"Even though India was the country I grew up in, after living in China, I really couldn't adjust to life in India anymore. ”
An Indian girl who has been married to China for 6 years is so emotional when she looks at the traffic congestion on the streets of India.
This Indian girl finally went back to her mother's house in India, what is India in her eyes?
This Indian girl, Dina, married to China six years ago, and it was not until this year that she had time to return to her Indian maiden home with her husband.
Dina has been living in China for the past 6 years, and although she is comfortable and happy in China, she has also lived in India for more than 20 years, and it is impossible to say that she does not miss it.
After China completely liberalized the epidemic policy, Dina had already moved the idea of going back to India to see her family.
She said to her husband Jin Sheng several times"I miss India, and even though I used to have all my worries when I lived in India, I still miss the place where I was born after so many years away. ”
Jin Sheng is very good to his Indian wife, and it is not a matter of going to India from China, there are various formalities to go through, and rest time must be coordinated, and the children of the two of them must also be considered.
Originally, I wanted to wait until July and August for summer vacation,You can take your two children to India together, or you can let your children meet their grandparents.
But Dina and Jin Sheng's youngest son is only 2 years old this yearSuch a young child has been on a plane for so long, and he is going to a country with completely different eating habits from ChinaJin Sheng and his parents are not at ease after all.
After a lot of calculations, the family finally decided not to take their two children to India, and waited until the children were older.
Finally, in June, Dina and her husband and wife flew back to India from China alone.
Before returning to India, Dina was very excited, maybe it was near the fragrance and smell, or it could be the distance that produced beauty, I don't know whyThe impression of her own country in her mind was also clouded with a rather beautiful filter.
Dina was born in a high-caste family in India, and her growth environment was relatively good, and her parents were very fond of her, soIn her impression, she feels that her country is still very good, and in some ways even better than China.
As for which aspects, Dina can't say them directly, because many aspects can be said to be insufficient but more than the lower in her opinion.
However, she also often uses her mobile phone to watch some ** and the like about the comparison between China and India, but after reading it, she feels that many of them are not suitable for reality.
But there is one thing that Dina recognizes, that is, Indian medicine is indeed cheaper than China, and the effect is better.
In the past, Dina even asked her brother who was far away in India to send her some family medicine to China, because she felt that some Indian medicines were indeed better than China's.
After landing in India, Dina looked at the airport that had not changed much, and she was a little homesick, and she always felt as if it was not the same as in her impression, and it seemed to be exactly the same.
Dina's eldest brother personally came to the airport to pick up the couple, and Dina was very excited when she looked at the familiar appearance of her eldest brother.
When she returned home and saw her mother, who had loved her very much since she was a child, Dina couldn't hold back her tears on the spot.
Tears to tears, missing family is one thing, butDina, however, felt that India was a little different from her impression.
Just the journey home from the airport made Dina realizeHer filter for her home country seems to be really a little too thick......
Traffic congestion in India is very high, and the roads are very hygienic, although it is not enough to see cows scurrying on the streets, but you can indeed see large pieces of garbage visible on the roadside.
In addition to the stench of dust and car exhaust in the air, Dina also smelled a strange sour smell when she opened the car window, and when she took a serious look, she saw a pile of garbage ...... not far away
Dina also doesn't quite understand why garbage is piled up on the side of the road and no one is picking it up, which is certainly not seen on China's urban roads anyway.
Dina found that India didn't seem to be as good as she thought it was, and on the contrary, she even thought it was a bad ......
Dina left India for 6 yearsThere is no room for her in the house anymoreAlthough I feel a little sad, it is more convenient to stay in a hotel than at home.
After all, Dina's bathroom was not in the house, and it was separate from the house they lived in.
Unlike China, there is a bathroom at home, and some master bedrooms and the like even have supporting facilities, which is very convenient.
If you live in a hotel, there is a bathroom in the room, which is much more convenient.
In fact, many Indian families are like this, and they will not set up the bathroom in the house they want to live in, thinking that it is cleaner.
