challenges of the family bravely.
We will continue to move forward.
Xiaoqian and I rented a small apartment and started a new life.
However, what I didn't expect was that Mr. Chen's attitude towards us did not soften.
He frequently called me, with an arrogant attitude, unreasonable, and even stalking.
He said I was just putting myself in chains, and I couldn't live without him.
This pressure made me feel overwhelmed and I started to become exhausted and unable to put into words my exhaustion.
Xiaoqian saw it in her eyes and has been silently supporting me, but I can feel the anxiety and uneasiness in her heart.
I realized that the shadow of leaving Mr. Chen's family has not disappeared, but is slowly eroding us.
I'm starting to wonder if divorce can really lead us to a happy life.
One day, Xiaoqian suddenly became depressed, and she said to me, "Mom, I miss my dad so much."
Even though he was strict, I loved him and I thought he would play with me and help me with my homework. ”
Faced with my daughter's thoughts and expectations, I felt that I could not take on the responsibilities of this family, like standing on the edge of a cliff, and I could fall into the abyss at any time.
The shadow of my family looms over me again, what should I do?