"I married a Chinese wife, she used to be very beautiful, very white, with a good figure, gentle and considerate, but after 9 years, I think she has changed a lot. ”
An Indian man who had entered middle age and had already grown in size sighed and sighed with resentment towards his brother.
What happened between this Indian man and his Chinese wife?Why is he so sad when he mentions his wife?
Indian man named Nupaan, 9 years ago,Nupaan, 36, married a Chinese girl, which was his second wife, who died unexpectedly.
Nupaan's Chinese wife, surnamed Liu, was 22 years old when she married him, it is the age of youth, beauty and liveliness.
At that time, Nupaan really liked Xiao Liu very much, in addition to Xiao Liu's young and beautiful, the most important thing was that he was a little spicy, which made him feel very fresh.
In addition,Xiao Liu also likes Indian culture very much and has a very good impression of India, After learning that Nupaan was single and a high-caste family was very rich, Xiao Liu looked at Nupaan differently.
The relationship between the two came quickly, heated up quickly, quickly got to know each other further, and then got married decisively.
Xiao Liu came to live in India for Nupaan, she adapted quickly, and she said that it was not fake that she liked IndiaFor everything in India, this Chinese girl seems to be adapting well.
Nupaan is also very fond of this wife who is more than ten years younger, very indulgent to her, gave her great freedom.
In the case of a servant following,He allowed her to go out, but you must go home by 5 p.m., and you must not have too much contact with the men outside.
Xiao Liu was also full of joy about this, saying that it was no problem at all, and at the same time said that Nupaan was really a good man.
Nupaan and Xiao Liu get along very harmoniouslyAfter all, Xiao Liu is still young, very lively, and likes to occasionally play with small surprises between husband and wife, in short, the two get along very happily.
For such a young and beautiful wife by his side,Nupaan also has a bit of a show-off component, always taking her with him.
After all, Xiao Liu ** is very white, beautiful, in good shape, English communication is no problem at all, and he speaks softly, and he is a Chinese.
Taking Xiao Liu with him made Nupaan feel very face-saving, an old man who is close to 40 years old, can also marry a foreign woman in her early 20s as a second wife, which is not simple.
Xiao Liu is deeply favored by Nupaan, and he is not merciless when he spends money, often go to various luxury stores, buy what you like, and don't think about it at all.
At the same time,Xiao Liu is also trying her best to please her husband's 3 sonsNupaan's eldest son is 18 years old, and the youngest is 12 years old, and he is not an ignorant child.
These 3 children don't have a good impression of Xiao Liu, and they don't embarrass her, but they always look like they love to ignore her, which sometimes makes Xiao Liu very angry.
But Xiao Liu also knows very well that she must be as good as possible to these 3 boys, otherwise she will be condemned, which will not benefit her at all.
Xiao Liu is not the kind of person with two faces in front of him and behind him, no matter when, where, whereI'm afraid that no matter how much she doesn't like her husband's 3 "drag oil bottles", she is very good to them, and she looks like a good mother.
This also made Nupaan very satisfied, and he often lamented that he had married a good woman, let himself have a good wife, and at the same time let his three sons have a good mother.
It is no exaggeration to sayXiao Liu can be said to have successfully integrated into Nupaan's family, as well as Indian society, without much effort.
She was hardly distinguishable from most Indians except for her appearance, and she was even married to Nupaan and began learning their Hindi.
This greatly touched Nupaan, after all, he could not speak Chinese, and he knew that it was not easy to learn an unfamiliar foreign language from scratch, but he did not expect that Xiao Liu was willing to learn Hindi for him.
Xiao Liu's continuous "hard work" has won the love of Nupa's safety and body, but Xiao Liu also has his own plans.
Nupaan himself has 3 sons, so he has a very indifferent view of whether Xiao Liu wants to have children, butXiao Liu insisted on giving birth to a daughter for Nupaan, saying that it was her duty as a wife.
Although Xiao Liu is young and beautiful, his health is not very good, and his menstrual period is also very unstable, especially after arriving in India, his diet is not very good.
Although Xiao Liu has been trying to adapt to everything in India, even if she says that food is delicious and she likes it, her esophagus and stomach do not accept it and often resist.