Dina used to think so, but after staying in China for a long time, she doesn't think so.
She thinks that the bathroom is not to say that it is not cleaned, anyway, it is not good to clean it, and it is too convenient to have a bathroom in her own home.
In addition, Dina once again ate with her hands for the first time in a long time, sheIn China, it has long been customary to use chopsticks and spoonsAfter all, many hot dishes in China, such as hot pot and the like, can't be done without chopsticks.
Returning to India to eat pilaf made Dina feel a little awkward, but after all, she has been eating pilaf for more than 20 years, and she quickly got used to it again.
As for her husband Jin Sheng, he must follow the local customs, and he will do whatever his wife wants, and he doesn't say whether it is good or not, or whether he is used to it or not.
On the second day back in India, Dina was unexpectedly unaccustomed to the soil, vomiting and diarrhea and low-grade fever, the whole person is in a trance.
However, after seeing a doctor and taking medicine, the situation was quickly relieved, but the food became much lighter, and I didn't dare to eat roadside stalls anymore.
When he was in China, Jin Sheng's parents were very opposed to eating street stalls because they thought it was unclean, but sometimes Dina was greedy.
Roadside pancakes, fried goods, fried noodles, grilled sausages, cold bean curd, pies, wraps, etc., she really likes to eat, so she will eat them secretly.
When she returned to India, she naturally wanted to try the roadside stalls in her hometown, but there was really no harm if there was no comparison.
Most of the roadside stalls in India do look dirty, and some of them don't look good and taste a little weird.
After Dina saw the little brother who set up the stall inadvertently put his fingers into the milk tea she bought, she felt really ...... at the time
After eating the roadside stalls in India, Dina's stomach couldn't stand it directly, resulting in the need to see a doctor to take medication.
Jin Sheng went to his father-in-law's house with tears and laughter, borrowed his father-in-law's kitchen, cooked light porridge for Dina, and fried two side dishes.
After eating the meal prepared by Jin Sheng, Dina quickly came back to life with full blood, butShe is very cautious about Indian foodAfter all, she really doesn't want to run the toilet like crazy......
Dina also went to the cinema with Jin Sheng to watch a movie, the environment of the cinema is very ordinary, although it is not said to be tattered, but there is a strange smell in it.
And then there's the movieWhen Dina was waiting for Jin Sheng outside the bathroom, she was actually accosted by several men
The men made Dina feel disgusted, and their tone, eyes, and attempts to make contact with her made her feel sick to her stomach.
Even though she made it clear that she was married, they were still saying that they wanted to treat her to coffee or something, much to Dina's annoyance and feeling that she was not being respected.
Fortunately, Jin Sheng soon came out to relieve DinaDina didn't wear her favorite dress again, but instead changed back to the traditional sari of India.
Although Dina was happy to see her family back in India, there were also many unhappy things, such as not getting used to eating, such as congested streets, and verbal humiliation when accosted.
When Dina chatted with her two sisters-in-law at home, they were all curious about her life in China, and Dina inadvertently blurted out"To tell you the truth, China is indeed better and more developed than India, that's true. ”
Originally, it was a conversation between aunts and sisters-in-law, but Dina's younger brother Nimi, who happened to be passing by, heard it, and he immediately retorted with a little anger:"Impossible!China will definitely not be more developed than India!”
Dina was startled when she heard Nimi's sudden shout, but before she could speak, her brother was already talking.
Nimi said with disgust on his face"There are Chinese students in our school, I hate them, why do Chinese come to our India to study, it's really annoying!."”
Dina didn't understand why Nimi hated Chinese students, and she didn't really want to know, so she kept silent and let her brother talk there for about 10 minutes.
Nimi was dissatisfied with Dina's lukewarm attitude, pouted, and finally walked away in a boring manner.
Dina continued to chat with her two sisters-in-lawShe didn't want to talk to her brother at all, because she posted China-related ** before, this kid was dissatisfied and slandered, and she didn't bother to tell him.
If you talk too much, this kid will go crazy, turn away from hatred and curse her, and Dina sometimes wonders if there is something wrong with him.
