Love is not a business, but it has the attributes of a commodity. Only when there is a reasonable exchange of value emotionally can the desired relationship last.
It is not what he wants that binds a man's heart, but what he can give.
It is enough for a woman who can really touch a man's heart to know three sentences.
First of all, women with core competencies will be cherished by men.
Once at the breakfast shop, the hostess scolded me for forgetting to pay. I was angry at the time and thought I would never go to this breakfast shop again, but later I went again because it was cheap, tasted the best and was closest to home, so I preferred it.
It can be said that this restaurant is competitive compared to other breakfast places in the family.
When it comes to running a marriage, competitive women will also be the ones men are willing to continue to invest in.
As I asked my husband, the seven-year itch is coming, and future married life may become more and more boring. Would I choose an extramarital affair?The other party said no.
When asked why, he admitted that losing his wife, who could earn tens of thousands of dollars a month, for the sake of temporary freshness was an unworthy decision.
In fact, there really is no love for no reason. True love can only be eternal if you make yourself worthy of love.
Women have their own core competitiveness and are the best cost-effective, so men will not give up easily.
Second, whether a man loves you or not depends on whether you love yourself or not.
There's a saying that's particularly well said:
What a person does to you is actually allowed by himself. Men don't love you either.
I read a story:
It's about a woman being sold to a remote place to marry a local man. The man was very good to the woman, but the woman always wanted to run away, so the man began to beat the woman violently, scarred, doubting her life, and almost died.
Until women begin to wake up, not to run away but to be beaten, to start fighting back, to beat men hard, to change the situation in which they were beaten, to get the respect of men, and life to begin to get better.
When you get along with others, your attitude towards yourself directly affects how others treat you. If you don't know how to love yourself well, you only know how to humbly please others, you can't naturally get the respect of the other person;
If you are not treated well, but you have been patient, it will only cause habitual disregard and ruthlessness from men.
A woman who knows how to treat herself well will become a wealth that will be pampered and cherished by men.
Third, a woman who can make a man remember a moment is the right person.
I saw a person post such a circle of friends:
Why I didn't do it right, how I wanted to be affirmed, not blamed.
Someone below replied that emotionally, not blaming is a man's greatest emotional value.
It is true that a woman who can walk into a man's heart must be a woman who knows how to give him emotional value. What is more worth pondering is that a woman who can make a man never forget to welcome him into his life is the right person who is truly recognized by him in his heart.
The so-called right person can not only give men enough emotional value, but also know how to meet men's inner needs, so that men feel that the two people are incomparably compatible.
Just like in the ordinary world, Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian only met on a blind date, but later Sun Shaoan and He Xiulian became more and more inseparable, because He Xiulian became Sun Shaoan's right-hand man in life and emotion, and then he gradually opened his heart and became more and more trusted.
Love is not static. Sometimes, when you love, there is no feeling, no relationship between two people.
But the essence of getting along is the same, and the person who deserves to be loved will always have.