This also caused Xiao Liu to not eat much, so after living in India for 1 year, she visibly lost a lot of weight and her body shriveled a lot, which also made it more difficult for her to conceive a child.
Xiao Liu really wants to have children, and in her opinion, children are the capital for her to really take root in India, even though Nupaan already has 3 children, but none of those children were born to her!
Finally, in the second year of Xiao Liu's marriage to India, she successfully became pregnant, which made Xiao Liu very happy, but this happiness did not last long, becauseWhile pregnant with the child, she also saw a bloated self in the mirror
Xiao Liu sensitively found that Nupaan no longer took her out to banquets, let alone take her to meet customers or friends.
This made Xiao Liu feel very sad and very uneasy at the same timeI am afraid that during my pregnancy, my husband will have a young, beautiful and well-figured woman by his side.
In addition to that,Xiao Liu is also very worried that he will give birth to a daughter, to say that she is patriarchal, she also admits it, because no matter how much she ignores it, there is no way to change the fact that the status of women in India is really bad.
Xiao Liu carefully checks her husband's clothes every day to see if there will be any women's hair or lipstick, and the first time her husband comes home, he smells whether there is a mess of perfume on his body.
Xiao Liu did these moves very carefully, becauseShe didn't want her husband to feel like she was trying to control him.
After a long pregnancy, Xiao Liu finally gave birth to a child, but unfortunately it backfired and was a daughter.
In fact, in India, it is not difficult to know the gender of the child before the child is born, but Xiao Liu just doesn't want to know, and confesses to the doctor early not to inform her of the child's gender in advance.
Although Xiao Liu was disappointed after the birth of her daughter, she slowly grew up as her daughter grewShe found her daughter to be really cute!Nupaan is especially fond of his cute and delicate little daughter.
This reassured Xiao Liu, after all, this is Nupaan's first daughter, and she looks so cute, Nupaan has no dissatisfaction with her giving birth to a daughter.
StillThere is something more important for Xiao Liu, that is, to make his figure recover quickly, so she started practicing yoga and would find time to go to the gym every day.
Under the guidance of a professional coach, Xiao Liu's figure has slowly recovered, and probably because she gave birth to a daughter, and some people praise her for having a different charm, which makes her very satisfied.
WhileAs she regained her figure, Nupaan continued to take her out as well, which made Xiao Liu very happy in his heart, thinking that this was the result of his own efforts.
In the next 7 years, Xiao Liu gave birth to 3 sons in succession, and her life seems to have been going back and forth between giving birth to children and regaining her figure.
Nupaan, who is in his 40s, is still a little helpless about the increasing number of children in his family, he doesn't want so many children, so he directly told Xiao Liu:"I don't want to have any more children, now there are seven in the family, which is enough. ”
Xiao Liu has no objection to this, anyway, she has 3 sons and 1 daughter, which is indeed enough, and it is not good for her body to keep having children, she is in her 30s, and she still needs to take more maintenance.
Nupaan and Xiao Liu reached a consensus, neither of them wanted to have children anymore, but,Nupaan noticed that his wife seemed to be a little disgusted with him.
Although Xiao Liu has been giving birth, she pays great attention to maintenance and fitness, soEven though she is already a mother of 4 children, she still has a proud figure and a beautiful face.
Of course, she is only in her early 30s, and she is still very young.
But Nupaan is 45 years old, and the company has changed many times in recent years, he is stressed, drinks a lot, eats modestly, and has no time to go to the gym, soVisibly fat, old, and bald.
Although Nupaan was in his 30s 9 years ago, he still maintained a good figure and had the charm of a mature man, and it is not an exaggeration to say that he is a handsome uncle.
However, now he looks old and fat, and standing with the young and beautiful Xiao Liu can be said to be very discordant.
This also made Nupaan better for Xiao Liu, and almost everything followed herAfter all, he still loves his beautiful and young wife very much.
But since the second half of this year, Nupaan has complained to his brother several times
His brother asked him if he had changed, and Nupaan couldn't say anything, so he only scribbled upShe had no idea what contentment was, and she was always unsatisfied. ”
Nupaan didn't want to talk to others, but he found that his wife was really getting more and more excessive, and his Chinese wife would say from time to time"I want to take my children back to China for ten days and half a month, what do you think?”
