1. The phenomenon that it is difficult for rural boys to marry daughters-in-law: There are very many rural men who beat up singles, which has become a strange problem that is difficult to solve. Although rural families are generally wealthier and have small western-style houses and cars, there are still a large number of men who have not been able to find a wife. What are the reasons for this phenomenon?
On the one hand, the reason is that with the development of society, the concept of marriage in rural areas has undergone some changes. In the past, marriage was a family burden for rural men, who were responsible for taking care of and supporting the entire family. However, in modern society, the awakening of women's sense of independence and the increase in career choices have made many women no longer pursue a sense of security and economic security through marriage, but more to pursue personal careers and self-realization.
On the other hand, the difficulty of marrying a wife is also related to the gap between urban and rural areas. With the advancement of urbanization, the demographic dividend of rural areas is no longer there, while the demand of cities is getting higher and higher. Many outstanding women choose to work in the city in search of better development opportunities. This has led to a decrease in the competitiveness of rural men in the marriage market and difficulties in finding their ideal partner.
In addition, the traditional attitudes of society also affect the problem of marriage in rural areas. Although the material conditions in the rural areas have improved, people's thinking and concepts are relatively lagging behind. Some rural men still tend to marry younger women to meet their own needs and traditional beliefs, ignoring women's personal wishes and room for growth.
In response to this problem, we may need to re-examine the concept of rural marriage, cultivate men's sense of family responsibility, change the society's view of women's marriage, promote the balanced development of urban and rural areas, and provide more employment opportunities and development platforms, so as to increase the competitiveness of rural men in the marriage market. Only in this way can we solve the problem of the difficulty for rural boys to marry daughters-in-law.
2. The phenomenon of young women in rural areas becoming young grandmothers: The number of daughters-in-law in rural areas becoming "young grandmothers" and becoming "supporters" in the family is constantly increasing, which has become a very strange phenomenon in rural areas. Why is this happening?
This phenomenon may be related to the concept of marriage in rural areas, family structure and economic situation. In the past, in rural areas, marriage was more of a marriage relationship between families, and mutual support and family responsibilities between husband and wife were very important. However, in modern society, with the rapid development of urbanization, the economic conditions in rural areas have been greatly improved, and some changes have taken place in social concepts. This has led to an imbalance in the division of family responsibilities among some newlyweds.
On the other hand, rural families have also begun to pursue a higher quality of life after their economic situation has improved. This has led to an increase in the family's financial expenditure, and at the same time, it has also placed higher demands on the roles and responsibilities of the daughter-in-law. Due to the lag in values, some rural men still regard marriage as an economic exchange relationship and place too high expectations on their wives, hoping that they can serve as "young grandmothers" and serve their lives wholeheartedly.
In addition, the constraints of traditional roles in society and the influence of family education may also be one of the reasons why young rural girls become "young grandmothers". In some families, women's traditional roles are those of the breadwinner's wife, and they have accepted the traditional notion of male superiority and inferiority under the influence of their parents' education and society. This has led some women to demand more from themselves after marriage, hoping to satisfy their material and enjoyment needs by becoming a "young grandmother", as well as to meet society's expectations of marital status.
In view of this phenomenon, we need to promote the renewal of the concept of marriage, strengthen family education, and cultivate the awareness of equality and respect between husband and wife and the sharing of family responsibilities. At the same time, it is also necessary to solve the problems of the rural economic structure, provide more employment opportunities and development platforms for rural women, so that they can realize their own life values independently.
3. Rural people are generally a phenomenon of leisure and entertainment all day long: Now rural people do farm work very easily, and the mechanization of agricultural production has liberated farmers from heavy manual labor, so rural people have nothing to do half of the time every year. This phenomenon may be related to the transformation and upgrading of the rural economy and the process of agricultural modernization.
With the development of rural economy and the advancement of agricultural modernization, the traditional agricultural production methods are changing. Farmers can use the time saved to participate in other activities, such as self-employment, rural tourism, culture and entertainment, etc. At the same time, the economic transformation of rural areas has also brought some employment opportunities, and farmers can choose to work outside the home or engage in non-agricultural industries to improve their income and quality of life.
However, the phenomenon of leisure and recreation all day long also reflects the problems of cultivating rural talents, adjusting the agricultural structure, and sustainable development of the rural economy. Due to the limitations of education level and vocational skills, some farmers lack the awareness and knowledge ability of transformation and upgrading, and cannot effectively participate in modern agricultural production. At the same time, the industrial structure of the rural areas has not yet been completely transformed, and farmers are unable to find more meaningful and income-generating jobs during the slack period.
1.Improve the education level and vocational skills of farmers and help them adapt to the needs of modern agricultural production. We should increase investment in rural education, provide more opportunities for vocational training and skills training, and improve the quality and ability of farmers.
2.We should promote the adjustment of the agricultural structure and encourage the peasants to develop diversified operations. Through policy guidance and financial support, we will promote the development of new agricultural business entities, encourage farmers to engage in emerging industries such as the combination of planting and breeding, agriculture and tourism, and agriculture and culture, so as to improve their income levels.
3.Strengthen the construction of rural communities and enrich cultural and recreational activities in rural areas. Encourage farmers to participate in rural tourism, cultural performances, sports and other activities to improve their quality of life and spiritual satisfaction.
4.Promote the sustainable development of the rural economy and create more employment opportunities and entrepreneurial platforms. Through the development of rural industries and service industries, we will attract more foreign investment and enterprises, and provide more employment and entrepreneurial opportunities for farmers.
In short, the phenomenon of rural people's leisure and entertainment all day long is a manifestation of the transformation and upgrading of the rural economy, but it also needs to be paid attention to and solved to ensure the cultivation of rural talents and the sustainable development of the economy.