Of course, she only dared to tell her husband Jin Sheng about this idea, and did not say it in front of her Indian family.
After allNimi is the "top student" in the family, and he was admitted to the best university in India, and the whole family held him.
Nimi has been very good at studying since he was a child, so he looks down on Dina, who has poor academic performance. In addition, Dina is the only daughter of her parents and is quite favored, which also makes Nimi very dissatisfied.
In Nimi's opinion, he is the youngest and the best in the family, and he deserves the best of everything, and Dina always looked better than him, which made him unhappy.
Nimi didn't get a response from Dina, so he found the only real Chinese in the family at present, brother-in-law Jin Sheng.
Jin Sheng also has a general understanding of Nimi's character, so he thinks that he is a stunned boy who doesn't know the sky and the earth, and he doesn't take it seriously, and continues to watch**.
But Nimi made up his mind to "come out on top" in Jinsheng, and he had to get this Chinese to personally admit that India was better than China.
Nimi glanced at Jin Sheng, who was playing with his mobile phone and seemed to be looking at some file, and said"Brother-in-law, I heard that there are no poor people in China, is it true?”
Jin Sheng raised his head, looked at Nimi inexplicably, and said:"How is that possible?There are also many poor people in China, and there will be poor people in any country. ”
When Nimi heard this, he said: "I see that many Indian ** bloggers say that China is very developed, very powerful, and the world's firstThere are even some bloggers who exaggerate that there may not be poor people in China
Do you think these ** are reliable?Is there really no poor people in China?If there are no poor, then who will serve the rich?Are they all rich people?”
Nemi asked a lot of questions at once, and Jin Sheng didn't understand what Nemi wanted to do, but he answered according to his own thoughts:"I guess it's also some bloggers who are grandstanding, China is relatively quite developed and powerful, but it's not so exaggerated. ”
It's not reliable, I don't know, I haven't seen it, butThere are definitely poor people in China, and there are quite a few poor peopleIt can't all be rich. ”
Nimi laughed and said, "Sure enough, I know that there must be a lot of poor people in China, but many Chinese are unwilling to admit that they are poor." ”
"Unlike in India, where the poor and the rich or the average are actually quite different, Indians are indeed much more honest than the Chinese. ”
Listening to Nimi's words, Jin Sheng felt very funny, and understood what Nimi wanted to do, didn't he want to elevate India by belittling China.
Jin Sheng has no intention of competing with Nimi about which is better or worse, anyway, no matter what he says, Nimi has already decided that China is inferior to India, and it is useless to say more.
So Jin Sheng directly satisfied Nimi and said:"Yes, you India is very powerful, more powerful than China, better than any country in the world, are you satisfied with what I say?”
Jin Sheng's perfunctory attitude made Nimi a little angry, but Jin Sheng said so, and he didn't know how to refute ...... at all
In Jinsheng, Nimi, who had eaten deflated, was depressed for a long time, and he ate a lot less food, and his mother thought he was uncomfortable and was extremely nervous.
Dina and Jin Sheng stayed in India for about half a month, and after a tour of Dina's city, the two went to see some well-known attractions in India and checked in some relatively famous restaurants.
The two of them were quite happy on this trip, if it weren't for the provocation of Nimi, the kid every once in a while.
Dina and Jin Sheng don't care much about Nimi, and they often ignore his deliberate provocations to the end.
Until the day before she was about to leave India and return to China, Dina made a decision: to invite her brother to China to have a visit.
Dina approached Nimi and said:"You always think that India is far better than China, but in fact you have never left India, let alone China.
"Do you want to see China with your own eyes and see if China is really inferior to India everywhere?”
Nimi, who was playing with his mobile phone, didn't raise his head and said expressionlessly, ".Do you want me to go to China?I don't really want to goIf you're going to pay me to travel abroad, I'd love to go to Europe, China. ”
Dina didn't want to say anything at this time, so she said goodbye to her family with her husband the next day, and flew back to China with a large bag of special products.
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