There is also the fact that her dress is really too open, she doesn't know how reserved at all, and it's completely different from the past, for example, she will look in the mirror and say:"I love this tight skirt so much, it's sure to be a big hit when you wear it to a party!”
Naturally, it was impossible for Nupaan to agree to his wife to go to China alone, let alone accept her dressing up fancy and running to the banquet.
But I didn't expect that with Nupaan's opposition again and again,Xiao Liu actually started to lose his temper at him, accusing Nupaan of disrespecting her!
Nupaan is really wronged, he can really be said to be very good to his wife, she can give whatever she wants, but she doesn't know contentment at allSince he arranged for his three eldest sons to work in the company, she has become more and more unreasonable.
One day, Xiao Liu actually came back from outside wearing a swaggering red dress, Nupaan was really angry this time, no Indian wife would be so disobedient like him, a Chinese wife!
Nupaan asked Xiao Liu with an angry temperament"What the hell do you want?Am I not good enough for you?Why are you always not satisfied?”
Xiao Liu, who was gorgeous, didn't care about the angry Nupaan at all, and seemed to have eaten him, so he just said lightly"I just went out to dinner with my sisters, and I didn't do anything, what are you throwing tantrums?”
Nupaan was even more annoyed by Xiao Liu's dismissive attitude, and never gave her any face anymore, saying:"No Indian man's wife would dress like you!”
Xiao Liu was directly retorted by Nupaan's words:"What's wrong with me wearing this?You India is outrageous!This is not the case at all in China!I can wear whatever I want!”
At this moment, Nupaan felt that he was really majestic, and he blurted out cruel words:"Then you go back to China!We are divorced!”
A hint of panic crossed Nupaan's eyes as he said this, but he quickly calmed down, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt that he was okay with doing so.
Xiao Liu's eyes widened when he heard this, he looked at Nupaan in shock, and asked in disbelief"You're going to drive me away?”
In just a minute or two, Nupaan was more sober than ever, and he began to question himself why he had to put up with this shameless woman all the time!
Nupaan's voice became more determined after he wanted to pass, and he said:"Yes!Don't think I have to be you!There are so many women who are younger and more beautiful than you!If you think China is better, then you go back to China!”
At this time, Xiao Liu was completely panicked, she looked at Nupaan in a panic, wanting to see his reluctance and regret from his face, but unfortunately she was disappointed.
Xiao Liu, who quickly recognized the reality, realized that he might have really gone too far, and he had overdone it, and Nupaan was really angry this time.
Xiao Liu's attitude immediately softened, she stepped forward and hugged Nupaan, and said softly with a begging meaning:"I'm sorry, I know it's wrong, husband, give me another chance, I'll be very obedient, I'm sorry, forgive me, okay?".”
She cried while begging for Nupaan's forgiveness, crying so pitifully that she was very pitiful, and she used her soft voice to tell her uneasiness and her liking for Nupaan, at the same timeConstantly emphasizing that she bore him 3 sonsYunyun, crying and begging him not to abandon himself.
Nupaan finally forgave Xiao Liudid not mention the divorce again, but began to restrict her from going out, she had to report when she went out, and at the same time it was forbidden to wear short skirts and the like.
In fact, Nupaan also realized what Xiao Liu was thinking, that is, she was afraid that she would completely hand over the company to the three sons of her first wife, so that her children would have nothing, she was very anxious and worried, so she began to do all kinds of thingsWanting to make him treat her better, compromise with her.
But Xiao Liu made a big mistake, and that isAlthough Nupaan liked her very much, he didn't have to be her, he has money and status, and it is not impossible to change a woman.
After this episode, Nupaan did not pay attention to and liked Xiao Liu in the past, and was more wary of her. He even carried Xiao Liu behind his back and posted the matter between the two plus some of his own speculations on the Internetridiculed Xiao Liu on the Internet for not being self-sufficient, and also ridiculed Chinese women for being stupid in using this kind of unconventional cleverness on Indian men.
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